Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

I discovered it around 6 years old? I think it makes my relationships with girls or even talking more difficult. It makes me depressed sometimes. I dont like to blame, but if it wasnt for the internet i would have never had this problem. Godamn internet...piece of crap.

2007-11-24 11:48:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 11:48:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are they happy living in the UK with you or do you think they have married you for the Visa/Money etc?

2007-11-24 11:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when i'm out and about, i score girls out of ten, shagability factor, 1 being ugly,fat upto my perfect 10, long hair, size 8-10, nice round a**. usually above 5 would get my attention

2007-11-24 11:44:28 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's about 5000 rumors about me at school, everything from i'm a lesbian to i have sex with guys for money. It's all because i "flirt" with peoples bf's supposevely? so, all these girls started it. i'm not sure why.. if i flirt i'm just being nice and nothing bad just all friendly conversation. I've been okay until now, it really upsets me and walking down the hallways is no fun, getting called a whore 24/7 is not fun either

What should i do? I've already tried confronting the girls..

2007-11-24 11:42:54 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy was to offer you $500 in cash for 2 as hard as you can kicks in the balls what would be you're reaction to it, and what would you do?

2007-11-24 11:28:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have seen so many questions on here asked by someone whose lover has made a mistake, asking how to deal with it. The answers are always the same: Leave him/her. Move on! You deserve better!

While I do agree that this sentiment is sometimes deserved (i.e. in cases of abuse, or if it is an ongoing problem) why is it that the first advice we give is to end the relationship? Even a marriage!!! Isn't marriage "for better or for worse" anymore? What happened to forgiveness? What happened to fighting for marriage and staying together forever? Doesn't anyone do this anymore?

Is it necessary to advise someone to end a marriage (or even a relationship) based on one mistake?

2007-11-24 11:27:22 · 24 answers · asked by Been here before 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Help save our friendship and teamwork. It has changed/ended in the last 4 weeks. For most of the last 25 yrs, we have been the ying and yang of a great team, family and carriers in the same industry. We have been the rock and center of both our families as they all went through many devoirs. My Wife’s mom as been through 5 of them, moreover is a fan of devoirs and moving on!! However, now my wife suggest, she is done with ours, without getting any HELP! We both have lots of issues, especially from our lack of family support. I strongly, believe in expert help with everything…. education, taxes, investments, parenting, life, and most of all, relationships. However, this is our biggest disagreement, that has been going on for 25 years. So how can I get her to want EXPERT HELP?? Moreover believe in the expert advice out there?

How do I fine expert help, moreover get her to go?

2007-11-24 11:21:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when i was younger i grew up with domestic violence. me and my sister had to listen to my dad beating my mom. he would beg her forgiveness and she would always take him back. i used to hate my mom for going back and putting us through it. it stopped when i was about 14 and it seems my dad has learnt to control his anger and knows that my mom wouldnt consider going back ever again if he went back to his old ways . but even though im grown up and got kids of my own i still relive it in my head evey night in bed and even though my dad is really good to me and my sisters and dotes on us i still cant see past the violent wife beater he used to be and i try to avoid him all together. i know i should drop my guard and give him a second chance but i cant even say his name without having flashbacks. i just need some friendly advice and i cnt get therapy because i cnt afford it. please help

2007-11-24 11:19:31 · 23 answers · asked by crazy_mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where are you girls hiding? I haven't been able to find any women that fit such characteristics... so where do i look for this special breed of women?

2007-11-24 11:19:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i've got brown eyes, tanned skin,im tall skinny and most people tell me how pretty i am. but ive only had 1 boyfriend. what should i do to make myself more dateable

2007-11-24 11:17:24 · 24 answers · asked by Yaalan G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for about three weeks but with my husband altogether about seven months. He is involved with the Mormon church but not deeply and even admits to not believing in all of their beliefs. My question is, how do I cope with the fact that he has not informed his church that he is married? He says he has not told the church because they believe that young men ( he is 21, I am 19) should go on a two year mission before they marry. Now every time the Bishop calls, I am referred to as his girlfriend and he is constantly lying to the church when he is with me. All of his friends from the church don't even know about me and if they do, its only as his girlfriend. I want to introduce him to my Christian church, but he is reluctant and I have lost all ideas about what to do. I don't want to be a secret anymore. Help!!!!

2007-11-24 11:16:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Cause I never know when girls are checking me out. maybe I'm ugly, but I don't want to believe it. Why don't girls make it obvious when they're checking a guy out? And why is it hard for us guys to know when girls are checking us out?

2007-11-24 11:15:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am finding out i am really ugly. whenever i post my pics and ask girls what they think, they either tell me i'm average or ugly. there are plenty of average and unattractive guys my age(i'm 19) who post those questions and girls tell them that they look fine or that they're cute. they are barely ever called ugly. the fact that girls need to say it to me must mean that i am REALLY ugly.

i never knew i was this ugly and even though i know i'm not hot, i don't see what it is that makes me so much uglier than most average guys my age. i'm so confused and depressed. i don't enjoy life anymore. i'd give almost anything for women to not see me as ugly. it hurts me so much when women i'm attracted to(which includes most women) are repulsed by the way i look. and it makes me feel so pathetic that they find most other guys my age so adorable.

i don't know how to get over this... i need someone to talk to.

2007-11-24 11:12:32 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been the custodial parent since my boys were born. He wants to have joint custodial parenting. I don't think he is priveledged to be nor deserve to be, he has never taken full responsibility of the boys, and my oldest is 13 yrs old. How do we resolve this without going to court where it can become expensive?

2007-11-24 11:12:20 · 6 answers · asked by Christine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i do clam up i look like a fool and can not say a word or i am at a loss and shyness comes into play

2007-11-24 11:11:32 · 1 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 11:09:05 · 26 answers · asked by 8 mile 5 in Singles & Dating

im 20 yrs old. My girlfriend and I have been dating for two months but only about a week "officially." I want to tell her I love her because I truly feel like I love her. Im positive it is not infatuation or lust. Im pretty sure she feels the same way because we dated the two months and she was the one to tell me she was ready for a relationship with me. Isnt the point of a relationship because we are in love. If she didnt love me would she ever agree to be my girlfriend???Should I tell her???

2007-11-24 11:08:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not popular in my school, i'm in the middle anyways. I'm not ugly or fat and i think i have a good sense of style. Do you have any ideas of how i can get more popular? :P

2007-11-24 11:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been friends for 3 years and are super close this year. he has a million nicknames 4 me and stares at me a lot when we talk. in homeroom he'll randomly stare at me from across the room 2 make me laugh and if he sees me in the hallway he'll come and try to shove me lol. if im not on aim and he's on he'll ask my friends where i am. he always makes fun of my height b/c im really short and he'll try 2 close my locker all the time. and sumtimes he'll be talk like a perv i think 2 get a reaction out of me. one time on aim he actually signed back on 2 just say good night 2 me. my friend megan told her other friend that we both like each other and wanna go out and i told my guy friend this and he got all pissed at meg. so, does he like me? and if he does why hasnt he asked me out yet?

2007-11-24 11:05:36 · 34 answers · asked by dan_sher92 2 in Singles & Dating

i went out on a second date 3 days ago (kinda a first date b/c it's since we actually started talking again. we hadn't talked to each other in a couple of months, when he asked me to go out on a date again.). the date went alright, but i think the first time we went out was better. anyways, i left him a voice mail on his phone yesterday saying that i had a good time, and he hasn't called me back or anything. there's alot of issues between us b/c he lied to me the last time we were supposed to go out and he's 24 and i'm 18. is he playing hard to get, or is he just not interested?

2007-11-24 11:05:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many of you are married still to same man or woman, and are 30 or older? I was just thinking how many people that are friends and relatives that have been married and divorced and then married once again! And I am only 47 and my wife is 43? Its kind of sad that people marry and divorce so easily now days! Not much commitment anymore I guess? So how about you? Are you 30 and over and still married to that one man or women? And if so, how many years?

2007-11-24 11:04:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my boyfriend has had a history of cheating. But when he did it to me A LOT after muchhhh consideration i forgave him. I was supposed to go with him and his sister somewhere today but I never said if I would or wouldn't. But I was hinting I didnt want to go because I didnt like his sister. I have been sick as a dog this and last week trying to get better so I could go just to see him and to make him happy. so i asked him today if he would still like me to go and he said no i am taking YOUR FRIEND AND MY FRIEND julie so you can rest. Now I hope this is a friendship and nothing will happen. I mean she has a bf and he has me. they left around 3 and they arent back STILL WTF is going on here?

2007-11-24 11:04:01 · 3 answers · asked by XxGothXx D 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not fat or ugly, you can trust me on that. I'm popular, but not a *****. I'm friendly, but a little shy. Guys from other towns like me, but the ones that go to my school and stuff don't. They call me and my friends prude and stuff. But, they still like my friends and would go out with them. Guys, why would you not like someone for no reason??

2007-11-24 11:02:45 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I brokeup about 2 months ago. Recently, I had a miscarriage throughout all the drama. I informed him throughout the complications of the pregnancy, in which he was hoping for good news. When I finally told him that I lost the baby, he just shut down and really didnt want to talk. Now he wont pick up the phone. It makes me angry that he doesnt have the consideration to check on me or his child. As of this day, I dont know if he cares and is just upset or he just doesnt care at all. You would think he would be trying to console me because Im dealing with it more in a personal way. I finally accepted what happend but I am sitll angry inside that I havent heard from him. Even his Mom called me!! My question is, I want to email him and tell him I am hurt by his actions. I still care about him but I am really hurt by his lack of concern. Id rather not speak to him on the phone, but sometimes my curiosity gets the best of me. So would an email justify? I have to say something.

2007-11-24 11:01:08 · 27 answers · asked by ♥ Alwayz..... 4 in Singles & Dating

i liked this girl for a really long time now......me and my friends went out yesterday and she was supposed to be there but she has work...so I just texted her saying we miss her soo much.....we were planning to go to disneyland as a group..that's why we had a meeting..and she wasnt there but she said that she is most definitely ok with everything we plan.

so I texted her saying how much we miss her and she said that she wish she could have been there and to see us also. I told her what time would be the best to call her cuz I don't want to disturb her..and she said "you can call me whenever you want..I love getting calls from Ms.(my name)...."

what does she mean by that? im so confused....i like her A LOT!

2007-11-24 10:58:53 · 1 answers · asked by hellocrazyb 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl. Shes married. Im nearly married. But neither of us are happy in our current relationships. Things have gotten pretty hot and heavy and its only a matter of time before the Apple is bitten into. Why is it so tempting? The thought of becoming single first hasnt really entered either of our minds. Do I just need complication in my life to feel complete?

2007-11-24 10:58:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please help me out! I really wanna do this but where do you think we should do it at?

2007-11-24 10:53:45 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 10:53:32 · 4 answers · asked by gigolo07 1 in Singles & Dating

hi

i have been married for 5 years and my wife keeps fighting with me no reason what so ever. my wifes brother moved in with us so he might make her feel better but he is 13 and i am 25 he keeps being rude and swearing at me i told my wife and she just tells him off slighty then does not bother but when tell him off she takes his side and starts fightning with me. he only moved in 4 months ago. problems were from start. now she wont tell him to go back to his parents house and i have complained to his parents but they don,t bother either. i am very stuck as i love my wife. but she loves me only when she needs something or if i help her family financely then she is sometimes happy. i am really sick of this marriage life. i feel like i am caged in no air. all you guys and girls please tell me what i should do? should i keep or divorce her? asap help plz plz i am really upset. i am a person who minds his own business but still worlds so cruel to me!!!

2007-11-24 10:53:15 · 11 answers · asked by mukhsanainshah22 1 in Marriage & Divorce