basically the last 2 weeks of my relationship with my boyfriend were a roller coaster. One day he said he wanted to be with me, next maybe we should break up, back to he wants me to finally breaking up for good. THis continued post break up with maybe this will work to maybe not back and forth for 3 more weeks till I finally reached my breaking point. I flipped out said some harsh things. Do i regret them, yes and I am sorry but it takes a lot to push me to that point and he did. He then says we do need to move on. I completely cut him out, photos, phone number, pictures from facebook, everything. I get a message from him on facebook saying why did you delete our photos which I ignored and blocked him. my question was, was I too harsh and was it immature?
2007-11-24 10:25:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahww that so kewt! when that happens when i break up wif my bfs, they completly ignore me. i don't think you were too harsh!!!!! it was TOTALLY not immature!!! what you did was normal i mean it be kinda retarded to keep pictures of you and ur ex. unless you guys became very close friends or something. well anyway what u did was totally normal
2007-11-27 13:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by --- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, this guy is the one being immature! He said that you should move on, so you deleted his pictures, wasn't that what you were supposed to do? If you broke up with him for sure then he shouldn't mind at all of the pictures that you deleted! If he asks you out again, don't go becuz you what's gonna happen. Don't regret at all what you did to him. This guy NEEDS to get over it! In the meantime don't think that you were being to harsh or immmature..It's the complete opposite!
2007-11-24 18:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by cassie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have let him know that you wanted no further contact with him. there's nothing wrong with wanting to completely cut all ties if it didn't work out. there's no 'must be friends after' rule, especially if he was a jerk. on the other hand, if he was a good friend you may want to 'take a break' and try being friends in 3-6 months. casual things, with groups around :)
2007-11-24 18:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Rick L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.Sounds like he cant make up his mind due to interest in another girl that he can't get a clear "yes" from.You did the right thing and maybe he will think twice before behaving like this with the next girl.Stick to your guns for he will be apologizing all over the place begging for another chance, before he starts ditzin you big time when you refuse to give him one.
2007-11-24 18:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you, he stressed you out, you sound like you weren't happy, and he even told you to move on. You have done nothing wrong. He needs to make up his mind because it seems he has no clue what his own feelings are. so he shouldn't be worrying about yours. you are doing the right thing to move on. he caused it. guys are stupid quite often, especially when they are confused. trust me, i'm one of them. you just do whatever you feel you need to move on, there's no "nice" or "mean" way of moving on from a relationship. I hope this helps.
2007-11-24 18:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by jeremy dutch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean-I to have had a guy push me to my breaking point, and yes, I flipped out. But to make him feel really stupid, just kill him with kindness...I don't mean put his pics back up or talk to him non-stop, be cordial and with a smile, he'll hate that your not upset and he'll want you, and make him feel dumb by letting him know you don't want him and you've moved on, it only brings you up. good luck :-)
2007-11-24 18:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did do the right thing. He was toying with your heart, it's better that you just move on with out him. Those kind of guys will keep breaking your heart and it never gets better.
2007-11-24 18:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, now he knows he lost a good thing by trying to play head games with you and you did what any one would have except it took you longer than most.
2007-11-24 18:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Dennis M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope , maybe he got the message that your not into stupid games and want a real relationship where people act like adults.
Good for you
2007-11-24 18:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by BILL 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he was being immature. You're doing the right thing. . . moving on. Good Luck!
2007-11-24 18:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋