Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

OK simple question-please only serious advice-I`ll keep it brief.?
OK-met a guy who lives in another town-he seemed really into me a couple of months ago-but the last time I saw him-although he was different-we are both in relationships that are not working anymore-since then I haven`t heard from him,but he`s not big on communication-I won`t go onto why-too long a story.
All i know is he gives me all the signs he likes me-but then silence.
I don`t know if he`s worried about others getting hurt by this-I know I am-or did I just misread him ?
Thanks.

2007-11-24 23:57:16 · 11 answers · asked by jennywilson1334 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very frustrated w/ my parents. It's always the same argueing, curing, and yelling on weekends. My thanksgiving break was crappy and oh yea last night was a whopper! My mom bought some brandy and my dad slept in the living room. She came in and deflated the mattress he slept on and got mad. They started argueing over some woman I've never even heard before. She called the cops and next thing you know dad's gone. Now its 4-5 AM this morning he knocks on the door and she lets him in. In the bedroom they start argueing again and i couldn't sleep for another hour. Now around 6:30 AM she gets up and tries to wake me up for church. I tell her no and she keep comming in my room. She didn't say anything about going before. I had no clean clothes to wear since they were all dirty. And my eyes were extremely heavy. What was I supposed to do? She then said I was the devil like her daddy. How am I the devil if i don't do anything to hurt people? Now I'm home alone. Was I wrong?

2007-11-24 23:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you have a relative that is so deep in the closet that even they themselves may not know they are gay? How old is this person? Do you think they will ever come out? Why or why not?

I have a relative who I believe moved across the country so he could be gay and not deal with his family. I don't care what he does I just think there are many more people like this than we tend to believe.

2007-11-24 23:54:52 · 11 answers · asked by Teresa 5 in Family

What are really my options?Should I or shouldn't I say at least goodbye to him or leave him without a word or anything.What I mean is I still don't want him to feel any pain inspite of his attitude towards me.Pls. tell me.

2007-11-24 23:49:19 · 3 answers · asked by lorelie s 1 in Singles & Dating

We're in our early 20's and my boyfriend won't have sex with me. He says he doesn't want to have a kid and that not having sex is 100% the best birth control. He also has had a bad experience with sexual abuse recently. I don't know what to do because it doesn't turn me on when we do anything sexual (unless i'm doing it to him)--when it's my turm i feel like i'm getting a checkup at the gynocologist. I love him and won't leave him but i'm sexually frustrated. We've been together for a year. Am I selfish? Of course, I'll wait for him but he gets pissed when i bring it up. Any advice?

2007-11-24 23:38:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been talking to a guy online, his personality is ok, i mean hes not persfect but i truly am not attracted to him physically however i feel guilty not meeting him for that reason. Do you think my reasons are legitimate. Personally i am rather attractive and dont look for good looking guys specifically as i care more about personality but surely it is important to have a balance otherwise you'll never be happy and content right???

2007-11-24 23:25:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm pretty, funny & smart, self sufficient

2007-11-24 23:22:23 · 30 answers · asked by teriod 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't think i love him. but sometimes, i really miss him. it's so weird. and alot of things remind me of him, too. it's like we have a connection or something.. anyone know what's going on?

2007-11-24 23:06:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I grew up in a disfunctional family, which included alcoholism, depression, mental, physical, and sexual abuse.

2007-11-24 23:03:50 · 7 answers · asked by eaw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-24 23:03:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know is it ok to hug danish girls when you say hello or goodbye? For me this is normal, but since moving here to Denmark I noticed girls tend to shake hands rather than hug. I dont mind shaking hands but it seems so formal. Thanks.

2007-11-24 23:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by p x 1 in Singles & Dating

he's reaally annoying. 8-| i swear, i dont think he's my brother. :| gahh.. he's a very fat pig. all of the negative stuff's in him. :| [maybe not all.] ayyaaa.. how do i make myself not angry at him?? 8-|

2007-11-24 23:01:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when you do it... if the guy finds you attractive he'll ejaculate quicker. but if your ugly wont you enjoy it more becuase it lasts longer.

2007-11-24 22:58:53 · 6 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 22:27:17 · 22 answers · asked by A's 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

About 2 months ago I broke up with a girl, whom I've been on pretty good terms with after about 2 weeks of rumors afterwards about me leaving her for another girl who's a friend of mine. I told her that i didn't like her and i wasn't leaving her for this other girl, which was the truth. But about 2 weeks after this i realized i actually did like this other girl. Now due to a person at school overhearing a conversation with another friend of mine about it, she ended up telling my ex. So now my ex thinks i lied to her and hates me. I don't know how to tell her that i was telling the truth at the time, but now things have changed because, even i admit, the whole situation seems far fetched. I want to make sure everything's ok with my ex and me before i move on with this other girl, who I've found out likes me back. what should i do?

2007-11-24 22:24:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy nick. once i told him that jen my friend likes him . he's like " i dont care" and then he's like "i hope you dont like me , do you?" i said "what do you think" he's like "i dont know" and then i said" no i dont like you" and then he started talking about homework!!! what does this mean?? this guy nick is my friend and he flirts with me many a times too but after this incident he's stopped flirting that much !! will he ever ask me out or just destroyed that possibility . what should i do now ??

2007-11-24 22:23:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A girl smoker. She is 20 so not like a decade of smoking. Is it gross? Any taste, or is it a myth?

2007-11-24 22:22:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi
I'm 17 and I've been wondering for a while now, it seems like I can't find a girlfriend...there's a girl I know, she ugly, short, smells,,she's like a monkey, yet she used to have a boyfriend! I mean...I'm happy for her but...I'm not bad looking...but the thing is I only get out when I go to school..maybe that's why I don't meet new people and also..I'm japanese but I don't live in Japan anymore and here even girls are "bigger" than me...ww could it be that?

2007-11-24 22:21:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am still a virgin girl at 21. I just want to know. Girls say, bigger the man's tool is more happier. Hope you understand what I mean. Is that right? Most of the girls in the university with me are experienced and few are even experts. Hahaha. They say bigger is better. How true is this?

2007-11-24 22:17:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 22:13:31 · 15 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend had been going out for 9months, last night i went out with my mates, and him with his. His mate told him that i have been selping with my ex. He started shouting and physically hurt me. The thing is i don't even keep in contact with my ex. I have been called all the names under the sun.I am so hurt. i need to get over him, because he ovioulsly is not the person who i thought he was. iam so down and i feel so insecure with my self. please give me some advice. thanks

2007-11-24 22:13:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Shouldn't this be a personal choice too?

Nevermind the unrealistic infinity x 1000 promises that are supposed to last an eternity

2007-11-24 22:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hubby out of home for next 3 days. I dont know how to manage when I feel horny? I m sort of pampered with atleast twice a day, morning & evening. First time he is away from me for 3 days. I dont know how to manage.

For you girls, how do you manage when your men are not around?

2007-11-24 22:06:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I llike this guy and im not sure if he likes me. He does the occasional starring atme and i used to talk to him all the time but now i dont have any classes with him. A school dance called girls reverse is coming up and i want to ask him to it, but im afraid he will say no. I've liked him for a long time.What should i do??

2007-11-24 22:02:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a male friend that thinks I am fat, he hasn't come right out and said this but I have gotten the hint. I have other male friends who are dating girls bigger than me and they don't think their girls are fat. Is there a general consensus or is this something that varies from perspective to perspective?

2007-11-24 22:02:18 · 10 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys how are?
I am actually very flattered to see that many girls on that site are REALLY committed to trying to help all kind of guys to get over their shyness and start meeting the women of their dreams it is really sweet now it is my turn to get some advice!

I met more than one women in bookstores or shopping centers and most of the women are really nice and polite some interested some not, no problems. However, I have a hard time approaching in the bus because there are many people around and on the street because I hate creeping out girls, I am not a creep, I am not a stalker so I want to know what approach scares you and what approach doesn't scare you, I am not interested in what to say as it is different from girl to girl as long as it is not a pickup line but I am interested in knowing how to make her feel comfortable when I approach in those scenerios thanks?

2007-11-24 21:54:15 · 4 answers · asked by Abond008 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if anyone read the article on the Yahoo page earlier about pretty woman dating ugly men, but it got me thinking.

I've been given many compliments in my life, and I'm well aware I'm not the ugliest person to walk the planet, or the stupidest.

I have an amazing boyfriend. I find him smart, funny and very attractive. I know he could never be a model or one of those guys everyone has a crush on. But I still love him.

I actually find guys who are all muscle a huge turn off!

Is this strange? I'm 18.

2007-11-24 21:35:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that I am white and yet I have a fetish for women with a big butt?

I think a lot of white guys share this fetish but it is just not acceptable for them to admit it?

Tell me the truth of the matter and be honest!

2007-11-24 21:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have noticed it time and time again... in the first chase stage they are just 'there' for you. Then, it doesn't take long and they subside... You know, they call you at 1:00 am just to hear your voice, or on msn as soon as you sign in... send you sms's 'just to say'... then you find it starts to slip and you end up scratching your head...in confusion and worry. I have spoken to female friends and we almost all agree - all guys do it - even the ones who stick around. Its just like its some shallow primary 'show' to get you in a spin? You get to the stage where you are not impressed by it, or if you really want to beleive it this little voice inside says 'it's just the preliminary dazzle'. Does anyone else agree with me on this and how do you point it out to a pursuer not to fall into this 'intial heat volume thing', that its not necessary to establish a relationship. Normal is best.

2007-11-24 21:25:08 · 13 answers · asked by dunwerse 4 in Singles & Dating

I grew up with just my mom, i only met my dad once in court when i was about 4 or so , and he never tried to contact me when i was growing up. Im 21 now and i think i just found him- I think i have his phone number and adress- is it worth trying to get ahold of him? or should that be his job? If there are any fathers out there who dont know their children: would you want them to get ahold of you or would you rather that you were the one to find your child?

2007-11-24 21:20:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family