went on a date with a girl, she is insecure about herself, and would look down at the table and talk instead of looking at me. i could tell she liked me though - she was just insecure. she says she has some anxiety problems sometimes. could this lead to us not getting along in future relationships ? is this a sign of potentially a bad relationship ?
2007-11-24 02:14:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no,maybe she was just treat ba din her last realtionship
2007-11-24 02:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being "shy" (these days and now called insecure) used to be a good trait for a woman to have. Why is it people feel they have to stirip the other person down to their birthday suit as far as their own insecurities are concerned as to trying to find out what's wrong with the other person? Why not be on the positive side and date the girl several times before finding fault?
Yeah, it's a sign of future problems in a relationship if YOU continue to act this way.
2007-11-24 10:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have problems with her insecurity. She will be jealous and possessive and feel attacked or put down by you when you say the slightest negative thing. If you don't call every day, she will be convinced that you no longer care for her. When you want to go out with other friends, she will feel betrayed, maybe devastated.
If you can handle all of this, go ahead with the relationship. Until she works on herself and learns why she feels this insecurity and is willing to let go of it, she will have problems in every relationship.
2007-11-24 10:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes we might just ne nervious that you might not like us or get our jokes and sometimes we run out of things to say and we are worried that you might think we were boring.. there could be so many reasons why we do what we do... That does not mean you are going to have a bad relationship... it just means that you need to try to put more of an effort to show her that you like her and you want to spend more time with her.. i think that she will get over it soon...
2007-11-24 10:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. It is not a sign of a potentially bad relationship. It is a sign of a potentially very meaningful relationship. She will open up and you will mean the world to her. As long as eventually she does open up. Be patient with her and she will be patient with you.
2007-11-24 10:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Drew Carl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she was just nervous. When you guys spend more time together, she'll become more comfortable around you and won't have these problems. Find out what she likes and talk to her about it, That's a good way to get a conversation going.
2007-11-24 10:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i have the same problem.
You just have to open her up :)
talk to her about her problems and tell her you'll always be there for her no matter what.
maybe even tell her your insecurities and she might open up better then :)
2007-11-24 10:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by lLOnIDon=Wonderland 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no - it means that she doesn't feel very self-confident
you can help her by complimenting her and reassuring her about herself - however, if you find that you constantly have to do this, her issues may run deeper than what a friend can help her with
if you really care for her, stand by her and see that she gets the help she needs
several years ago, I was this way...a friend of mine helped me to realize my potential, and I'm a much better person today than I was back then, thanks to him
2007-11-24 10:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by T Leeves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you like the girl, help her build her self confidence. The more you make her feel comfortable around you, tghe more she will get better socializing with others as well.
2007-11-24 10:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just shy. Just give it some time she will get used to being around and with you and she won't have those problems anymore. Just give her a little more time dude, it will be fine.
2007-11-24 10:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by mastermind053007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to make her feel safe, make her laugh, make her smile. you need to do something now, you might lose her if she will continue to feel insecure, don't let her feel scared or afraid, make her feel that you'll be always there for her when she needs you and that you won't leave her, don't just say this you need to let her feel this try to move dude! goosluck!
2007-11-24 10:18:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋