Sick of long term break ups...
2007-11-24 10:03:56 · 6 answers · asked by jonnyonabike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they hide their emotions the same reasons men do, to avoid hurt and rejection. they also don't always trust what they are thinking. breaking up is one of the hardest things u will ever experience in life, so its best to chose wisely from the beginning, get to know her and know her past. always encourage communication. some men make it difficult for a woman to communicate and when she does he attacks her emotionally until she completely shuts down and is afraid to say anything.
2007-11-24 10:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not just girls; guys do it too. They may find it difficult to communicate their emotions with anyone, or they may be finding it difficult to communicate with you. Take a little time to do some self-evaluation here. Are you giving off vibes that say you don't care about their feelings? Do you really listen when they talk? Do you cope an attitude when they try to explain their feelings?
Generally speaking, women tend to be more in touch with their feelings than men and are usually more open about them, so I have to wonder if you are doing something to put them off, especially since it sounds like this has happened more than once.
Think about it!
2007-11-24 18:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by JD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to work on being more sensitive. If the girls are afraid of opening up to you there's a reason. Find out why they didn't want to talk to you. Do you have a short temper? Are you judgemental? Do you hold things against people if they've done wrong in your eyes?
Once you figure out the source, you can make sure the next girl feels comfortable being honest about how they're feeling.
2007-11-24 18:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cause they know they made a big mistake by getting involved with you, they don't want to create drama until its time to GO!
sorry
(unless you like fighting all the time until the end!)
2007-11-24 18:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we decide to ignore the signals other people send us. We prefer to think everything is OK....and suddenly the **** hits the fan.
Many people use gestures, attitude and non-verbal cues to communicate, and their partners don't "get it".Perhaps that is what has happened to you.
2007-11-24 19:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are commitment phobic and just mean.
2007-11-24 18:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋