we've been friends for 3 years and are super close this year. he has a million nicknames 4 me and stares at me a lot when we talk. in homeroom he'll randomly stare at me from across the room 2 make me laugh and if he sees me in the hallway he'll come and try to shove me lol. if im not on aim and he's on he'll ask my friends where i am. he always makes fun of my height b/c im really short and he'll try 2 close my locker all the time. and sumtimes he'll be talk like a perv i think 2 get a reaction out of me. one time on aim he actually signed back on 2 just say good night 2 me. my friend megan told her other friend that we both like each other and wanna go out and i told my guy friend this and he got all pissed at meg. so, does he like me? and if he does why hasnt he asked me out yet?
2007-11-24 11:05:36 · 34 answers · asked by dan_sher92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol srry if i sound naieve. i'm just not sure if he likes me like a sister or if he likes me as more than a friend.
2007-11-24 11:31:30 · update #1
and the thing is he's NOT SHY. idk if he's just shy around me right now b/c the situation but he's really loud and talks 2 ppl all the time
2007-11-24 11:53:44 · update #2
i think he does like you, but is still kinda shy about it. he acts like he def. likes you, but when meggan said something he got all pissed.so maybe he is shy about asking you out. you might get a good and/or better reaction if maybe you ask him out. instead of waiting for him to. i do think he likes you.. go for it.
lata :-)
2007-11-24 11:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Francesca N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no doubt that he likes you, and you like him too. The both of you are scared that if you ask the other person out and the answer is no the friendship will change. Take it from me, don't be scared- take a chance and go for it. Most folks go from strangers to dating and hope to become friends. You are already friends and you know each other very well. Dating could be a really good thing for you.
2007-11-24 11:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Charles D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think he likes you. I think that he may just automatically think that you are suppose to know just by his actions- some boys are just goofy like that. lol. The best thing that you can do is to come straight out and ask him if he likes you and then if you feel the same way then maybe you guys can start a relationship.
2007-11-24 11:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he likes you, but it's also possible that you're just a friend to him.
If you like him then I'd suggest telling him that. If you two are really close it won't push you apart, he'll just live with it and you'll both move on.
However, if you don't like him I'd suggest just ignoring it. If he asks you out politely tell him that you like him as a friend but aren't interested in dating him. If he doesn't ask you out then that might just be his normal behavior.
I have a guy friend who I always used to think liked me. But as it turns out he just acts like that all the time. Sometimes it's easy to get friendship confused with attraction.
Good luck!
2007-11-24 11:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does. He hasn't asked you out because he's afraid you'll say no. So just do it yourself. If you've been friends that long you've got a lot more going for you than most people. Always best to be friends with the person you're with.
2007-11-24 11:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does a lot.
But he is safe here. If it moves then he is at risk of losing you. UNFORTUNATELY this happens quite a bit. egos and feeling are at risk. Maybe he is just not ready but meg made him feel threatened and he felt pressured
You could possibly ask a few general questions about dating like
Who do you think would make good coupleds or are really good couples, or who does he date etc.
You are probably his dream girl and he is terrified of a no. you could gently ask him?
2007-11-24 11:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does. Maybe you should ask him out if you like him too; possibly to a non-threatening thing like a movie (that could also be a friend-type event). If he agrees to go with you, and you feel a positive vibe, then try some non-threatening gesture like putting your head on his shoulder, holding his hand, etc. Then see how he responds...
2007-11-24 11:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by deanc1963 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. He probably hasn't asked you out yet, because he thinks you might be sending mixed emotions to him. Before my boyfriend and I started going out, i had to actually tell him up straight, YES I LIKE YOU! We've been going out for 4 months and two days now. I hope this works for you. =]
2007-11-24 11:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Abby,,[[RAWR]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and he hasn't told you because he fears rejection, especially because of your long time friendship. There is a lot at stake if you are like"no." So he's scared, but he obviously likes you.
2007-11-24 11:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by whodunit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you.
He tries to make you laugh.
He makes fun of you because it's his way of flirting - same with shoving you, closing your locker (all ways to touch you/be near you).
He got mad at your friend because she made it obvious (or more obvious than it was) that he liked you - it was embarrassing.
2007-11-24 11:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋