Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

i felt bad everytime i spoke to my husband about money,what will i do?

2007-11-27 20:32:59 · 15 answers · asked by Joanne W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i prove to my self that i can do everything?

2007-11-27 20:27:15 · 10 answers · asked by Joanne W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years and am looking to pop the question over the Christmas break (we are both college students graduating in may). I could pop the question as soon as she gets off the plane from visiting her mother over Christmas, or I could wait until she gets back and do it somewhere else after a nice dinner.

So my question is:
Where do I ask her?
When should I ask her? (Christmas day is out... she doesn't get back till new years eve)
If I should do the traditional romantic dinner, where should we do it?

2007-11-27 20:24:53 · 4 answers · asked by eck_03 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i told this guy i liked him on myspace coz he had liked me for ages and still does and he said on myspace: yeh i reckon we shouldn't go out coz school is like nearlly finished but we can act like it if u know what i mean?
i had no idea what he meant! so i sent a message back asking him yesterday about it and he hasn;t replied yet and hes been on and off myspace ever since i asked him....at school today he hardly even talked to me except when he asked me how recess was. im realli confused. he realli likes me..but is acting kinda weird? or is it just me?

2007-11-27 20:23:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an extremely hard time making small talk. I'm the kind that shoots straight for personal or heavy.

Is it true that I'm doomed unless I can make a girl laugh right off the bat?

I like bookish poetic girls but again small talk is not my strength. If I attempt small talk it's usually from left field.

2007-11-27 20:21:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is this book credible and right on the money? or is it a bit overrated

2007-11-27 20:21:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this girl who a friend of mine that her and fiance broke up and i guess i need tips on helping me feel better shes been crying alot and i been trying to help her but she came around for a little and now its back and i dont know what to do :(

2007-11-27 20:20:52 · 5 answers · asked by bobby 2 in Singles & Dating

Now it burns like heck. Is there some type of ointment to make the burning sensation go away?

2007-11-27 20:16:16 · 14 answers · asked by Greed...Is Good 3 in Friends

Hey people, I'm 17 and in a strong relationship, me and my boyfriend have a great sex life and he never fails to satisfy me.
I'm a bit embarrassed about this but although i'm a 100% certain abotu my sexuality i can't help but fantasising over having sex with another girl, just the thought turns me on and drives me wild.
Is this normal?

2007-11-27 20:09:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you first had sex, did the earth move for you or was it a disaster ?

2007-11-27 20:07:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex had naked fotos of a female friend whom he also works with and when i found them, dumped him.

He's now calling and says it wasn't an affair. She sent them to him and he just hadn't got around to deleting them. I'm not buying it but do wonder.

I mean, I would never send such pix of myself to anyone, not even him. But does that mean that if she did, they're not necessarily having an affair?

Either way, I still think it's inappropriate. Am I alone in thinking that?

2007-11-27 20:04:34 · 36 answers · asked by noodlemcgoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Especially if he is a bartender, and he is just being polite? I know a bartender whi hugged a big girl, but she threw herself at him before she left the bar. When she said bye, he barely said bye or paid attention to the fact that she was leaving. But she kept hanging around by the door trying to talk to all the other bartenders and when he walked over to see the commotion, she grabbed his hand and then hugged him. They had their hands on each other's shoulders and did a little dance. He didn't look too comfy. Just wondering.

2007-11-27 20:02:34 · 6 answers · asked by So adorable 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 20:01:51 · 12 answers · asked by Alice N 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and find it so annoying when people at the ages of like 10 to like 18 say they love eachother when they have been going out for like 3 days. Honestly to tell you the truth they don't know what love is and I don't even know what love is yet. It just is something that really bothers me I cannot stand it. Does this bug anyone else? It's just stupid in my opinion. I also think it is stupid kids date at like 9 years old (they too say "I Love You") its just crazy.... Anyway anyone else feel this way?

2007-11-27 20:01:18 · 14 answers · asked by I like the color Pink 2 in Singles & Dating

k so here's the thing... I'm a 2nd year in a boarding skool... and iv gt a thing fr this girl in the year below me.. There have been several occassions were i caught her eye and she looked away or both of us traded glances for a second or 2...( i can't figure out whether that means anyting) haven't really spoken.. i never really get the chance to.. considering she's in a different house and we dont share the same lessons & she's always surrounded by her friends when i do bump into her....

but anyways.. im going crazy! literally.. i just cant get her outta my head.. and i can't seem to understand what to do! she's really pretty maybe not as hot as some others.. but theres just something about her!

Pleaase help me!!!! what do i do?

2007-11-27 19:59:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a single mother that works from 6pm to 6am Friday, Saturday and Sunday, and my mother watches my 2 year old son during the time I work and sleep. The problem is that she need to sleep during Monday morning cause she works on second shift, and all these year I can't keep a wake to watch my son. I make sure he's in a safe place before I fall asleep but I hate it cause I miss out on him half the day. I need so advice on how to stay awake.

2007-11-27 19:55:45 · 4 answers · asked by ladyebi00 2 in Family

I mean where I'm from.If you tell a guy how you feel,you're desperate.They say you should wait for the guy to come and talk to you and tell you how HE feels.
What if he's too shy to do that?

2007-11-27 19:54:20 · 23 answers · asked by Straight Up! 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently started a relationship with this guy who really likes me, but I always go back and forth in my mind whether I truly like him or not, and whether I should be with him. I would like to keep the relationship going just to see where it goes, but on the other hand I don't know if I can be with him if I don't truly like him. I would really rather just be friends, but I don't think it'd work out since we have already passed the friendship part and I don't think we could return to that b/c it'd be too awkward. Please help I'm going crazy thinking about this all the time!

2007-11-27 19:49:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok now , my elder brother got a store and i help him out there.... a guy who usually come to the store , he jokes around ,friend of my brother , and i really like him ......he told me everyday , that i m beautiful and pretty .........and couple of times he ask for my fone number , but my brother always there ,and when i didnt respond he just make it a joke .....everytime he told me that " U MAKE MY DAY WHENEVER I COME TO THE STORE"......now

WHAT THIS ALL MEANS????
WHAT DO U THINK SHOULD I GIVE HIM MY NUMBER AND IF YES THEN HOWWWW ???? I really like him but i m not sure if he likes me too or just kidding...plus he is my brother's friend so i dont wanna make fun of myself...may be he dont like me and i m just thinking it this way............. I dont know , please help ...THANX

2007-11-27 19:46:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have noticed things coming up missing in my home then I thought it might be my daughter, I got her in a good rehab. last yr she is doing drugs, well over the summer i caught her stealing money, and my meds. well this fall my husband is missing all kinds of power tools, we went to the police and and they are investigating, well my husbands collects collector HO trains well thousands of dollars are gone in train engines and i talked to some of there friend and they fessed up her husband took them and trying to sell them for drugs, my husband is crushed he has been collecting them for 30 yrs and me and him just been married 4 yrs I called the police again, and they wont do nothing please help what do i do my husband wants to beat him to death, but what hurts so bad my daughter was involved, and she is 7 months pregnant and she has only been married 1 yr he was a piece of **** then and he is now we have done so much for them , she called the cops on me today for phone hurrassment.

2007-11-27 19:40:42 · 11 answers · asked by Warm_Hearted 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 19:32:35 · 16 answers · asked by Raj 1 in Singles & Dating

He's 11, and he's afraid of the dark! Most of his friends aren't anymore! He used to sleep with his light on, but my dad said, the bills are getting higher, so he's gotta sleep with the lights off from now on. And the instant our folks turn out the light, he makes a run for the door! He says, "Mom, Dad, can I sleep with Tommy? Please?" What do we do? Should I move my stuff to his room? It's always a hastle when he transfers to my room at night, and I'm already on the verge of falling asleep, or I have to talk with my girlfriend on the phone!

2007-11-27 19:27:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hes asked me to decide and let him know tonight....on the first and second dates we went for a meal then a couple of drinks. any ideas??

2007-11-27 19:25:39 · 4 answers · asked by Invincible! 3 in Singles & Dating

i wanna xpress my feeling to my boyfriend without saying i love you. cuz i do that all the time.. i want sumthing different, sumthing not stupid. just nice n loving. any suggestions on websites will b great as well.

2007-11-27 19:22:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Used to have it all the time then about 6 years ago we went to once a month which then dwindled to virtually never. Last time we actually had penetrative sex was over a year ago and the last time he actually came was over 5 years ago now.
Obviously there is something wrong. We are both in our 30's. He won't talk to me about it and i feel like a nympho if I even suggest it. What can I do?

2007-11-27 19:17:22 · 28 answers · asked by Kurious Kat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband dont know that I am here too..i am actaully spying him...most of his answer here are answering question to women how they look like..do i need help or him?

2007-11-27 19:14:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do some men and women have such a problem with it? I have a couple of friends that think it would be the end of the world if they split up with their spouses, even though they are in bad marriages. I just did not want to be married to her any more so I divorced her, it was very easy. Why is it so hard for people to leave a bad situation? It really made my life easier and much better.

2007-11-27 19:06:37 · 5 answers · asked by All Knowing 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend feels a little sad. he doesnt really know why. i wanna help him out.what can i do?

2007-11-27 19:01:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for the past two years; we live together. I'm 23, he's 25. Same old story, sex has dwindled off to the point that it's less than once a month these days... and it's both of our faults. Now that the relationship has gone stale, I'm contemplating future choices. What do you think - - is it best to wait until marriage? Or at least until engagement? Interested to hear both males' and females' responses. Thanks in advance... :-)

2007-11-27 19:01:02 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Singles & Dating

He has a personality that always like to put himself first in conversations like they know more than you. Even when he asks for help. This neighbor is really driving me crazy. How have others dealt with people, like this- peticularly living in a strata. I like to be diplomatic, and he seems to exploit me, I feel like crossing the line. I might of already crossed it with some comments. Somebody please help, I am going mad.
Thanks
Steve

2007-11-27 18:57:03 · 4 answers · asked by Steve W (dadeeee007) 1 in Friends