this ? is for the fellas. my friend and i have been dating only 7wks and he has gone down on me already. he was anxious and i wonder if im special or does he do it to all the girls? i thought that was something you did over a period of time in the relationship. whats up?
2007-11-24 09:39:54 · 26 answers · asked by moneak29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't know there was a time frame for this, it just happens when it happens
2007-11-24 09:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you, the question is are you glad he did it to you? Have you ever gone down on another guy or girl regardless of how long you've known him? Do you really want to know if he does it all the time? Or is the better question is he to be trusted with your health and well being? Did he rip your panties off and demand under pain or duress that he place his mouth on your privates? You can tell me honey, it's okay (offering a big virtual hug). Probably not, I think he had help getting those panties off, and much to both of your delight (if he did his job properly).
All this to say, simply. If you don't know enough to trust him, then you don't trust him and he should be no-where near your privates.......
2007-11-24 17:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by HotDockett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sweetie. 7 weeks is 2 months. That is a loooong time. Unless you are going to live forever then stop wasting so much time. Feel lucky he is willing to go down there into your jungle of love. Some guys won't do it. haha yes all the girls... over a period of time? you mean break it into steps?
week 12 - touch zipper
week 15- undo zipper
week 28- pants down
week 29934 underwear off
2007-11-24 17:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one that can decide there is no set time or day. If you are comfortable getting intimate than go for it and enjoy it. If you feel at all hesitant then don't. Hey are you taking care of him...it's only fair.
2007-11-24 17:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by David F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i slept with my current girlfriend the first night and it has haunted me since with questions of "did she do that for every other guy that hit on her?" and "if she'd do it with me she'd do it with anyone". Your main concern is are you going to be bothered by it or let it go? There is no way to determine if this is his usual behavior, you have to decide can you accept him for him by letting it go, or is it going to be an underlying problem for your relationship and cause trust issues? you have to decide if he is important and then do the right thing from here throughout the rest of the relationship. good luck!
2007-11-24 17:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by BG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say about 80 percent of the guys expect a little action on the first date, and if he's gone after that you have been used, thats sucks right?
2007-11-24 17:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tom P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 weeks
2007-11-24 17:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry , you just his freak of the week, i hope you were clean and I hope he don't have them herpies or you been screwed twice. . The record is 5 minutes.
2007-11-24 17:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 weeks.
2007-11-24 17:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love doing that! He probably does too. He must think an awful lot of you. I hope you enjoyed that because then he will do it more. Just lay back and enjoy. :--#)
2007-11-24 17:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋