I NEED A BOYFRiEND!?

Question

Hi okay so i moved last year and before i moved i had a boyfriend up until i did move and i really really really miss him but hes a huge ****** and wont talk to me anymore anyways .. i think its time i get another boyfriend but i dont know how to do that lol (well i do but i need help) what can i do to attract guys to me..what can i wear for clothes what kind of make up how should i wear my hair how should i act ect...THANKS!!!

Im 15 and a sophmore

Answer 1

Hiya
I have a few tips for you... I know its really long but it works and its really simple.

Clothes: When you put less than your best effort into your appearance, not only will you blend into the background, but you probably won't feel up to meeting someone new anyway. Wear somthing that flatters your figure and that doesnt make you look frumpy or striaght up and down MEN LIKE CURVS!

Posture: Walk with your back straight, with your shoulders back and head up.

Be happy: Men are more likely to approch you if you smiling and laughing rather than if if you are hunched over and frowning

Body launguage: This leads us back to posture... If you are stood with your armes folded across your chest then a guy will take one look at you and think your closed off but if you are stood with your shouders back it opens up your frame and sends out the message that your open to possibilties.
Now if you strike up a conversation in a noisey place then this gives tou the perfect oppotunity to lean in close which will create a connection and if you are seated with crossed legs make your body line up with his as this sends the unspoken messege that your interested.

Get his attention using a prop: A dog for example. If he really wants to talk to you he will ask about your dog to get the convosation started. If you give him mor than uhhh... hello then he has more to make small talk with so you then become instantly more aprochable.

Make him feel needed: Okay you see this really cute guy sat in the coffee shop. Talk to him start with something like exuse me i dont want to bother you but do you have a pen i could borrow? Or something like exuse me could you recomend a drink? If you start chatting but your nervous its a good thing buecuse this means that its ok for him to let his gaurd down.
Fumble your words a little or accidentally take a sip from his drink instead of yours, go ahead and have a laugh. He'll think it's totally cute, not clumsy.

So i hope my advice works for you just remember to be yourself x

Answer 2

Guys dont really care what kind of clothes you wear, as long as it looks ok but don't dress like a sl*t, no man is worth your respect- if that makes sense. Whith the makeup dont use anything too heavy, make it look natural and flawless. I've read and learned from my own experiences that guys hate it when you put on loads of makeup OH and make sure you dont have zits WASH YOUR FACE EVERY DAY!!! And for the way to act, don't act like a bi*ch for no reason,be friendly and likeable, but dont try to flirt. If your actually attracted to him then you will flirt naturally and that usually works.
Whenever you have the chance go hang out with your friends were a lot of people from your school and other schools go, meet lots of new people not only will this find you a potential boyfriend it will also help you with your social skills.
By the way how old are you?

Answer 3

Be yourself. If guys can't like you for the way you are, they aren't worth it.

There are a few things you can do, though.

If your hair is curly, straightening it occasionally might look cute. If it is straight, do the exact opposite.

For straight hair, curling, scrunching, straightening even more, or even crimping can look super cute.

As for makeup, go natural. Wear makeup to cover up or improve, but don't go totally dark. Make sure to stay light and make sure it matches your skin tone.

Clothes are a personal choice. If you think your style isn't exactly up to date, make your own. Mix and match. Making your own clothing is always a new and exciting adventure.

If you don't know how to sew, take classes. By cutting clothes and making new ones, you might catch a guy's eye.

Also, layering seems to be a new fad. By layering clothes, it goes along with the winter theme, and also adds for a cute end of the year touch.


I hope this helps. If you need any more advice, you can email me or comment on one of my questions. :D

-Anna<3!

Answer 4

I love it when a girl dresses girly (skirts are my favorite). Modesty shows you are classy. Even though you might get more looks, not dressing modestly gives the impression that you are too desperate, too easy, or high maintenance. Guys like myself are most hesitant to ask a girl out because we are unsure weather or not the girl will say yes. The very act of introducing yourself to a stranger with a warm smile whom you find is attractive is a good place to start. It shows you are freindly without comming off as too aggressive. Ask the guy questions about himself and make him feel he's interesting and valued. Always smile and make good eye contact.

Answer 5

Assumin that u r a guy, i'd say, go to manhunt.net or better yet go adam4adam.com
we'll get a lot of friends, lovers, fbuddies, or whatever u wish. Good relationship is mostly better through people that u know. Or new friends become, boyfriends. :)
U dont need to dress differently or be different to get a guy. BE YUR SELF. it's da best remedy. y would u wanna be someone else to get a guy? then, when u become someelse, u lose yurself. and when u lose yurself, u'll lose da guy eventually cuz, u r not u. conflicks will happen. if someone dont like u for who u r, then hell wit them. find people whop realy love or like u for who u r. u'll be much happier. i promise.
hoped dat help. good luck

Answer 6

Be yourself!! If you dress up and style your hair differently and act differently you will no longer be yourself. If you want to attract a guy you should want him to be attracted to who you truly are not what you pretend to be. So be yourself and love who you are and romance will follow. A person who is confident being them self has a rare beauty that men love.

Happy hunting!!
Hope you find someone that makes you happy!

Answer 7

It may be annoying for you, but your mom is only protecting you and does not want anything to happen to you. Age difference does not matter she will always assume a guy is to old for you because you are her daughter. And yes your mom may have met your father the same time you met yours and your mom probably made some mistakes that she just does not want repeated to you. Just listen to her because in the end if something does happen to you, you will feel bad for not listening and you will regret the outcome.

Answer 8

you don't need a boyfriend to be happy
try to be independent and learn how to
provide for yourself, and if you want a
real guy and not some perverted ******
thats gonna treat you all kinds of wrong
then you go ahead and try to dress
up and wear a whole bunch of make-up
to get him into your looks, cause that would
be all hes in for..

if you don't want that i suggest you talk to
some guys and become friends and if you
like them and they like you for who you are
then things will fall into place

Answer 9

you shouldn't want a boyfriend that bad and y do u even want 1 so that you can show-off? well boy don't like that and they sense desperateness (not saying that u r ) but you can at least wait 4 a while u don't have to have a boyfriend every other week/month/day that is just way toooooooo much ......... but do what u want to do it's ur life

Answer 10

You don't need a boyfriend.
And the ones you need to dress a certain way to attract usually, are the ones who only want you for your bodies.

Do you really want a guy who doesn't actually like you?