Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

Not to make girl-friend, I just want to have friends who are girls also. My guy friends bore me, I'm up for something new.

I like having conversations with people who actually understand me. Plus they are sensitive and like to listen. They also aren't afraid to tell you they want to be heard too.

I just don't know what to do, of course you can't approuch someone and say "hey, wanna be friends"?

What should I do/How should I go about doing this?

Thanks, any help is appreciated ;)

2007-11-27 18:11:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi Guys!
I've got a very good friend on net. We are just net friends. We have never met personally, though he has seen my pics and has seen me twice or thrice somewhere in the market. I've also seen his pic but have never seen him personally.
Inspite of this fact, he's my very good friend. We talk everyday on net.
But now from the last few days, he is behaving in a unusual manner. He felt bad when one of my close friends said something good about me, still , things went ok in 2-3 days. Now, from the last 3-4 days, he is continuously telling me about some other gal who has recently become his friend. This irritates me.
Though i've no problem if he talks to her but it irritates me when he has nothing to talk to except that girl. He asked me to add her as my friend but i felt that is none of my business.
It is due to this reason, i didnt talk to him yesterday and now he's showing anger but not saying straight that he's feeling bad coz i didnt talk to him. He never says straight what he likes,
He also tells that he wants to talk to me, he has my phone number too but never calls. Nor he is ready to give his number to me. Dont know why?? A few days back he said he will call but didnt. and it happens everytime.
Can anybody tell, whats happening?? I am very much confused with this guy.

2007-11-27 18:08:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been single too long, and am getting older to where I cannot attract a nice lady (I'm 40). I'm so lonely! Looking for any last ditch suggestions.

2007-11-27 18:08:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Although I'm single, I can fall for a guy hard. But I always seem to fall for the same types of guys. Now, I know I'm far from perfect, but these guys tell me I'm perfect in the way that I'm everything they're looking for. They tell me I'm beautiful, smart, energetic, kind, and sexually charged, which in general, I agree with, and they say they want to be with me but seem to get scared off. They usually run off to be with the energetic, sexy girls (who, usually, cheat on them and break their hearts within a month and the guy says "why can't she be sweet like you?") or the sweet, safe girls (who they complain bore them to tears "why can't they be exciting like you?"). But that's who they commit to, not me, and I'm a mix of the two types! It hurts more when they tell me I'm perfect. I'd rather they tell me what's wrong with me so at least I'd understand. Why do men do this?

2007-11-27 18:07:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okso i was (in my definition) raped...and though i dont blame other guys for that one's evilness... how can i ever trust them again?

2007-11-27 18:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i just want to make my friends and family smile so ive been doing youtube vids of me lip synching..
and now i have no idea wat songs wud be entertaining to lip sync.. help!

2007-11-27 17:58:49 · 4 answers · asked by sincerelyjackie 2 in Family

I had bestfriend from online. Things were not going well (in his opinion) then with unknown reason he pushed me away. But then I found out, he still chat with other friend (my friend from real life). I felt betrayal and confused what makes him did that. He still read my blog regularly but refuse to chat with me. What should I do? I am angry and hate him but he ‘haunted’ me since my friend keep mention about him. FYI: we r pure friend

2007-11-27 17:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by worth2try 1 in Friends

My brother inlaw Matt 19 has always been golden child to my father in law despite fact he is meth head who beats wife, mother, father, has destroyed their home by breaking doors windows and stolen their jewelry,checks, money, he even busted their safe!They always call my hubby to help control him and he always does. But my F.I.L won't let poor Matt take the beating he needs and will wind up defending him. Anyway we had bought a housetrailer and stored it at my inlaws and my hubby found that Matt stole the copper wire out of trailer and sold it for drugs.My hub confronted Matt and the fight starts, which would have been ok, but my F.I.L[275lbs] jumped on my hubbys back before he got lick in and rode him to the ground, and held him in choke hold while Matt kicks him in the face with his boots. Now Matt bragging he beat his brother and F.I.L acts like he did no wrong. Of course hub is hurt by this but we have no solution but to cut ties..what would you do in this situation?

2007-11-27 17:57:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-27 17:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by Prince K 4 in Friends

My mum is old and frail and I don't think she'll be around much longer. I love her dearly but we've never really been close.
There's so many things I want to know about her but don't know where to start.
What's the most important thing you wish you'd asked your mum?

2007-11-27 17:56:23 · 8 answers · asked by grrrl 3 in Family

I want to woo her.

2007-11-27 17:54:55 · 19 answers · asked by comfort eagle 6 in Singles & Dating

would a woman who is married. with kids. and in her.40.s thing she was decent for comming on to a person who she is old enought to be his mom. i wouldnt thing so well she did and things happened one day and right there in her home it happened . and her man almost caught us that time . she was setting thre like nothing ever happened. is that a decent mother. wife . i wouldnt thing so would you nothing but trash.

2007-11-27 17:54:31 · 10 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am still MADLY in love with this girl, my family is against it and beleives she treats me badly so they dont want me in it. My family means everything to me and i've been through thick and thin with them. My girlfriend also means so much to me and we are both in love. were young but were both in love. what would be the best way to let her know that im scared of being so committed at such a young age, i just want to end it but still be close and love her and just still be apart of her life, im so scared of crushing her cause she still means so much to me. It is getting so bad im almost depressed. I care so much for this girl and HATE to see her hurt. Please help

2007-11-27 17:52:15 · 3 answers · asked by jake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, this question is not for my relationship, but for a dear friend who I am supporting as he goes about trying to break up with someone. Here's the story:

He was married for more than ten years, and he and his wife were separated for the last three years of their marriage. She was really hard on him and pretty much destroyed his self-esteem. He wanted to try counseling, but she was unwilling to own up to her junk (and still won't), so the marriage tanked. He tried really hard to save things, and it just didn't work.

After the divorce, he met a girl and they hit it off really well. For a few months they were inseparable and they decided they would get married. They decided to take things slowly because they have to deal with his ex and the head games she plays with both him and their child. Now it turns out the new girlfriend has some really serious issues, is not willing to own them or work on them, and it just isn't going to work.

2007-11-27 17:52:08 · 6 answers · asked by Bronwen 7 in Singles & Dating

I was on the bus today and my lunch bag fell on the floor under the seat and when the bus stopped the girl in front of me got out of her seat so I went to get my lunch out from under where she was sitting and she came back and accused me of sniffing her bus seat and started screaming , now the bus driver said I have to walk to school...

2007-11-27 17:49:27 · 22 answers · asked by Confused 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 17:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Every weekend we hang out w/my boyfriend's best friend and her husband. I get along w/most people but something about her rubs me the wrong way. I am always polite to her but everytime I talk to her she interrupts me and starts talking about herself and doesn't really listen to me. I feel like she doesn't really want to make the effort to befriend me. Also she always acts like she's 50 in that she never wants to go out (we're all 21-23 years of age). She also makes comments to him all the time like I never thought you two would last this long.
I don't understand it. I'm really trying hard to like this girl and my boyfriend wants us to hang out w/them every weekend so what can I do to make it bearable?
No BS answers, thanks.

2007-11-27 17:46:48 · 3 answers · asked by J 2 in Friends

2007-11-27 17:43:30 · 25 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My (ex) best friend of 20 years has recently started sleeping with my husband. We're still married, although on our way to divorce. We had been talking reconciliation in Sept. when this happened for the first time. Since then, they have been trying to keep it quiet, but my 4 year old son cries when he comes home from visitation. She has always been involved in his life. In fact, my son calls her Auntie. Suddenly, she is sleeping with his dad & that confuses him. Incidentally, she left her husband at the end of Aug. & is a new separtee herself.

She text messaged me tonight & asked me if we could still be friends. It was all I could do to not tell her what I really think - that she's a whore & a back-stabbing b****. Instead, I told her that I would have been there for her, but she hurt me very badly & I didn't think we could be friends anymore.

Isn't there an unwritten rule that you NEVER sleep with your friends' spouses? Does anyone else think this is wrong???

2007-11-27 17:42:53 · 15 answers · asked by Shannon H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The ring has pink saphires on each side. I was looking at an emerald cut, but it might not fit the style of this ring. Thoughts? I don't want it to look cheesy.... But it did catch my eye.

Here is the link for a picture of the ring

http://www.bluenile.com/assets/product_images/rings/CM30400200_RD_100_zoom.jpg

2007-11-27 17:42:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My brother is 34 y/o. He still lives with my mother who works full time, pays everything and he pays nothing and contributes nothing. She even pays someone to mow her lawn when he is fit and able. She complains to you constantly but won't take any advice. What do you do?

2007-11-27 17:39:03 · 22 answers · asked by Aus_angel 3 in Family

I get annoyed very easy and usually find a way to get out of any relationship. I come up with any lame excuse tio cut all ties with that person. I have done it to just about every female friend I have and I am slowly realizing that these women were amaxing, but I was to self centered and afaird to commit. I know it's way to late for trying to reconnect with women that I just would never call back.( they would make plans with me and I wouldn't show up, because I was messing with another women or doing something else) they would call me for about a week, then they would give up and stop calling. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? everyone in my life has let me down, so I guess I wanted to leave before they hurt me???? Could you give me some advice? thanks>

2007-11-27 17:38:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 17:37:55 · 37 answers · asked by fatandsmooth 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine asked: How do you tell your girlfriend that she is too hairy down there? Be gentle please.

2007-11-27 17:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know why i want to marry my fiancee, but he thinks differently about marriage. i want to know what other peaople think. maybe i have the worng info and dont know the realy meaning.

2007-11-27 17:36:55 · 12 answers · asked by luvly_lady3426 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am almost twenty and I haven't had sex, the reason for this is mainly because I am overweight and I am worried I don't look "normal" or "attractive" naked, another worry is constantly that guys don't know how wreched I look naked. I feel terrible about myself, does anyone have some advice? It's starting to get in the way of my relationships...

2007-11-27 17:36:35 · 33 answers · asked by breathe___x 2 in Singles & Dating

She's a new friend who has some interests I don't share. She invited me to an art exhibit. Should I go with her to the art gallery even though I don't like looking at art or should I suggest something we both might like instead?

2007-11-27 17:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by JTS 1 in Friends

i can't have sex for a year! how should i cope?

2007-11-27 17:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so theres this boy at school right and hes totally cute . But i dont know if he likes me. like hes always all touchy feely with me and even though we dont sit by each other anymore he enjoys waving accross the room at me and tryng to talk to me. he gets bummed out when i say im not going to the same place as him. He is in th same sport and he asksme if he could borrow my jacket(all the time) aand hes trying to get me to like his kind of music so hard.he made me a cd. and hes always looking at me. Hes shared gum with me before and like, asked me for deoderant he gave me his backpack because i really liked it and he will do pretty much anything i might ask him to do. the thing is.....hes boy stupid, like i have no idea if he even realizes hes doing these things or if he actually likes me. im so confused. heeellllpp

2007-11-27 17:33:52 · 9 answers · asked by V 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my really good friends recently broke his femer and tore ligaments playing soccer. He was devistated when he learned he made the team but couldn't play. The Doctor recently told us he may be out of sports for good! we don;t know how to break it to him....any ideas?

2007-11-27 17:33:42 · 1 answers · asked by ☮Kayareeyees☮ 4 in Friends