Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

trouble meeting women the old fashioned way. looking for something different

2007-11-24 03:41:00 · 5 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

this boy,19, added me off of bebo because he liked my site thought i looked ok...we chatted on msn and then he added his friend and said thought i might get on with him too. i got chatting to him. his name is alex he is 16 next month and he lives in Watford London and i live in dorset (bout 4 hours away) we got on really really well and have both been on webcam lots of times.

we where trying to meet up in london but it diddn't work out. my parents are fine with me dating older guys but not that i met him off the internet. i havn't told them about himyet and dont really plan to.

i want to go out with him and he feels the same way but i dont know how we can meet up or how my parents would feel about that i met him on the internet! i trust him 100%.

2007-11-24 03:38:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please be honest. I'm 14 and sometimes I feel like a freak for being single when everybody else is sucking each other's faces off. I know people will probably tell me this is all in my mind, but seriously:

at what age did you get your first boyfriend??

Thanks ^_^

2007-11-24 03:36:23 · 11 answers · asked by fabulous 2 in Singles & Dating

My relationship with my mother has recently taken a huge downward spiral. It seems as though everyday she gets mad at me over simple stuff which leads into a big arguement. i told her how i feel and it seems as though she hasnt listened or even care. im feeling so sad and wanting our relationship to be like it was. any advice

2007-11-24 03:35:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is a strange question...but I just thought of it.

I have 5 children, and I am divorced. But, I am dating and hope to marry my boyfriend.
Seeing as though I am raising my 5 children by myself, that would make me a single mother.
But, since I am seeing someone, would this really make me single?

???

2007-11-24 03:28:21 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive never done it before (im 18) and i'm a year out of high school. my high school friends and i had issues at the start of this year and we've cut all ties with eachother, and i've been having a really hard time finding people that i can relate to at university. My high school ex boyfriend whose been a real prick to me in the past asked if i wanted to have sex with him. I think i do, but im just worried that i may be doing it out of loneliness, as though i'm craving social inclusion so much that i'd settle for sex if i cant have true friends. Gosh i'm such a mess....so anyway, What do you think? does it seem as though i'm doing it for the reasons listed above, cos i just dont know anymore

2007-11-24 03:15:33 · 46 answers · asked by ambience212 3 in Singles & Dating

my mom got me an ipod touch (16gb) and she said i have to open it when it's christmas. i SERIOUSLY DO NOT want to wait that long, knowing that there's an ipod touch in my house that's ready to go wherever and whatever i want it to do. any suggestions on convincing her to give it to me now??? she says she wants to see good grades and clean room..

2007-11-24 03:15:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean aren't they lusting after the other woman to some degree? Is that not cheating? I think it is.Why is it so acceptable!?! Yeah, women do it to, but isn't it cheating? And it's a double standard for men. If a woman does it, people assume she's looking elsewhere, but when men do it, it's just because "they're men. it's in their genes"
I think it's stupid! I would feel so hurt if my boyfriend/husband did that. I mean it's not like the guy's looking going: "Wow, she looks like such a nice person!" He's thinking, "Damn! Her (insert body part) is so hot!"

Guys opinions greatly appreciated! And please don't be harsh with me in answers. Thanks!

2007-11-24 03:08:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok heres my story i was 17 and this 29 yr old beg to marry me and wrote me poems and song and told me he alwyas gonna be there fo me no matter what and i fell in love with him and give him 100% trust, he promised i was gonna beable to go to college well to keep him happy i end up workin 2 jobs trying to pay most of the bills and then 8 months later he started to treat me bad cuase alot of bills was coming and he was stressin, well i got into this bad car accident where my car wen under a semi trailer, ad he wasn there for me , put his new car sales man job be4 me didnt want to take me to the hospital! so i left cus i was shocked and i left, next day i tried to work thing out he didnt want nothing to do with me, then i found out i waspregnant and he didnt care wither, well after 7wks ihad a miscarrige, we've bin separated for 2 months and he dont want nothingto do with me! he backstab me, how can i get over this? does karma really happen? will he get punish for this?

2007-11-24 03:06:18 · 7 answers · asked by rhea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend just bought a car. We have been together for almost two years and he hasn't spoken one word to his wife for just as long. He hasn't filed for a divorce yet, due to financial difficulties (the car he bought is a 1999 and the payments are very low) but does anyone know if his wife would be entitled to half of the car if he were to go file for divorce? Keep in mind they havent been together for over two years, and any judge would grant him a divorce just on the grounds that she is a prostitue and a drug user ( been arrested several times for these offenses in the past years & is the reason why he left her)

2007-11-24 03:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by Laydbug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a stressed marriage, but for the sake of kids we don't want to separate. A sweetheart in office in the same situation. We soothe eachother, but we don't cross the line -- stop just short of getting sexual. It gives us both a lot of happiness though one wishes for more. But is it okay? Or am I completely crazy and running away from reality?

2007-11-24 03:01:00 · 18 answers · asked by Whisperer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-24 02:54:14 · 28 answers · asked by aubreyscandyland 1 in Marriage & Divorce

'Are you sure you know what you are doing?'

By getting married.

We are getting married in June next year, my fiance called his cousin and she asked him to take her off loudspeaker and she asked him the above question.

She has never met me, I am courteous and say to my fiance 'tell your cousin I said hi'

I would not expect a woman who got married only 2 years ago to say this!

But I personally think she is not happy because her hubby works long hours as a manager at Macdonalds (!) while she is a stay at home mom and does not work, she has 2 kids, 3 and 9.

I however, earn my own money and very independent.
I have told my fiance that I do not want her at the wedding if she feels like this!


Why are women so spiteful?

2007-11-24 02:47:28 · 45 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

okay just curious... what do guys do with their ex girlfriend's love letters/notes?? like do yall throw them away? what feelings do yall have?

2007-11-24 02:47:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here we go!
1- if i change my password on Y!A will it demolish all the points i earned so far?

2- i want to make up with a friend via a letter, can someone tell me what to write in the letter?

3- i want a diet program for a not overweight person who wants to build a better body. peferable for a 14 year old, also workouts to do after and before school

4- any online websites for dream interpetation? like a site site, not a biblical response, but a website.

you only have to asnwer one, can answer more. thank you so much :)!!!

2007-11-24 02:42:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I did, for years, I probably know more than your whole family plus your cousins thrice removed. It didn't help me a bit. I am so very damn poor and struggle with my bills.
On the other hand, there are pretty blond bimbos, who do nothing, just marry. One I knew worked as a seller on some street stall, selling chewing gum. Then she married a rich man, and they spread around that she was a synch translator for a rich man who she married (it's a very high paid job and need a lot of qualifications, at least a university diploma), and she now command a stuff of three (a cook, a maid, a nanny), shops and pose for photos. Why do women even bother to try, if at the end it comes to looks?

2007-11-24 02:36:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Most guys look for hours of sex for a x-mas present?

2007-11-24 02:26:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for cheating can he change his ways and not really cheat anymore or is it true what they say once a cheat always a cheat ??????????????

2007-11-24 02:21:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

went on a date with a girl, she is insecure about herself, and would look down at the table and talk instead of looking at me. i could tell she liked me though - she was just insecure. she says she has some anxiety problems sometimes. could this lead to us not getting along in future relationships ? is this a sign of potentially a bad relationship ?

2007-11-24 02:14:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and i are engaged. We have been engaged fo a moth or so but i have been seeing some things that i think means he not fully committed to me. I was cleaning up the house and i saw he had a playgirl magzine and some other porno mags. I got frustrated and i asked him. Then of course we had sex. The next day i wanted him to stay home and help me do some chores because i'm pregant but he said playing football with his friends is a lot more important. Another time i asked him if he could wash the dishes and he said he was tired and he didn't have to work or even cook. Are these signs to me that he is not fully committed not only to me but the baby? will he respect me more if i let him have more sex with me?

2007-11-24 02:10:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 24 yrs old and i stumbled across a guy in a internet chat room an year ago. We have been chatting on net since then. its been more than an year. and we got so intimate and close that at times we did have online sex chat as well.. now i think i am in love with his guy, madly. There would have been prob if it had only been this...i wud have gone ahead and married him. But the issue is, he is quite differnt from me...and we r exact opposites in everything. he is not financially stable, dont have a stable job, he is financially broke often. he slept around with many gals...he some 3 or 4 gal frens in the past etc...i was even ready to over look these things coz he was atleast honest with me and didnt hide anything...but the prob is with his job and financial position...coz i am quite opposite person in this...my career is of high importance to me and for me a comfortable life style and stable financial background matter a lot. i strongly feel we r not compatible in any of the issues.

2007-11-24 02:08:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime I get some cash my mom takes it from me and spends it. In order to spend my birthday money I had to give it all to my grandma to hold! I'm really getting upset by this because I have earned my own money by babysitting and for holidays, what do I do?

2007-11-24 02:07:17 · 25 answers · asked by deathbyshelby 1 in Family

My dad is 74, i'm a 31 yr old female. We were never really close and have always had these super shallow conversations when we do talk. He's a military man and ex cop, not the kind you talk about emotions with. I've never seen him display any emotion over the years other than his default expression (which is stern) or anger.
I used to get all tangled up about not being closer to him. Now that we're both getting older though, i've come to accept our distant relationship. I know he loves me in his own way, just as I love him.
So, my question is, do you think it's ok to have just sort of 'given up' to the idea that this relationship is all we can have, or do I need to keep fighting for something closer?

2007-11-24 02:02:24 · 11 answers · asked by Eraserhead 6 in Family

2007-11-24 01:51:09 · 18 answers · asked by nadjet h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-24 01:49:14 · 18 answers · asked by Yahoo Answers 1 in Weddings

which grounds will give her maximum benefit in terms of money?which is the shortest way?

2007-11-24 01:46:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I continue to go through our ups and downs. I have 2 children b4 him and 3 with him. I do not recieve c/s from the first father. My husband has supported me since I became pregnant w/ our 1st. I went to school a few times for some quick certificates but have not had to work. I feel like such a burden on him and he always says he don't care about n-ething n-emore. I asked him last night what was it that he loved about me, and what made him come home to me everytime....he didnt give me a answer. he said that he supprts me and that shows his love right there.
We have gone through this so many times, I have 5 kids and I cant handle the way he makes me feel. I take it out on my kids and things have just gone from bad to worse in the past year. Can I make it on my own? Or am I forced to accept this life? I see the black clouds comeing.
How do you start over with 5 young children? (my oldest is 8)

2007-11-24 01:42:33 · 37 answers · asked by neverlie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

..sleep with me? She is 18 and my wife's sisters daughter so she is not blood related. What should I do?

2007-11-24 01:32:32 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-24 01:24:24 · 13 answers · asked by Hari 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine would be: work hard, do art at school, stay off the drink and drugs, be nice to your family.

2007-11-24 01:19:38 · 6 answers · asked by 2kool4u 5 in Friends