We are going out horse back riding with my ex a girl I introduced my ex to through a business deal and our daughter and this other womans kids. I am a little nervous about this...does anyone else find this strange? My husband really wants to go and is looking forward to it.....he actually pushed for us to go.
2007-11-24 00:16:30 · 7 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks for the good answers...I don't know why....I woke up this morning and felt weird about it.....now I am happy about it and feel lucky.
2007-11-24 00:54:17 · update #1
Why is it so strange for your husband to want to go horse back riding with all of you and have a good time? Maybe your husband isn't looking at the "ex" thing like you are. He is married to you now and must trust you and your ex so why all the worry? Unless you still have feelings for your ex, then I see no need to worry. You should feel good that your husband is willing to participate in an outing like this. Most people with exes that I know makes a big fuss out of get togethers with exes. This could turn out to be a good thing. So be a good wife and don't blow it by showing any interest in your ex other than a friend and a horse back riding friend for you and your husband. (smile)
2007-11-24 00:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How a lot more are you going to position up with? He would pass to courtroom and get visitation on his possess phrases and he's good conscious of that. The purpose he is going over there and does what she desires is for the reason that he desires to. He had an affair along with her, ran to her when you 2 separated, and now remains to be worried along with her. There isn't any purpose why a person will have to need to best see his children on the different guardian's residence. This is her controlling him and him permitting it. If you preserve to permit your husband to be worried with this lady, you are a idiot. I do not care how mad he will get. If he does not pass to courtroom and get visitation, then you definitely ought to depart him. He will turn out to be having a different affair with this lady if matters preserve the way in which they're. She remains to be in love with him and is making an attempt to get him again. Wake up and stand your flooring.
2016-09-05 12:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you moved on ... sounds like every one else has... So if you have than no worries its just a friendly outing.... But if you have unresolved feelings about your ex you may want to clear the air... Good Luck
2007-11-24 00:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by diva102288 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My Exs are some of my best friends. I think it shows a huge maturity as well as the ability to survive difficult situations (character!).
2007-11-24 00:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by dribar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents are divorced and remarried and they do every family function. They get along for me, and my step mom has never seemed to mind.
2007-11-24 00:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and have fun and do not talk about the past
2007-11-24 00:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Fergie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it's strange
2007-11-24 00:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋