Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

i love him alot , he is my soulmate. Im divorced and not interested in ever getting married again. my ? is does his wife know? I think i would if i were with the same man for 30+ yrs

2007-11-24 13:41:18 · 26 answers · asked by bella43 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Many of my girlfriends agree with me in that men's beauty is sometimes completely overwhelming. Their power, primal sexual prowess, natural good looks and attitudes ... just, wow. I often stop myself when a gorgeous man walks by me. I literally feel a bit of my breathe being taken away, hehe. Is it the same for men? I wonder if men simply compete with one another for the title of "most heterosexual" when they constantly profess their attraction to women as a cover-up for the fact that they truthfully don't find women as attractive, considering how much of women's appearances are altered in men's magazines. I mean, if you liked women, then you would like them and like them only. End of story. No makeup, special lighting techniques, fairytale personalities and porn-laden lifestyles. And nevermind those man-hating wannabe lesbians. They've simply failed at life (and at reading people correctly, which was the case when they married that ex-convict. Normal, healthy, SANE women ADORE men.)

2007-11-24 13:39:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 13:39:11 · 3 answers · asked by sleepy1 1 in Friends

Hi all. okay so i hooked up with my ex bf tuesday night. We had sex a few times and didnt use a condom. (im not on bc pills either, i know its bad so please dont tell me that...) anyways im not sure if he came inside me or not. But the thing is is that my period is due like next tues so it was towards the end of my cycle. but im wondering what the chances are the i may have gotten pregnant. bc today i was having pains in my lower section and i know a few days after sex u can get implantion cramping but im not sure if thats it. so what do you think???? what are the chances?

2007-11-24 13:38:18 · 9 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

And vice versa.

Meaning - is the single person commiting adultery or just the married person?

2007-11-24 13:37:43 · 46 answers · asked by ALL-MAN 5 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i do with my bf who loves me a lot and has done a lot for me but when it comes to sex, he dun even bother to do anything abt it? i have tried talking to him so many times and we actually have discuss marriage but when i think of the future with him, i am scared i will stray as he cannot fulfill me at all.

2007-11-24 13:35:54 · 7 answers · asked by caudia 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm feeling really down and depressed tonight, i need a friend :(

2007-11-24 13:34:25 · 89 answers · asked by Joe T 2 in Friends

My new husband cheated on me with his ex wife a few months before we were married. It rocked the very core of everything I believed him to be. Never in a million years would I have thought he would have done this. I know some of you are thinking I was stupid to go ahead and marry him but I really do love him. In my mind, I was not the first woman who has experienced this and so many other women have gotten over it so I would be able to get over it to. Well here it is almost a year into our marriage and the trust issues are still present. He says he would never cheat on me and I should be over it by now because we were not married when it happened. What do you think?

2007-11-24 13:32:45 · 29 answers · asked by ds 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not looking for casual hook-ups and any BS-geeezzz-had enough of that. I am just having trouble meeting people. Not interested in the internet thing either.

2007-11-24 13:27:35 · 5 answers · asked by trixibel 6 in Singles & Dating

I only have 4 people answering this question and I need more answers! I'll ask again: Can you live with a broken heart and depression without anyone help you get through this? because I have a broken heart and depression. I'm just afraid that no one is going to help me get through this. I feel like nobody cares about me anymore. I feel like someone doesn't care for me and just leave me here without support. I'm upset and afraid that no one is there for me anymore. Can you actually live with a broken heart and depression without anyone help you get through this? Please be honest! DON'T EVEN REPORT ON THIS! I'm serious here! Thanks so much for answering this question!

-LuckyGirl831 (Denise N)

2007-11-24 13:27:29 · 12 answers · asked by DELETED 3 in Friends

im in college, just got out of a month long relationship. I went on date with this guy last sat. and he wants to get exclusive if im sure. i want to buttttt i have had made plans with 2 other guys before this came about to go on a date this coming week. I don't know what to do. He is expecting an answer since last night. I still haven't got back to him. I don't know what to do about this situation and what to say. Help?

2007-11-24 13:26:28 · 7 answers · asked by Don't Give Up On Me 1 in Singles & Dating

my parants need counceling really bad but I know that they dont want to pay or feel that time will help them or something. How much is it usally anyone know

thanks

2007-11-24 13:23:33 · 7 answers · asked by jordan P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theirs this one boy that i like but i do not see him any more but i talk to him on the phone but i don’t like long distend relationships what should i do

2007-11-24 13:21:13 · 9 answers · asked by nicole m 2 in Singles & Dating

my parants have been married for 20 years. I am 16 years old. This past year there fighting has really gotten bad. I fear that they do not love each other no more. They show no love for each other and disagree at everything. How do I tell them they need professonal help? I have a problem that I feel that I always have to be around them to try my hardest to make sure they dont fight. They constant fighting I feel is really damaging my mentally. My dad says he does not need counceling.

please please help me

2007-11-24 13:21:12 · 12 answers · asked by jordan P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend goes to school in the south. His family along with me live in the north. Ever since he left, he acts like the south is amazing and it makes me feel horrible to think that he likes the south better. He brings up his ex girlfriend at the worst possible times, and it's been over two years since they broke up. He also tells me that he barely drinks, but when he's with friends i hear about his drinking stories and I find it hard to believe. I don't know if he's telling the truth when he's me or when he's with his friend. I also have a problem talking with him about all of this, and i'm not sure if talking to him would be a good idea? Some people say that it is a good idea, but i'm not so sure. I need advice.

2007-11-24 13:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....when a guy calls a girl a stud, what does he really mean? Last night I went up and talked to this guy that I really like, and he was like "Hey stud, how's it going?" I thought it was kinda wierd, but then I wasn't sure if he was flirting or not.

2007-11-24 13:20:57 · 37 answers · asked by ♥love is all that matters♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

We were all hanging out (one of our friends is black) drinking and Jamel was wasted. He started telling us how his goal in life is to "put his seed in a white girl". We asked him why and he said because his uncle said it's his mission to eliminate the white race through interbreeding and the greatest trophy a black guy can get is a pure white woman.

We were like "uhhhh OK....." It was really awkward. My question is, do you think this is common thinking towards white women? I never really thought about it until Jamel said all this stuff.

2007-11-24 13:20:50 · 19 answers · asked by Jacob 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 13:19:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend planned this date with these two guys, and they seemed interested and everything. Then the day of what was supposesd to be a double date, they started acting funny. One was ignoring calls while the other one said that he might have to work and said that he'd get back to me....He didn't even get back to me, and the other guy didn't even call my friend back. Why did they stand us up at the last minute, especially if the event was planned?

2007-11-24 13:16:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw the guy I like other day for the 1st time in like five months at the movies. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. Then at the end of the movie he was standing in front of me and staring at me/checking me out for a couple of minutes and the he just left. I'm not sure if he waiting to talk to me.His face was also red. The I saw my crush again 1 month later and he was blushing a heck of a lot. He also smiled at me and he raised his eyebrow. Plus his eyes got wide and he face got beat red when he realized it was me He also had some gleam in his eyes. Then he was just looking at me a lot and he was stuttering when he was talking to his friend. What does this mean? My friend said he was also amused and pleased to see me. So anyways he had me blocked before I added him to myspace.

2007-11-24 13:16:46 · 18 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

what do girls reaaly want ina a guy? sex, or really being in a good relationship?

2007-11-24 13:16:21 · 6 answers · asked by bizzy 2 in Singles & Dating

he cheated on me wit a few people over our 2 month relationship. I am 14 yrs old. and i need advice from somebody older than me....perferably guys. I still love him and forgive him but i want to go out again. it would be our third time going out and i want to know how i can get him back. He's 16 yrs old.and we actually talked about sex. we've been fighting by e-mail ever since we broke ^ and i really want him back......how can i make him jelouse......how can i make him want me back again? what should i do???? how to turn him on???? thnx
L8ers!
<3

2007-11-24 13:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 13:15:05 · 10 answers · asked by gaby 2 in Singles & Dating

I do trust him but not her. They are too chummy. I'm not invited to go anywhere with them cause "their life circles shouldnt intertwine, thats why they can be friends, their lives are totally separate". They joke about the weirdest stuff and go to sex exibits at museums together. The last time I allowed a female friend I got cheated on. I'm scared and dont know what to do. I love him and don't want to lose him but this female situation really makes me nervous. oh yeah he lets her into his deepest thoughts and inner fears and i'm always locked out as to not worry me. Isn't it my job as his woman to hold him down, keep his head above water, be his ear, his shoulder, the person he can tell everything to? what the HECK do I do?

2007-11-24 13:14:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or will you have regrets about not experiencing life enough? even if you know you love them?

2007-11-24 13:05:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-24 13:05:13 · 35 answers · asked by pizza192002 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm fourteen and I always wondered why people would get married to people they didn't love (because if I'm fourteen and can see that, I know an adult can). Then I came to the conclusion money. That's mean, because you are stealing and lying to the other person. I wanna know why.

2007-11-24 13:01:44 · 13 answers · asked by They Call Me Megaman.... 3 in Marriage & Divorce

but most of my mates said that if there parents were having a divorce they'd cry all the time, and they'd be reli sad. my parents are in the middle of a divorce, theres loads of arguments and my dad even smashed up our house, but i havent cried about it, and it dosent bother me much, i just think the whole situation is stupid...well i dont know what to think of it.

is there something wrong with me because i'm not upset??

am i a brat because it dosent bother me much??

2007-11-24 13:00:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

skirts how should he respond? I have to play golf tomorrow with the guys and all i have are skirts and blouses!
I know she thinks this is very funny just because we are about the same size!

2007-11-24 13:00:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have school on monday i am going to get beat up in frot of the howl grade after school just because i stiked up for aeson she is a girl who everyone hates.she never talks barley eats always crys and i thought i did a good thing but i didnt.if i get hurt i will die and madison wants to kill me and my best friends hate me now!!!HELP!!

2007-11-24 12:59:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships