Have any one of you ever fought so hard for a relationship after it was over and won your guy back?? me and my ex broke up because we argued alot but we both love eachother and now hes scared that history might repeat itself. We argued alot because i was insecure and had just come out of a bad relationship and i took it out on him..now i regret it and i love him and will do anything to win him back...has anyone ever accomplished this?? if you did...how??
how can i prove to him that i have changed...i have..ive grown so much because of this break up and i want a new chance to show him who i really am.
2007-11-24 14:06:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would suggest that you have some sessions with a counsellor to deal with your jealousy issues. Then, invite him in on a session, so he can see that you really have made progress. In the meantime, the proof is in the pudding. Back off a bit, hon, and allow him to come after you for a change.
2007-11-24 14:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i havn't sucessed in something like this but people make mistakes and we all learn from are mistakes. so if u and him were to get back together again u will be so much smartier not to make the same mistakes again. and since ur not having a bad relationship right now u wont make the same mistaked u did the last time. if u and ur ex still love each other just make the first move and tell him that u still love him ever since u broke up with him. tell him also that ur sorry that u took out all ur anger on him because of ur last relationship u had before him. i hope i helped at least a lttle bit
good luck. =)
2007-11-24 14:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by remembering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only shot at getting your ex back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Learn here https://tr.im/JzqIQ
Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better. But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction. So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way. You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her
2016-04-23 23:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on to that thought. I divorced my husband because I thought his mother always came first, and she did. It took me 20 years to get him back. He also was afraid of another relationship with me. I kept in contact with him and called him every week. We had a son together and his family could take care of him better than I could. I had 3 teenagers with another man. Believe me......that was a very big mistake I made in my life. He was his mama's baby boy and mother could always do better than me. Well, I had to reprogram my mind into not caring, it wasn't no big deal. It takes alot of work, but if you really want him back, don't act jealous of the other women he is seeing. Giv him good advice, and the women he was seeing couldn't go his mother either. I had too much pride, but I still loved him. I came to visit at least three times a year because w lives 900 miles apart.. Don't wait 20 years to let him know you still care. I was with him 3 years after we got back together and he died of a massive heart attack. So, once again, I am alone. But him and I had some very good time together. I miss him so much. Yours is still alive. At least you can see him once in awhile. Let him give you the go ahead. When he does, go for it! Good luck!
2007-11-24 14:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by cprucka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have gone through an awful lot, I left him a few times and kicked him out for 2 weeks, fighting for our relationship all the time, urging him to solve problems instead of give up. That was a few years ago and this last Oct. we celebrated our 7th anniversary. So, I say " stick to it and fight for what you feel is right!" It's worth your every effort as long as your not slipping into psycho.
2007-11-24 14:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by liltwerp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can prove to him that you have changed, it might be able to work out again. If you get back together, you have to make sure you don't bring up your pervious relationships and don't blame him for what happened in the past with other guys.
2007-11-24 14:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you really want to? Maybe history would repeat itself.
2007-11-24 14:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
expalin your self tohim tell him u realize that u made a really bad mistake, and u promise that it wont happen again, because if u try hard enuf it should not repeat its self
2007-11-24 14:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by justin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok everyone argues, you'll just have to "Agree to disagree" on some points, both of you strive to see the others side, and you cant go wrong.
fight to get him back honey, you can do it!
2007-11-24 14:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by Let_it_go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have and history does repeat itself!
2007-11-24 14:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by HckyBoyLover! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋