Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

I'm a woman that cares about her appearance.....I get my hair done, nails done, and loves to go shopping. If a guy approaches me who looks like he has been in a car wreck and I don't show interest; then, how will that guy perceive me?

2007-11-24 10:50:38 · 18 answers · asked by smartsassyshiny 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is a major gambler. She loves the casino and the poker tournaments, but she has one major problem: She can't quit gambling.
She lost her car due to gambling, her house, and she's about to lose her job. I've tried to help her, but I feel that I can't. Gambling isn't fun anymore and it's becoming a major addiction of hers. Does anyone have any suggestions on where she can go to get help?

2007-11-24 10:48:40 · 5 answers · asked by Daphne 1 in Friends

My boyfriend left me when I told him I was bisexual. We've been going out for 6 months, I thought he could haddle it. His exact words were "I wouldn't be able to take it if you ditched me fo' a chick." Explain it to me please. Backround info: I'm 15, he's 16, the 28th is our 6 month annavesy.

2007-11-24 10:48:28 · 18 answers · asked by Alexa 1 in Singles & Dating

I try to be nice.

2007-11-24 10:47:16 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i cheated on my last bf...with my current bloke. and now my current bloke doesnt trust me he looks over my shoulder when i text hes knows my passwords and is always checking my emails and bebo account and asking about the boys on there.i can understand why but ive explained to him how different the relationships are! i cheated because i was in an abusive relationshio and im totally faithful in everyway to my bloke.wot can i say to him to get him to trust me and not keep checking up on me???

2007-11-24 10:45:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a boy and his father were in an car crash and the father died..... and the boy got tooken to a hospital. the doctor came in the room and said this is my child how is that possibe .......i know but do you

2007-11-24 10:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Chicago 3 in Family

my arms around her waist,and her arms around my neck (very close) and lasts 4sec or more

2007-11-24 10:43:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i been friends with this girl for a while and i liked her for a long time but i dont know how to say that i like her without messing up our friendship.

2007-11-24 10:43:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-24 10:40:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 10:40:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 10:40:02 · 6 answers · asked by sara d 1 in Singles & Dating

distant and rude with you. To the point that its beyond rude sometimes. Youve mentioned it but she says she doesnt see it or shes caught herself and admits it but it doesnt change. Worse is she is a bm at my wedding andt has a critisism about everything from the dresses i pick for her etc. Whereas with her wedding becomes extremely rude should you make a comment about her wedding decisions. Its getting harder and harder to bite my tongue. Help!?

2007-11-24 10:40:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

That would be hard. How do you forget and ignore everything thats happened?

2007-11-24 10:39:35 · 38 answers · asked by ......//;' 4 in Singles & Dating

I’ve known her by just saying hi in the hallways at school now for about 3 months. I started talking to her on facebook (simple little messages) about a week ago and in the past 3 days every night for about 3 hours we have talked on instant messenging. before nothing was happening now i don’t know what to call our relationship, i need to know if she is into me because i would actually like to date her. oh yeah were both 16

2007-11-24 10:37:11 · 2 answers · asked by amidawg 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 10:36:39 · 7 answers · asked by donald j 1 in Singles & Dating

if you are a hott guy i wanna know what a girl can wear that makes you notice her... or what she can do... and does her smile REALLY matter?

2007-11-24 10:36:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend now for only about a month. After talking online and on the phone for a month, we found that we really liked each other. Even with my hesitation and at one time being just dead set against a relationship, he kept sweetly pursuing until I gave in. He has made me happier than I have ever been in a relationship, and feel more secure about relationships in general. /I was wary of any man because of past negative relationship experiences. To make a long story short: ever since I was raped at 17 after trying to wait until marriage, I lost my sense of self-value. Which explains all of the...not nice... men that i entered into relationships with thereafter. Which explains my firstn pregnancy, which was with a man that seemed as nice as my current boyfriend. Only with him the "act" stopped as soon as he found out i was pregnant. I'm definitely getting an abortion, I just wonder if I should tell the father. I know I could not handle a baby with my 4 yr. old.

2007-11-24 10:36:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 10:35:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is such a wimp. He's too shy to call me while he's at his parents house for Thanksgiving. His parents know about me, I went there last year for Thanksgiving. But still, he is too shy or something that he doesn't want to have a conversation in front of them. Why can't he just call to say "Hey, how's everything, oh yeah? Well we had turkey, ok, bye!" How is that embarassing.

2007-11-24 10:32:55 · 3 answers · asked by Kathy1 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean what are their problems. Are they that high and mighty that they can just turn me down when I ask them out? Geez!! How can I get them on a date?

2007-11-24 10:32:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 10:32:41 · 20 answers · asked by Allen L. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Using "escort girls" for 1hr quickies. Using condoms of course. What you dont know does not hurt you.

2007-11-24 10:32:13 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister is 24yrs old now and she has told my mom and i that our uncle(my mom's brother) use to molest her when she was 10yrs old. he was 18yr old then, .. i want to confront him but my sister and mom says that it will tear the family apart and that it was so long ago what positive can come from it.. my sister is married with kids now and so is my uncle..should i confront him or not? if i don't he will feel he has gotten away with it

2007-11-24 10:31:24 · 21 answers · asked by trustluvlove 1 in Family

I've an unusual situation and plz don't bash me on it. I'd problems in my marriage and separated but during that time I met a guy whom I met 6yrs ago. At the time I'd no feelings for him but he did and even wanted to married me, but I said no. So, now 6 yrs later we met again and this time is different, he is divorced and single. I told him everything about me and what is going on in my marriage and my husband constantly cheated on me. For the 1st week we talked, he told me he still loves me with his heart and wanted me to married him. But I'm in the middle of things, not yet divorce. And told him I can't. So, things went on as usual. Until he told me that I had to make a decision him or my husband b/c he also has to make a decision. I was surprised and said what type of decision? He also has someone on the side who is more than friend. I was hurt; I felt cheated and lied to. That girl called everytime we hung out. So, now I stop talking to him and him to me.Do Ihave the right to upset

2007-11-24 10:29:49 · 41 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

lol
tehe
im bored so plz tell

2007-11-24 10:28:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have asked my husband to be honest (long story) I am on the edge of divorce and he knows he needs to be honest for this to work, but he tells stupid lies to make himself look better to others. His lies become a story and then take on a life of themselves. He denies them even when I flat out catch him. Guys what the heck?

2007-11-24 10:26:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

basically the last 2 weeks of my relationship with my boyfriend were a roller coaster. One day he said he wanted to be with me, next maybe we should break up, back to he wants me to finally breaking up for good. THis continued post break up with maybe this will work to maybe not back and forth for 3 more weeks till I finally reached my breaking point. I flipped out said some harsh things. Do i regret them, yes and I am sorry but it takes a lot to push me to that point and he did. He then says we do need to move on. I completely cut him out, photos, phone number, pictures from facebook, everything. I get a message from him on facebook saying why did you delete our photos which I ignored and blocked him. my question was, was I too harsh and was it immature?

2007-11-24 10:25:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's me: exciting job, great family, plenty of money, attractive sexy appearance ie: tall, blonde, fit/skinny, big boobs, lovely smile, big blue eyes, pretty face, a nice, even temperament, funny interesting things to say, but I don't talk on and on unless I have something worth saying. I would be a great girlfriend- my last serious relationship was for 6 years and we are still great friends, so I know what I'm doing. Aren't I a good catch? I can't understand why I've been single for a year??? Allegedly, there are 13,000 more single women than men in my age group in this city. Is that why I can't find someone? I have dated ten guys since my ex, and not one of them is interesting enough for me to get anything near serious over. (except one, who is hung up on his ex wife so I have stopped seeing him). Do I have to compromise and be with someone who is not right for me? Before its too late? I'm 29 and I want a family eventually!

2007-11-24 10:24:52 · 3 answers · asked by Ara 1 in Singles & Dating

he is hateful, disrespectful, complains about everything his big answer to why he doesn't help around the house is that he has a job. he is a bully to her son just like he was to my son..she and i have had our differences but she is seeing the light about what i told her about him i never lied to her about him what should i tell her

2007-11-24 10:22:07 · 42 answers · asked by neesa o 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Junior just woke up for no reason and hes standing tall and proud. What should i do?

2007-11-24 10:20:56 · 7 answers · asked by thisisalex69 1 in Singles & Dating