I am nearly 21 years old. Im a virgin n have been best mates wiv this stunning girl i met at college for 2 years, she's a year younger than me. I fancied her immediately, she's beautiful. I talked 2her n we became friends, she's really cool n we are always laughing! Shed a boyfriend til 5 months ago, i didnt like him, she was always moaning about him. Ive never had a girlfriend n i am clinically obese about 100lbs overweight. Id lots of friends in school who were girls but asked a few out who said 'no'. I went to a catholic school n was taught to respect women, i want my 1st time to be wiv some1 i love n care about. Me n this girl r close, always cuddling n holding hands. I get butterflys. I told her i loved her more than just friends n she returned my feelings. We were at my house, we kissed n she took her top off, she's sexy. I was all worked up n kissed her breasts, she pulled my head up n said 'NO'! then left! I feel i did something wrong? She's not answering my calls n i miss her!
2007-11-27 22:02:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guess she's not ready...
take it in a stride..
good luck!
2007-11-28 00:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by maej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she took her top of so there is something there.there hav been times in my life wen iv been attracted to someone emotionally but didnt fancy them(why we remained just friends)you need to talk to her and ask her straight up how she feels.Glad to hear you respect women and want someone specialwhy dont you try and shape up a little if this girl means so much put some effort in and get your girl if that cant motivate you to get healthier wot will.you sound lovely and very understanding you didnt do anything wrong and you didnt disgust her this girl sounds confused.be open give her time tel her what she means to you and that you care for her so much u never want to lose her even if it is only friendship.good luck xxxxx remember motivate yourself you CAN do it
2007-11-28 06:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by sweeti1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is embarrased that she let you go that far because she is not interested in you that way.
You will need to write her a note apologizing if you still want her friendship.
2007-11-28 06:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask her what she feels about you.
if she took her top off, what was she expecting to happen?
you didnt do anything wrong.
2007-11-28 06:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋