Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

would you rather have a wife who was always down for sex or a wife who only gives it to you sometimes? i know what the obvious answer might be but think about it..if she only gave it up sometimes would it make those times more fun and special? would it be easier for you to get bored if she was always in the mood?

2007-11-24 14:15:15 · 9 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi okay so i moved last year and before i moved i had a boyfriend up until i did move and i really really really miss him but hes a huge ****** and wont talk to me anymore anyways .. i think its time i get another boyfriend but i dont know how to do that lol (well i do but i need help) what can i do to attract guys to me..what can i wear for clothes what kind of make up how should i wear my hair how should i act ect...THANKS!!!

2007-11-24 14:15:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to live abroad and I worked with a guy that I had feelings for. I was in a relationship, so I resisted letting things flow between us and I didn't explore things back then.

Since then, we're talked through email and he revealed that he had feelings for me the whole time. I knew it back then, but I needed to hear him say it. He left his girlfriend and then came to work on his day off to tell me, etc. I was so stupid not to take things further...

Since then, I dream about him and he's on my mind now and then. But I can't be sure if I'm idealizing him or not? I know there were things that I didn't like about him, but I think I was a different person back then. All I can remember now is his beautiful eyes, his support and how lovely he is. I miss him so much.

I've emailed him about this and I don't know how far to go with it. Do I tell him I was falling for him back then? Does this sound like love to you? Or am I idealizing him because it has been so long? Any advice?

2007-11-24 14:14:19 · 1 answers · asked by karuna 2 in Singles & Dating

Since i was 8 I have had my step dad problems get worse and worse(that was when my little half sis was born) it has escalated to the point that whenever my mom isnt home there is at least 3 times that he makes me feel like i am a worthless little kid who crys at everything. he threw me across the room once when I was 11 because he 'thought i was attaking' my little 2 year old brother he has slapped me twice backhanded me once practically choked me another time because he smacked me in the throut so hard, but the last straw was when he pinned me down and yelled in my face, i ran away. they found me later that night because my friends parents called and told them where i was...after that my mom promised she would sign us up for councelling but it has been two months and that still hasnt happened, for a while i didnt have to talk to him if i didnt want to...which i dont...but my mom isnt a good middle man, and it is happening again, what should i do?

2007-11-24 14:12:34 · 21 answers · asked by Court 1 in Family

2007-11-24 14:08:59 · 17 answers · asked by Elvira T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 5 friends. 4 of them want him. They are always saying how sexy, hot, sweet, tall etc. I have been dating him for 10 months and I can't get them away. He advoids them but all they do is follow us and talk about his butt!!!!! It is pissing me off!! What do I do? I can't keep them away! They flirt and stuff and we are sick of it!!!!!!!!

2007-11-24 14:08:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is going up with the family?

2007-11-24 14:07:36 · 12 answers · asked by sherryce s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Who would you love to take on a date...past or present, real or fictional? If you could have a date with ANYONE who would it be and where would you go?

2007-11-24 14:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by Dominus 5 in Singles & Dating

Have any one of you ever fought so hard for a relationship after it was over and won your guy back?? me and my ex broke up because we argued alot but we both love eachother and now hes scared that history might repeat itself. We argued alot because i was insecure and had just come out of a bad relationship and i took it out on him..now i regret it and i love him and will do anything to win him back...has anyone ever accomplished this?? if you did...how??
how can i prove to him that i have changed...i have..ive grown so much because of this break up and i want a new chance to show him who i really am.

2007-11-24 14:06:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well
there is this girl that goes to my school and she just has so much power
she can tell a joke and it wont even be funny but everyone laughs anyways
everyone loves her and is constantly trying to make her happy
she isnt that pretty
but there is something about her that makes you think she is gorgeous
how does she have alll this power and control over everyone??
what is she doing to control people??

2007-11-24 14:05:41 · 3 answers · asked by flkj;alkjdfds 1 in Friends

My grandma is 77. When she was in Cambodia before living in the U.S, the pul pot(the Vet that practically destroyed Cambodia) was there. they killed my grandpa and my uncles. only her and my mom survived. now, she is very sick. everyday she says shes "really" sick. she complains everyday. shes so annoying now. she always goes in my room and starts to be nosy. my mom takes care of her everyday. more than she takes care of my family. and if you dont listen to my grandma, shell start crying and say your mean and a bad person. she is sooo selfish. she likes to play slots a lot. she has a gambling problem. A BAD ONE. The doctors cant cure her sickness. She has leg cramps, high blood pressure, and if she smells any chemicals shell get sick for almost a week. lately, shes been coming up with excuses. like now she cant sit in teh back of the car anymore because of the material on the chair and stuff. she is giving me stress everyday freaking day.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER? =[

2007-11-24 14:05:01 · 12 answers · asked by samantha<3 2 in Family

I have been with my wife for 6 years and are sex life is maybe 1 time every 4 to 5 months I know she is not cheating on me but are love is slowy drifting away and i know sex may or maynot be inportant.but love is

2007-11-24 14:02:18 · 14 answers · asked by GUY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this problem of farting while I'm asleep. I've had several girlfriends tell me about my farting escapades while sleeping. I've even lost a few because of that. The worst time was one time I was taking a real estate course that had about 25 people in it including my buddy who sat beside me. I dosed off in class only to be awakened by him. I asked him was I snoring? He said no but you cut 2 loud farts. I looked around the class and everyone was looking at me with disgusting looks on their faces. Then later on in the classs, my buddy cut a silent but deadly fart while sitting next to me, when the smell hit me I said aww shucks and as the smell hit the others, they all started saying how disgusting I was. Then the instructor asked me to the hall and told me that she would not tolerate such behavior and that if it happens again that she would have to put me out of the class. I could not convince her that my buddy did it. What should I do to my buddy about this?

2007-11-24 14:01:12 · 50 answers · asked by coolbeans1998 3 in Friends

We've been best friends since 2nd grade and then he started hanging around with this other chick a lot. She hung all over him but he didn't like her that way. Finally she moved, but then I figured out we had nothing left to talk about and our friendship wasn't the same anymore. He doesn't talk to me half as much as he used to, and it makes me sad. I don't know what to do anymore. Help?

2007-11-24 14:00:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok, i have 2 bffs. i'll call them v and o. v and i have been friends for 2 years. o and i have been friends sience the beggining of school. i like them both a lot. v sometimes says things without thinking and o is a lot like me. v just got a boyfriend, o and i think that she is leaving us for him. o keeps calling v a b**** behinde her back. and o just sent me an email saying that she hates v. they are both really good friends and i know that i can't be friends with both of them because they fight so much. so, whose side do you think that i should choose v or o??????

2007-11-24 13:59:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. We're both 22, Malaysian-Chinese, and studying. Everything was fine between us until last month when we broke things off a bit. He feels that he doesn't want a girlfriend. However, we got back together after a couple of weeks, but things keep running hot and cold. He now feels he doesn't want a girlfriend again, cos it's 'stressful'.

He says he is stressed with juggling parents, work and girlfriend. He's living with his parents and not on very good terms with both of them. His mom hates me and thinks we've broken up a few months back.

At his part time job, his colleagues keep speculating about his love life and 'pairing' him up with other colleagues. He doesn't mention me or that he's even have a girlfriend. I don't visit him at his workplace 'cos he doesn't like people to see him work.

I see him once a week because of studies and work, therefore I don't think i'm demanding or possessive of his time. No other girl, so what's his deal?

2007-11-24 13:58:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have been asked to marry him and i am 16 and he is 17 going to be 18... and he told me he loves me after 3 years...

2007-11-24 13:57:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This girl that lives next door to me have problems in her family. she talks to me alot about them because he said i'm the only one that listens. But the thing is she talks to much. She could be talking about her mom then go through 7 more subjects and end up at her ex, ex, ex, ex, boyfriend. Then when i have a problem she always began to make it about her again. What is a polite way to tell her that she needs to shut up?

2007-11-24 13:57:24 · 14 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

hes just a friend. hes actually my boyfriends best friend.

and i have no idea what to put in it.

and ideas?

2007-11-24 13:57:23 · 4 answers · asked by Flordia_Grl 1 in Friends

I belive that I am fat and ugly. I feel like I will never be pretty. Sometimes I hade my fave or use make up. Will I ever be pretty???

2007-11-24 13:57:18 · 32 answers · asked by Angel W 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you be ready, willing and able? If not, for what reason would you turn her down?

2007-11-24 13:55:06 · 9 answers · asked by ncgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married to my husband for almost 4 years but it has been very very rocky. In the beginning he was so nice and romantic and we were good up until later that year after 2 months of being married when i was 4 m prego he got drunk and hit me bad. Then after that it's been down the road of crazy things...that was the only time that he hit me but he still drank alot and did very stupid **** which i forgave him for and he stopped drinking recently and i had started to go to church and trying to have faith and we were actually really working out. But now well he's the one who works and i dont i take care of our son at home ( i live w/ my parents and he lives w/ his mom cuz she's sick) that's how it's been for almost 4 yrs. but anyways...he's been acting strange since thanksgiving , not talking to me like always..and not caring for my feelings and now he's saying it might now work....what should i do? should i just get over him and divorce or make it work out? this time it's diff tho

2007-11-24 13:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by elizabeth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do!!!! we were such good friends we went on vacation together and we did EVERYTHING 2gether and now its just gonna end like this!!! HELP!!

2007-11-24 13:51:44 · 25 answers · asked by Nikkie 1 in Friends

Why must parents bring their kids to the store and then the kid starts crying and get grumpy that shouldn't be their time and place to do that at all having all the employees work and listening to kids whine is a nuissance. I don't like it nobody else likes it for all I care they should lock up their kids in the car until they get out of the grocery store I hate kids coming in and being a pain in the ***.

2007-11-24 13:48:33 · 11 answers · asked by David S 1 in Family

Here’s the Yahoo story:
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/55223/when-shes-hot-but-hes-not;_ylc=X3oDMTFybmFnN3FnBF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEc2VjA2ZwX3RvZGF5BHNsawN3aGVuLXNoZXMtaG90LWJ1dC1oZXMtbm90BHp6A2Fi

A lot of times, they're with men that are both ugly, and poor. Maybe typical female sexuality focuses around her own eroticization. Consider the fact that women usually laugh at male strippers, as if they're clowns in g-strings.

2007-11-24 13:47:29 · 3 answers · asked by Michael F 3 in Singles & Dating

okay, i e-mail this boy ( his name is tim!) and i told him i had a wii and he was like cool, maybe one day when we r off from school i can come over 2 ur house and we can play it 2gether. does this mean he may have a crush on me?

2007-11-24 13:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If I had a nickle for every time I heard a woman say that to me....

I am 34, divorced, good looking, nice, and respectful. I have had married/involved women coming to me with that line and worse (hiding their marriage) since I was 18. I do not knowingly do anything, of course (the times it was hidden, I cannot count in this). Yet, I have enormous trouble find women who are actually single (it's not like I am that attractive...no ego here).
I just cannot figure this out. What is it about a guy like me that draws women who are involved? I'd like to hear particularly from women on this. I need some advice, as obviously there is something really wrong with me (otherwise it would not happen all the time). What am I doing wrong? I don't get it (no, please no puns on this, please).

Thanks for your input.

2007-11-24 13:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by Ben YY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i think that is just sick, but my buddies said that he got head from his sister once?????? i was shocked!!!!!! that is just gross!!!!!!!!!!!! Have you ever heard or experianced anything like this??? this is not normal!!!!!!!

2007-11-24 13:43:58 · 15 answers · asked by Road House 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so worried for my sister. My sister is smart, beautiful and successful. She has it all going on. Shes been seeing this guy for several months now, and she pays for everything they do, cause he has no money. He works for some car detailer, but has been divorced and moved back in with his folks. Anyway, he has said " I never wanna grow up." (He is 34 years old and has a kid by his ex wife.). Over the Thanksgiving holiday, he has spent the past two nights at me and my family's house. But last night when my sis brought them back home, they got into an argument and he spit in her face on our front porch. Now when this happened, she yelled for my step dad and he came out to see what was wrong. Then this guy didn't even apologize etc. My step dad sent him back to his family in a cab. I told sis to dump him, as this can later lead to violence etc. But, today, she told me she didn't. What can I do if anything? I could write tons of stuff about him, but I am scared. What can I do?

2007-11-24 13:43:54 · 10 answers · asked by perfumeholic 1 in Family

she says she wants us to grow and claims to be in love with me but it doesnt feel that way. please help. i dont want to talk to her about because she gets angry sometimes or irritable with me when we discuss feelings

2007-11-24 13:42:15 · 13 answers · asked by jerry1282004 1 in Singles & Dating