i felt bad everytime i spoke to my husband about money,what will i do?
2007-11-27 20:32:59 · 15 answers · asked by Joanne W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
honey, as you are married to this man you have every right to ask. if you'll get an answer, is another question.
but if you file for a divorce, it is at least necessary for the alimony to know how much each of you has...
2007-11-27 20:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Nova 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that for a marriage to be successful, you should always have an open communication. I don't see anything wrong in asking your husband about money and me and my husband neven had any problems about that... Actually, both of our money are placed together in our cash box... I think that it's alright since you also own what your husband have and vice versa...
2007-11-28 04:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by nanay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the Bill of Rights addresses a wife's "right" to ask her husband about his "money terms".
2007-11-28 04:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Poots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the wrong attitude. A wife has all the right to know and talk about her husbands money. His money is her money.
2007-11-28 11:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whilst your question doesn't particularly make sense, I would say that you don't have a right, but it should be openly spoken about.
If you are divorcing, then it is going to be veiled in secrecy, however, if you are in a relationship, his money is your money and vice versa, so you should both speak about it.
2007-11-28 04:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by MikeD2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If y'all are married, isn't it YOUR money too?
Start talking to your husband now about money issues, before you find yourselves in serious money problems.
You'll have to put your feelings aside and ask, so you know what's going on.
2007-11-28 04:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by tobiemonterrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is like a partnership. You each need to share your concerns and joys. If he were to become ill you should be able to intelligently handle the finances. If you are working you should really share control of the funds.
2007-11-28 04:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what circumstances the question was asked under and what for!
If for bills and shopping then you should really ask if it's for the household money, well actually you shouldn't need to ask him for that, he should hand some over everyweek.
2007-11-28 04:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As your husband it is his obligation to share his financial information with you. If he were just a boyfriend or aquaintance it would be a different story, but come divorce time he won't have a choice.
2007-11-28 04:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by brian f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,in a marriage both parties must be free and open to each other,once either party start keeping things to themselves then mistrust thrives leading to quarrels.Remember your marriage vows.One must be free to ask/talk anything with their partner in a marriage.
2007-11-28 04:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by bushmechanic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋