..sleep with me? She is 18 and my wife's sisters daughter so she is not blood related. What should I do?
2007-11-24 01:32:32 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
even if she is not blood related , doesn't mean it is right to have an affair with her. I am also not saying that it is wrong, but she is your niece and you would be seeing her for the rest of your life regardless how you view it.
Once is all it takes to take everything out of its natural order. and after all, she is just 18 and she might regret her offer in the future. and i would say it is a rather tempting situation for me too. But we are guys need to think with our head up there not the one below to prevent doing stuffs we would regret onwards.
cheers
2007-11-24 01:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Terry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your wife needs to divorce you. If you are even considering this which you are you are not a good husband for her. It doesn't matter whether you are blood or not you are married and that is wrong. I think you already knew that before you asked this question but you were hoping that someone would tell you it is OK and then you would feel better about it. Well its not OK and if you do it then you need to ask for a divorce because sooner or later your wife will find out and ask for one anyways and she deserves better than someone who will cheat on her. I know you are not going to pick me as best answer cause this is not what you want to hear but I had to tell you how much you do not deserve your wife! Its men like you that make it hard to find a good guy in this world. I just got lucky and got one hopefully your wife will come to her senses and do the same! Later!
2007-11-24 01:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by ???? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question. LOL This is wasted space. Now do you want someone to justify what you WANT to do? You already know you're married. You already that she's your sister's family and you already know that cheating is wrong.
If you want to sleep with your niece, by all means do what you want. Just keep in mind that with that one night you will be opening up your marriage to destruction. you are introducing this 18 year old CHILD (10 years ago she was in the 3rd grade) to a world of deceit and secrecy. It wouldn't be fair.
Be a MAN and say no!
2007-11-24 02:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got be serious. You are married, it's your niece for crying out loud. If she wants sex that bad let her find someone her own age and who isn't related. Blood or not she is still related and she needs to take into effect that it's her aunt that you are married to. She obviously has no respect for herself or her family to actually state this to you. It's disgusting.
2007-11-24 01:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Just Want To B Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's be reasonable here. Most guys want to have sex with a good looking girl (I assume she is?) and they can't help but think about it married or not. I think the right thing to do...since you obviosly married too early in life...is tell your wife the entire story. Then ask her if she wants to join in. If she says yes,,,,,hey. Go for it. If she says no then let it be. If she throws a fit and gets mad....sleep with the niece. You're already in trouble! Why not have some fun out of it.
2007-11-24 01:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Umm, you are married. WHo cares what she wants. How about this. Ask your wife if you can sleep with your niece. If she says yes, go for it. But when you wake up, after she kicks your ***, you will realize it's not a good idea. lol
2007-11-24 03:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a moral judgement, but I thinks its bet to avoid it. It's not the sex itself that's the problem, it's secrets. They destroy relationships. The very fact that you're asking, suggests that your wife would not be cool with it. So leave it.
If you're not happy in your relationship, get some advice and try to put it right. If you don't wanna do that then perhaps your marriage is over.
2007-11-24 02:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Brown Eyed Handsome Man - AM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is disgusting on so many levels. You are MARRIED and whether it's by blood or not, she is FAMILY! Tell this girl's mother what she's up to, tell your wife what's going on, and most importantly, stay the H3LL away from your niece.
2007-11-24 01:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprized you would have to or even need to ask this sort of question, especially since your married, if you love your wife you should know the answer, and you should not ask the ok to go ahead with it from people answering your question which it seems like to me.
2007-11-24 01:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would be in a position to prepare for a marriage liscense the 2nd she turns 18, yet there's a waiting era, counting on the state, i think of it relatively is in easy terms a pair of weeks nevertheless, perhaps much less in some states. She can even have the skill to prepare for a marriage liscense pending her birthday, yet lower back, relies upon on the state and county. i might call the county clerk's place of work and merely ask, yet relatively, it relatively is no longer sensible to become in touch. human beings make blunders, and at times we'd desire to enable them to.
2016-12-16 17:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋