im in college, just got out of a month long relationship. I went on date with this guy last sat. and he wants to get exclusive if im sure. i want to buttttt i have had made plans with 2 other guys before this came about to go on a date this coming week. I don't know what to do. He is expecting an answer since last night. I still haven't got back to him. I don't know what to do about this situation and what to say. Help?
2007-11-24 13:26:28 · 7 answers · asked by Don't Give Up On Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One date and he's smothering you already....RUN!!!!!
Controlling, demanding..weird!!!! Save yourself and tell him no.
2007-11-24 13:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you can't have your cake and eat it to. You need to decide what you are going to do right now! Either you want a relationship which means you let the other guys know that you are taken now or you let the guy know that you aren't ready to be exclusive!
But no matter what be honest and make the decision you want to make...
2007-11-24 21:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i had previous engagements, i would probably go on the 'dates' and just enjoy my time. since you two werent exclusive when you made these plans, i wouldnt feel bad following through with them. it may also help you decide if you truly want to be exclusive. good luck!
2007-11-24 21:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Alissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't sure, then I don't think you are ready to be with this guy exclusively. When you are really ready to be with one man and only one man, you won't want to go on dates with other men - there will be no question in your heart.
2007-11-24 21:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not yet you just met and you have made other plans with other people before you went out with him.
Tell him you want to get to know him better once you fulfill your previous obligations to the other 2 gentlemen.
2007-11-24 21:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
either cancel your other plans with the other guys, or tell him that you dont wanna get "exclusive" with him.
2007-11-24 21:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
College?? Girl you are young. Live it up!!!
2007-11-24 21:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋