Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

I am designing my own order of service for the big day!

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2007-11-24 01:17:27 · 12 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

I moved schools recently and I don't know anyone there. But there's one guy there whom I've known for like 2 years, I've always thought of us as just being friends, we used to play tennis with each other twice a week. But anyway, I've been hanging out with him and other people in school recently. I don't think I fancy him, but I might, I don't know! =S I think it might just be that he's the only person I actually know and he's nice. I have trouble trusting guys as I was molestered for many years as a kid. But I think it might just be that he's the only person I trust and I'm familiar with him. I don't know, do I fancy him or just trust him?

2007-11-24 01:10:34 · 1 answers · asked by *DAMAGED --x 3 in Singles & Dating

Wondering how many woman out here who are married would work on their marriage after they got hit in the face by there husbands FIST!.
He punched me int he face, I have a fat upper lip and a black eye, I didn't call the police cause I really don't want him in jail he was drunk AGIAN.....we go through this crap every weekend yet this is the first time he has his put his hands on me , I had to call the x to come and get my 7 year old son so he would not be a part of the event. he ended up staying at his parents house since there out of town for the weekend should I say get your stuff and a lawyer and get out or get sober and we are getting help? We have only been married four months, been together a year and he has never showed any signs of this before, he was going to AA however that stopped when they said he was off probation and now he has been drinking more than ever before and refuses to go to AA. What can I do?

2007-11-24 01:10:11 · 19 answers · asked by shutterfly butterfly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So my mother-in-law goes from telling me I'm an angel to telling me all her family's problems are my fault.
I am chronically ill and have been out of work for almost 2 years, she rubs this into my face every chance she can get (Even though before I got ill I was working almost 80 hours a week). She will actually trap me into a conversation so she can verbally lash out at me. (And it's worse when she's drinking) I have NEVER said ANYTHING mean or even remotely unkind. All I've done is help her. My husband and I decided that we don't want to be around her when she's like that and especially now because we don't want our 4 month old togrow up around such negitivity. So my hubby made me a deal, we'd visit, but as soon as she starts in, we'll leave. but yesterday he took that back: see his dad asked if we'd come over to help him move and my husband said yes, then he tells me he's not going to leave his dad hanging and if his mom acts up he won't leave with me. is this fair?

2007-11-24 00:57:13 · 10 answers · asked by reptileandee 3 in Family

Well, this has just been eating me alive, my friend who I known for two years all of a sudden tells me that she has feeling’s for me, that she has been falling for me more and more. I was kind of thrilled since I felt attracted to her but only saw her as a good friend, but then again devastated, because she say’s she wants to give it time, she want’s to be sure and does not want to rush right in to it now that I know. See the problem is that she told me this a while ago and will talk about it once in a while when we hangout, text, or talk in the phone, and I been falling for her more and more and it bites! I wish that she would not of told me at all until she was really sure about it, but she already told me and I just want to distance my self from her afraid that such a special person like her will break my heart and afterwards will just become apart and our relationship as friends will never be the same. There is the possibility that nothing may come out of this, and that’s what bother’s me, I really see now how much I really like this girl, and I would just wish to stop thinking of her, at times I don’t want to even talk to her because I get so caught up thinking about her that it hurt’s if you know what I mean. She worries that I will break her heart since she had been going out with some guy for a while and he left her for another girl about a year ago. And she is scared that I would do the same and leave her if she gives me all of her heart she say’s. She has said that she really likes me for how I treat her and talk to her, that I am a very different guy and very mature and she like’s me for me, and that she hope’s that I don’t change when I am with her. But I already talked about it and assure her that I would not do such a thing to her, that I would not play with her feeling’s and I am who I am, why would I want to change, she knows my flaw’s as I do hers, we talked about everything, she is the only person that I can tell anything too, and she tells me everything as well. I been in a serious relationship before of three years and the girl left me for my bestfriend, so we been threw the same situation, so I know where she is coming from. I don’t know, I am so confused and scared at the same time, has this happen to any of you guy’s? And if so, what happen, and girls, give me some advised that may help me, you know how we guy’s can be so ignorant when it comes to women! Thanks! All of your answers will be highly appreciated!

2007-11-24 00:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by Bryan 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I sure as hell dont....in my experince...Virgins are very annoying. You have to teach them everything...first time is always painfull....and then afterwards they are so clingy! they wont go away...how does doing something your first time make it special? guys what do you think

2007-11-24 00:39:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 00:33:24 · 15 answers · asked by Barbara M 1 in Family

I was clowning around with my missis this morning, Only clowning, not nooky. And I done it, I gave her a love bite. I swear I did'nt mean to but I did. Now she says that if I don't get some good advice from one of you then she's gonna stop all nupitals. Please for the sake of my sanity help me out. I promise I won't do it again. I'm groveling.

2007-11-24 00:29:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-24 00:29:38 · 8 answers · asked by Garima C 1 in Singles & Dating

A born female marries a born male and after 16 years he gets a sex change. Does that breach the marriage contract legally in Florida? Now that he is a female, does that make the marriage null and void in Florida?

2007-11-24 00:27:10 · 10 answers · asked by curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 23 years old, me and my bf have 3 kids together and we've been together for 8 years but we arent married. we live by ourselves in an apartment and around february we're gonna get our own house. before he used to say that he wouldnt marry until he was like 30 years old but now he says he wants to marry me but it hasnt happened. whuts the hold up?

2007-11-24 00:20:16 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Lovely♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this morning i got an im from my bf saying "when you ee this call me, i really need to talk" is this bad???! last night we hung out and everything seemed fine, i said "i love you" for the first time and he said it back... ahh im freaking out. help please! what does this mean?

2007-11-24 00:17:39 · 16 answers · asked by luvs2shop2494 1 in Singles & Dating

We are going out horse back riding with my ex a girl I introduced my ex to through a business deal and our daughter and this other womans kids. I am a little nervous about this...does anyone else find this strange? My husband really wants to go and is looking forward to it.....he actually pushed for us to go.

2007-11-24 00:16:30 · 7 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Marriage & Divorce

that is really nice, but at the same time really unintelligent, and very clumsy. do you find them hard work?

2007-11-24 00:05:37 · 6 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Singles & Dating