Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

I’ve known her by just saying hi in the hallways at school now for about 3 months. I started talking to her on facebook (simple little messages) about a week ago and in the past 3 days every night for about 3 hours we have talked on instant messenging. before nothing was happening now i don’t know what to call our relationship, i need to know if she is into me because i would actually like to date her. oh yeah were both 16

2007-11-24 10:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by amidawg 1 in Singles & Dating

my bff has a bf she hasnt toldher parents shes allwoed to date but she wont tell them its really annoying me i want her parents to know when she goes on dates with him she lies and says shes going on with me so im dragged along, yeah i know im being used. i wish shed tell her parents when im with her and her parents are them im always like your boyfri-I MEAN umm him. its annoying I WANT TO SHOUT IT TO THE WORLD im sorry its gettting annoying. Im afraid to tell ehr parents cause i when i get a bf she might want to tell my parents and im not allowed ot have a bf. THis is really tricky if i tell her parents its gonna bite me in the *** one day ughhhhhh HELP MEEEE

2007-11-24 10:19:59 · 13 answers · asked by !!!lovee 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you want to do? which path should you choose? should you start finding a job or study more? should you choose a job that you really love or the one that offers you more money? should you choose the man who loves you or the man you love?

i feel lost.. how do you deal with that? and, actually, do YOU deal with that, or just leave them to be solved later?

2007-11-24 10:18:05 · 3 answers · asked by monica 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im a GIRL

ok so i know somone thats about to turn 10. she's really ugly
sorry but she has braces and harry potter glasses and never brushes her hair and she can barely fit in the school.
sorry but she acts so gross you no, it gross, and she keeps telling me: when will he ask me out? lalalalalalalalalalala

its scaring me

2007-11-24 10:17:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay... so I'm really good friends with this guy, and about a week ago, we were hanging out with a couple other people, and the other people decided to try and get me and "Chris" to hold hands. Before now, I kept trying to figure out if I liked him or not, but I thought that I did. Well, the in a few days, he asked me if I liked him or not, and I decided that I just sort of liked him but that was it. Nothing more, and there is no way I would ever go out with him. I told him I didn't want a boyfriend and stuff and I told him that I sort of liked him. Today, we went to a movie with the same people and I could tell that Chris kept trying to make a move, but I really did not want to hold hands with him! So I just made it impossible for any "moves" to be made. It was really awkward, and I decided that I just want to be good friends and nothing more. He just barely sent me this email and I have no idea what to say because I really don't want to be any more than friends.

2007-11-24 10:16:01 · 3 answers · asked by hawaiian.babe.03 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 10:14:51 · 4 answers · asked by judy c 1 in Singles & Dating

So i was out late last night with my bf and we were watching a movie on the bed, then all of a sudden there was a really scary part and he grabbed onto me. Then he looked at me really sexualy and kissed me. then we ended up turning off hte tv and having sex. it was really great up untill the part where the condom broke. then i stopped and asked if he had a new one to put on. He said "who cares" and then he kissed my ******** and other parts. I told hom to stop but then he got all "oh baby were just having a little fun"on me and i pushed him off, put my clothes on and left. Today he called and broke up with me
i feel really confused becasue he is such a great and nice and really smart guy
was i wrong to do that??
please help

2007-11-24 10:14:12 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for 2 years and the relationship went up and down. I was dealing with a lot of issues at the time, as was he. Every few months during the relationship, I would discuss with my mother or best friend how I was thinking of breaking up with him. I was too afraid to be alone though. My ex almost took care of me, like a mother would...which isn't very healthy.
When I finally got enough courage to break up with him, I met someone literally a few days later, probably due to my insecurities. This understandably hurt my ex a lot and he refused to be friends with me. Being with this new person made me face issues I didn't face with my ex. I've been with my current boyfriend for about four months and everything is going great. I haven't questioned my desire to be with him once. My ex contacted me on Thanksgiving to wish me well and I've been crying ever since. I truly love my boyfriend and now my emotions are all mixed up. Why is this happening?

2007-11-24 10:12:32 · 5 answers · asked by zelda 2 2 in Singles & Dating

I hope you gat answer.

2007-11-24 10:08:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband is coming home from iraq in 38 days!!! He's been gone for 15 months. I don't know how i'm going to get through the next 38 day's, the things i use to do before to get my mind off of him coming home arent working anymore it just gets me more anxious. Is their anything i can do to keep me patient?

2007-11-24 10:08:11 · 13 answers · asked by something_exotic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

here's my story... i like one guy who's a good friend of mine. probably even more. as soon as i have my studies in another city i didn't see him for 9 months. he is keeping textmessaging me that he can't wait when he'll meet me again. still this will happen only in january when i'll to be back home. but the point is that almost every night i see him in my dreams. but he walks away from me, he doesn't talk to me, he ignores me. i try to find him among others people but i can't see him. i have a feeling of his presence but again i can't see him. first i didn't pay attention, but now i see this strange dreams almost everynight. and in the morning i feel very bad. i like him, and i'm afraid to lose him, it scares me so much!!! what does it mean? does it mean he doesn't like me anymore?

2007-11-24 10:06:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just lost my grandma, i have no family and fake friends. i feel i look terrible
http://photos-d.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v148/25/27/697726545/n697726545_281443_6164.jpg
i have a talent in music but im too closed to make it noticeable. i just got rejected by a girl i really liked. i dont drink alcohol as i find it makes the pain even worse. i try praying to jesus but things are not getting much better. please help and dont give harsh answers like some people on here who want to vent their hatred to me. i beg you to help me please

2007-11-24 10:05:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sick of long term break ups...

2007-11-24 10:03:56 · 6 answers · asked by jonnyonabike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a girlfriend that has been a little up and down. we have dated on and off for the last two years and im not really sure what i should do. She has broken up with me twice over religion (once said god told her to and the other was she felt like i was keeping her from her church) and i have broken up with her once because of her lack of commitment and in my view lack of interest. There are things in our relationship now that are much healthier that they were before but it is still a little stagnant. We do not have quite the intimacy that i wish for and i dont know what i should do... am i doing something wrong maybe? how can i heat things up when she will say OK and stop kissing me after two seconds? should i even try or look for a new girlfriend?

2007-11-24 10:02:22 · 3 answers · asked by Aaron R 1 in Singles & Dating

Man works seven days a week eight hours a day
Goes two nights a week to college to make a better life for his family
Dead tired but goes to parents teachers meeting for all his children
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All the women whom he married left him for a fun loving man
They said he was to honest and dedicated to his family including them
Hes been going it alone now for seven years
Will be graduating with a four year degree in two more yeares
So tired he hw wants to drop
Told oldest children they are to stay in school and let him support the family
Firdst child is now entering college . All children love their father and are getting raves in school for good grades
Children have clean clothes but not a lot. He does the laundry and cooking
Leaves it for them before he struggles to work Paying for adult babysitter when hes not home
His motto. I made these children Ill die taking care of them Do you think hes a fool.
Every woman he meets says hes a fool He should live a little
He married all .

2007-11-24 10:01:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every day I look forward to the day when I move in with my man after high school. I love his chocolate butt so much. :) He is truly my everything. Weve been together for 2 years now. And leaving my parents to be with im sounds so wonderful but do you think that I dont know what i'm getting myself into or...And another thing is my dad whom I live with...doesnt want me going. But imma go anyways. Which means if he doesnt sign my financial aid form for college imma have to work for a year to save money for it.....I'm goin either way it goes....what do u think???

2007-11-24 09:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-24 09:58:08 · 1 answers · asked by blue 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 09:55:24 · 44 answers · asked by Marissa 1 in Singles & Dating

right i am 17 and ive had sex 2wice with this guy. right well apparently hes been tryin to woo my frndz and also he has been with his m8s tellin dem what i do in bed. should i dump him? i think hes a sleaze but hes the best bf ive had. and also i did lose my virginity 2 him also.

2007-11-24 09:53:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it when men say they will do something they dont actually do it until you yell at them three or four times??

2007-11-24 09:48:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-24 09:48:01 · 9 answers · asked by lildede 1 in Singles & Dating

If possible add some relevant details. Likw who make the first move and how....

2007-11-24 09:45:36 · 18 answers · asked by Noah B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im in my forties, yet I have huge temper-tantrums, mainly when Im alone and on the party lines. For those of you who are new, the party lines are where you call and try to meet people. I often record a greeting and then wait for messages. When an hour has passed and Ive gotten little to no messages, I begin to scream obcenities at the phone. I often scream "NOOOO!!!!!!" and start literally crying my eyes out. I will shout "Dammit, come on! Why am I not getting any messages?!" And slam my hands down on the desk. My neighbors have complained repeatledly about my loud noises in the apartment.

My question is- Why am I only having these childlike tantrums on the party line? In real life Im fine- I dont have fits a lot. But alone in my bedroom on the phone- if no one hits me up, I begin screaming and bawling my eyes out. I even threatened to kill myself- and over a party line! Why am I doing this?

2007-11-24 09:44:01 · 6 answers · asked by Gail R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so i've had this computer for about a year. and i paid almost $250 for it with my parents and its been in our den till now. I want it in my own room because its just easier and it would be nice to do my homework alone and such. but my parents wont let me because they think i'll do bad things. I am a really good kid and i would never do that. how can i get them to compromise to let me put it in my room. like blocking websites and such. thanks!

2007-11-24 09:43:20 · 7 answers · asked by coloradogirl21 3 in Family

Tell the story of how you first met/fell in love with your Husband / Wife or *long term* BF/GF.

If your in high school, how did you two start dating?

2007-11-24 09:42:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please I need advice. Please no mean responses. If you have to be mean or funny please don't respond. My mother has lung cancer. She is very sick and weak. It is only me, her and my aunt which is her sister. I have 2 children 8 years, and 8 months. My mom currently lives with me in my tiny, crowded 2 bedroom apartment, while my aunt has a 3 bedroom house (about to be 4 bedrooms because she is remodeling). I need help. How can I get my aunt to help me? My aunt knows that my mom is down and out and wont help at all. I have no money, or resources. I go to school full time and work part time at a convenience store. I looked into hospice but they say she needs a primary doctor and I can't find a doctor to accept her insurance (medicare) and pay fully for the services. Basically, my question is how can I get my aunt to help me out? She wont even offer. She claims that she cares but thats all she ever says. How can I handle this situation even if I can't get her help?

2007-11-24 09:41:52 · 3 answers · asked by lwomar 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so 'm not even dateing this one guy but still we like each other alot. and we were upposed to hangout tomowrow and he asked why couldnt he today so i said i couldnt because i was hanging out with my friend Rachel R. so he says oh i have not seen rachel in a while why cant all three of us but it was my other rachel i was going to be with. so today comes and my rachel says she couldnt. then i get a phone call by my friend allie saying me her matt and rachel hk and we were going to smoke a bowl. so i told him so he wouldnt get mad if he found out and think i was lying . but he went crazzy that i was ditching him to smoke.. and said he does not date girls who smoke and that i'm stupid for doing it and that i was ditching him. did i honestly do anything wrong ? he's being such a hypocrite. and should i just leave him alone because obviously he wants me to stop but its not like im a stoner i just do it once every two weeks. just this week twice thursday and today . blah he's annoying

2007-11-24 09:41:30 · 8 answers · asked by Scenar H 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so sadly im 24 and never worked. i got my cna lisenses a few years back but there no good no more. im not lazy i just got out of a 10 yr relationship (we were married 5 yrs) and he was very controling and basicly i never had a life im just now trying to get my life back in control its hard for me cause i been told for so long im stupid ...ect. so i feel like i cant get a job. i think that a employer would look at my age and see have no experence and pass me over. please help. thanks

2007-11-24 09:40:59 · 17 answers · asked by Boggen1210 5 in Marriage & Divorce

this ? is for the fellas. my friend and i have been dating only 7wks and he has gone down on me already. he was anxious and i wonder if im special or does he do it to all the girls? i thought that was something you did over a period of time in the relationship. whats up?

2007-11-24 09:39:54 · 26 answers · asked by moneak29 1 in Singles & Dating

couply of my girlfriends having a debate. i think he is, anyone else?
http://www.liamrosenior.com/images/lr.jpg
xxx

2007-11-24 09:38:05 · 1 answers · asked by ledge2207 1 in Singles & Dating