what should i do with my bf who loves me a lot and has done a lot for me but when it comes to sex, he dun even bother to do anything abt it? i have tried talking to him so many times and we actually have discuss marriage but when i think of the future with him, i am scared i will stray as he cannot fulfill me at all.
2007-11-24 13:35:54 · 7 answers · asked by caudia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm.. wat i mean is when we do sex, he dun even bother to arouse me. tat is the problem in us. not that he wants to wait till marriage or wat. tat's the real problem tht's bothering me and we have talked abt it and he say he is lazy which seriously is turning me off him.
2007-11-24 13:50:57 · update #1
Girl, listen to me. Maybe he actually respects you, and wants to wait until marriage.
It means he cares about you. He's willing to be that special one to put you before him.
Sex isn't everything. Love is. If he loves you, it'll be good for you when you are married and both of you are ready.
But don't push him. It's his decision as well as yours.
2007-11-24 13:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you should have waited until marriage before you had sex .Besides sex is way over rated .This is food for thought.What if for some God forsaken reason you became ill how much would sex matter then ?wouldn't Love be the most important thing.Yes while your young,healthy,and married sex is great,but sex doesn't pay the bills nor does it take care of a love one that is ill . Love doesThat.Best Wishes>>
2007-11-24 13:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Man of Arms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesnt WANT to fulfill you until you are married first.
What happens if he has sex with you and you end up pregnant and he decides you dont fulfill him?
Maybe he is gay,at any rate anyone who has sex out of wedlock is risking making a baby birth control or not ,it ALL has a failure rate.Talk to the girl who was on here earlier worrying about a broken condom and the guy who dumped her the next day over it.
2007-11-24 13:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, you've hooked up with a boring, selfish lover.
I did, married her, thinking it would get better, and it got worse.
Either accept it forever, or start planning the breakup.
There's not many things worse than a lazy, selfish lover, and I'm a guy!
2007-11-24 14:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by dork 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have unprotected sex with as many other boys and girls as you can. Then, when your bf does give in, hopefully you'll have a std that you can pass on to him to teach him a lesson.
2007-11-24 13:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by ieatzavocados 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't have sex with you then adopt or have an artificial baby. Those babies that are made from sperm that someone donated. Forgot what they call those babies but you can do that.
2007-11-25 13:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Late Night Talk Shows♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow wtf is wrong wit him he dont wanna have sex?
2007-11-24 13:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Fballa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋