I’ve known her by just saying hi in the hallways at school now for about 3 months. I started talking to her on facebook (simple little messages) about a week ago and in the past 3 days every night for about 3 hours we have talked on instant messenging. before nothing was happening now i don’t know what to call our relationship, i need to know if she is into me because i would actually like to date her. oh yeah were both 16
2007-11-24 10:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by amidawg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the thing is that I'm a girl and in situations like these we tend to be just as confused if not more so. I think that she has someone of a idea of you liking her if you constantly say hi to her. She might even like you.Just think about the ways she talks to you on the instant messanging.Maybe that will give you a clue.She might like you if she was the one to ask for your facebook account. Either way I would just go with the flow.See what happens.She might like you or she might just be talking to you because she likes you as a friend.But who knows her liking you as a friend could turn into something else.First of all though I would flirt with her.Not too much but where she gets that you like her a little. Once you flirt and hope she gets the gist that you like her then you can ask her out to the movies or something.I'm a girl and I'd probably flirt back if I knew a guy was fliritng with me.I'm not all that good at flirting but even i would try. So just ask her out.Get to know her even more.Even though with those three hour somputer sessions you probably know her pretty well. And hey just take it easy if you do all this.Chances are word will get out through the grapvine of highschool and you'll know if she at least likes somehthing about you. But dont be afraid of making the first move.You know you like her.Your worried so go and take teh worry off of both of you and ask her out.Theres no point in worring forever.So just get it over with.Hope I helped.(I want to be either a journalist/advice columnist so good luck to me!) I've been in situations like this before and know other girls or guys who have been in situations like this.So dont feel so bad your not the only one confused.Good luck.Hope she likes you.
2007-11-24 10:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by blondecrazything_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough one to answer because i dont know what ya'll talk about. it's better not to guess. i'm assuming neither one of you are in a relationship so thats a start. just continue being friends with her and start occasionally flirting. not just blatantlt flirting, but subtly where she will just get hints. dont rush anything and just let it unfold like it will. and if you dont get together, you will at least have a good friend. good luck
2007-11-24 18:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. It seems like she has interest in you if she spends three hours a night talking to you.
I was in a position like that once and it turned out he did like me...except for the fact he had a girlfriend.
Try not to get your hopes up incase they come crumbling down.
Talk to her some more, if things are meant to happen they will.
Best of luck to both of you.
2007-11-24 18:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by xxxfallenheartxxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure she is into you because no girl would waste 9 hours talking to a guy she wasn't into. So I think you should go out with her. Good luck!
2007-11-24 18:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Rashangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she were not interested in you she would NEVER spend
sooo much time im ing you.....
give it a few more days then test the water with something
simple like getting together for a school function, or studying.
if she says yes , then approach her to go out on dates.
hope this helps
2007-11-24 18:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by annmarie f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u ask her. Ask her would you like to be my girlfriend or ask her what her opinion is. say to her if she's ready for a relationship and go from there. Ask her if up front if you would like to try going out. rock her world I know u can do it!
2007-11-24 18:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sammylolou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like shes into u but before u ask her out make sure she doesnt have a boyfriend!
2007-11-24 18:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it man, i know how it is to be nervous and shy, and it gets you nowhere. You don't want to look back and think you missed out. Just trust yer gut and be brave :D Good luck
2007-11-24 18:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like she's into you. Maybe casualy ask her to a movie or something when you're IM' ing her. Then see what happens.
2007-11-24 18:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by kdlamb24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she wants to go out with you... if she has put the effort into talkingto you for 3 hours a night, shes definately intirested. just go for it!
2007-11-24 18:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋