I'm 14 and find it so annoying when people at the ages of like 10 to like 18 say they love eachother when they have been going out for like 3 days. Honestly to tell you the truth they don't know what love is and I don't even know what love is yet. It just is something that really bothers me I cannot stand it. Does this bug anyone else? It's just stupid in my opinion. I also think it is stupid kids date at like 9 years old (they too say "I Love You") its just crazy.... Anyway anyone else feel this way?
2007-11-27 20:01:18 · 14 answers · asked by I like the color Pink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree that in some cases teenagers really do fall in love but they are just saying it to be saying it most of the time
2007-11-27 20:12:12 · update #1
A very intelligent question - well done!
You are absolutely correct: in fact, I could not agree with you more!
I wish there were more people with your degree of common sense in this world, I really do. Saying what you said took guts, and you should be proud of yourself.
I wish you well.
2007-11-27 20:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by colonel25743 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally know what you mean. I remember myself in middle school all like "oh, I love so and so." While we grow up, we learn and find out that what we thought then is completely different to how we see the world now.
For those people saying "I love you" a million times to each other just when the relationship started, I say, monkey poo. They are at the point where they have no other way to phrase their thoughts about their significant other, and don't have any reasons to why they say these words.
Really though. When a person asks why you love them, you can't just say "I don't know, I just love them." There are actual reasons out there to why people love each other. I believe that you should only say that you love somebody if a relationship has been built up with time and when you find yourself appreciating their sole existence. This may include the sex life, but 'love' shouldn't be completely based off sex; which would instead be complete lust.
2007-11-27 20:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to be in a relationship for many weeks, possibly even several months, before I would think of saying that. As a rule I wouldn't say it if I didn't feel it. Although... hmmm... one time I said it after 3 days and I felt like a total fool, and another time I said it to a girl only because she said it to me so as not to hurt her feelings, and again I felt like a fool. So in future, I've decided to be quite strict with myself and only say it when I genuinely feel it. If you're genuine about it, then you can't go far wrong.
As for 9 year old kids dating, they know nothing about anything to be honest. They should be playing with Barbie dolls or something - they are still children. I find the sexualization of younger children by advertisers etc SO GROSS AND INAPPROPRIATE... eeuuu.
2007-11-27 20:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People say ILY.
But they dont mean it. They say ILY after three days of dating and another 5 days time they break up and they say I HATE YOU FOREVER. This happens in my school and i'm only one year older than you are.
Sometimes in this world, some words said are not meant .
ILY now sounds like, one stupid phrase just to catch someone's heart. it dosnt mean what it's supposed to mean,
2007-11-27 20:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Foo J {: 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am almost 40 and its very refreshing to see a young person feeling this way. Too often they confuse lust with love. Very insightful of you. I would say you have a great head on your shoulders!
2007-11-27 20:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by billies35 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea.....i agree on dat.....sometimes people around their teenager age just doesn't knw what they are dealing with...i mean......they may be saying sweet words and talks all those stuff but to they really mean it??? and do they knw wat's goin on in the future when they are older?? naive people will think they knw whats goin to happen and dat is true happinest of life....LOL
But not all people are like dat......some couples around teenager age are really long lasting relationship and is meant for each other.......but that's rare thou....not everyone could experience dat in life nw....
2007-11-27 20:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha yeah, a bit. i think its a bit ridiculous to say those 3 special words the can mean so much to someone so early in a relationship. i say give it at least 2 weeks to a month!
2007-11-27 20:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sad part is that those "LOVERS" are probably going to end up as just another statistic, teen parents.
So, beware the teen love bug
2007-11-27 20:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by what_a_saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because it is only a crush or infatuation. Once they experience love, they will realize how ridiculous they sounded.
2007-11-27 20:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
REad every single question that gets posted in this category. That's basically everything you just said.
2007-11-27 20:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋