Okay... so I'm really good friends with this guy, and about a week ago, we were hanging out with a couple other people, and the other people decided to try and get me and "Chris" to hold hands. Before now, I kept trying to figure out if I liked him or not, but I thought that I did. Well, the in a few days, he asked me if I liked him or not, and I decided that I just sort of liked him but that was it. Nothing more, and there is no way I would ever go out with him. I told him I didn't want a boyfriend and stuff and I told him that I sort of liked him. Today, we went to a movie with the same people and I could tell that Chris kept trying to make a move, but I really did not want to hold hands with him! So I just made it impossible for any "moves" to be made. It was really awkward, and I decided that I just want to be good friends and nothing more. He just barely sent me this email and I have no idea what to say because I really don't want to be any more than friends.
2007-11-24 10:16:01 · 3 answers · asked by hawaiian.babe.03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"was i kinda wierd tonight? if i was im sorry..i get weird when i like girls ya know? anyways what would you say if i had asked you out or like tryed to hold your hand?"
I just want to be friends thats all! what do I say!
How does this sound for a response?
hmmm... I was kind of out of it yesterday so ya I don't really remember if you were acting weird...
About the second question, to tell you the truth. I've been thinking a lot and this is what I figured out. I really really love being way good friends with you guys, and I don't want to risk that friendship at all. When you asked me if I liked you, I had been really stressed out and I had a ton on my mind so I couldn't really think things through. So through this whole week, I've been thinking a lot and I decided that I like you more in a brother sister kind of way, and not a girlfriend boyfriend way. I don't know if that makes sense, but I guess I'm saying that I do care about you, but just as a really good friend. I hope you und
2007-11-24 10:16:46 · update #1
Ouch. Owie..Not the you're like a brother to me line. This is as bad as when men say they'll respect you in the morning!!
Just tell him you really like him as a friend, but there's no chemistry for making the next step yet. You feel like your mutual friends are trying to make something more happen, and you'd like to just enjoy being with him..and not worry about anything else.
2007-11-24 10:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not at all harsh. You had to lay down the line and he didnt' like it.
2007-11-24 10:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay. just scratch out the "brother/sister" thingy, it makes them feel worse.
2007-11-24 10:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by STFU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋