here's my story... i like one guy who's a good friend of mine. probably even more. as soon as i have my studies in another city i didn't see him for 9 months. he is keeping textmessaging me that he can't wait when he'll meet me again. still this will happen only in january when i'll to be back home. but the point is that almost every night i see him in my dreams. but he walks away from me, he doesn't talk to me, he ignores me. i try to find him among others people but i can't see him. i have a feeling of his presence but again i can't see him. first i didn't pay attention, but now i see this strange dreams almost everynight. and in the morning i feel very bad. i like him, and i'm afraid to lose him, it scares me so much!!! what does it mean? does it mean he doesn't like me anymore?
2007-11-24 10:06:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already know the answer to this and have even put it in the question. Allow me to quote...
"i like him, and i'm afraid to lose him, it scares me so much!!! "
The dream is your subconcious showing you that, over and over.
It is tough to be apart from someone you have feelings for and natural to worry the distance and time apart may have changed things.
However I think the fact he has stayed in touch is a good sign he still has feelings for you, so I'd try not to worry to much Honey.
I would try to do some positive visualisations of him before you go to sleep. See him very clear and vivid, smiling at you and doing the things you wants him to. Be relaxed in yourself when you do this and try to go to sleep with a much more positve feeling and your anxieties should subside.
Ant the end of the day you can't really do too much until January apart from try to stay positve and look forward to being together again. But I think it will work out good.
Take care and good luck!
2007-11-24 10:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, only you can know for sure. But it sounds like you are afraid of losing him or that he will lose interest in you because you are so far away. Keep a journal by the bed and write down your dreams as soon as you wake up-while they are fresh. In time you will understand. Maybe a weekend visit may help?
2007-11-24 18:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have psychic dream sometimes. Some of them come true. Which is sad. Like, usually my dream has something to do with or will relate with something that i do or what happens the next day. Its really freaky. This dream means that you guys are far away from eachother. Even though you are aware of that it bothers you inside. As much as you struggle to hide it, your mind reminds you of how upset you really are
2007-11-24 18:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tripp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember our dreams are often our subconcious working overtime. This guy is very important to you and you are afraid you will lose him. The good thing is that in the dream you do feel his presence which probably means you are on his mind .
2007-11-24 18:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by darbygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am no dream expert but it sounds like it means, that he is far away and unreachable... Making you feel like you are losing him or don't have a shot.... He ignores you because the distance make it hard on the both of you.
That's my guess!
Don't give up on him though, it was just a dream!
2007-11-24 18:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s said that dreams are subconscious revelations of both fears and desires. The desire- you want to get to know him. The fear- That he`ll walk away from you.
Take my word for it. If he has texted you more than once he feels a least similar to how you feel. Don`t waste time worrying about rejection. That`s just you being selfish about how you Will feel if it happens.
Goooo for it!!!
2007-11-24 18:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by drcosentino2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you the truth...i think its BECAUSE you are afraid to lose him and you think about it to much so it's even in ur head while u're asleep. just try and relax you know he's waiting for you that must mean he likes and he does miss u. maybe ur just too worried that when he sees you he'll think u changed and he wont like u, but it actually doesnt happen that easily i think if he didnt like u he would probably slowly stop messaging you. =] so dont worry and relax
2007-11-24 18:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Layla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think dreams are just various synapses and such firing in our brains. It may be a reflection of your fears and/or desires. Perhaps you're afraid of losing him, or because you can't see him in real life, you can't see him in your dreams either.
I wouldn't worry about it. I think you're looking too hard for a meaning that probably isn't there.
2007-11-24 18:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Brittae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. thats hard. it could mean 1 of 2 things. 1 you miss him ALOT and cant get him off your mind and you feel helpless as to not being able to see him for a while and you are worrying about him moving on to someone else. or 2 the bad news. he may stop liking you (or he thinks he does). it takes guys longer to forget and stop loving someone than it does for us girls.
2007-11-24 18:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by lenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams can represent many things but the truth is rarely one of them. Nothing has changed in reality. Just keep your head about you and you will be fine. Take care.
2007-11-24 18:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by ar15skrilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋