my boyfriend feels a little sad. he doesnt really know why. i wanna help him out.what can i do?
2007-11-27 19:01:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore the idiot who said give him head.
try talking to him. i know he said he doesnt know why, but maybe if you two spoke, and you let him know that whatever comes into his mind he should say, chances are the subconscious will reveal what is making him sad and he can do something about it. thats what me and my boyfriend do with eachother when we are sad or worried.
do little things for him to cheer him up. put on his fave film, or make a playlist of songs that are happy and bouncing. 2 of my favourites are dancing in the moonlight by toploader, and come fly with me by frank sinatra. hey even ask him to dance with you. pull funny faces, if he likes food, bake him a cake or somethin like that. most of all, remind him that you are there for him day or not if he needs you. thats the most important thing someone can hear.
2007-11-27 19:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, just listen to what he has to say. There is nothing that makes a guy feel better than to just have someone to talk to with no arguments back. You really don't even have to reply much just be consoling and it will help out a bunch.
2007-11-28 03:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by burgler09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I second that previous answer, maybe a lap dance to some slow music?
2007-11-28 03:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be supportive of him.. maybe encourage him to do something he enjoys.. either with or without you.
sometimes we go through spells, that's for sure... if he doesn't start feeling better, maybe he could see a doctor?
i hope he is ok soon.
2007-11-28 03:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may not be the best way for u depending the kind of person u r. but when a guy is down. they need to be loved. u can try kissing.napping.shopping.movie and nething that u would like normally (think about the guy though) think wat he would want
2007-11-28 03:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by delavan_guy_53115 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and give him a hug. and then ignore the first answer to your question. sheesh
2007-11-28 03:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him sleep with your sister. I always feel better after sleeping with your sister.
2007-11-28 03:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something he likes and you don't usually do for him.....
Or just hold him tight and do nothing else. Gives him warmth....
2007-11-28 03:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by t65k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...be naked when he comes home and suck him off...his sadness will go away. But don't talk to him afterwards.
2007-11-28 03:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by sivdog21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have unbelievable sex with him or find him a stripper.
2007-11-28 03:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by dorril27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋