i want to tell my friends parents she has a bf!?

Question

my bff has a bf she hasnt toldher parents shes allwoed to date but she wont tell them its really annoying me i want her parents to know when she goes on dates with him she lies and says shes going on with me so im dragged along, yeah i know im being used. i wish shed tell her parents when im with her and her parents are them im always like your boyfri-I MEAN umm him. its annoying I WANT TO SHOUT IT TO THE WORLD im sorry its gettting annoying. Im afraid to tell ehr parents cause i when i get a bf she might want to tell my parents and im not allowed ot have a bf. THis is really tricky if i tell her parents its gonna bite me in the *** one day ughhhhhh HELP MEEEE

Answer 1

She is wrong to use you as an alibi without your permission. I would start there. You should tell her that you will not allow her to use you to lie to her parents any longer and that if she does, you WON'T back her up and will in fact tell them. That way, she should consider herself warned. If she doesn't do it again, you need to play stupid if it comes out i.e. "I didn't know about it...". If she decides not to listen to you, do exactly as you told her you would and don't do it behind her back - do it in front of her. She'll be pissed, but at least she won't be allowed to drag you into her mess. If you aren't allowed to have a boyfriend, avoid it and you won't need to lie or keep secrets from anyone.

Answer 2

You should probably talk to your best friend and tell her that your feeling used.Theres most likely more to the whole problem though.Ask your friend why your having to be used as a albi.See what she saids.Ask yourself why is it that shes lying to her parents while shes actually allowed to date.Theres more to the story.So just ask.How long has this been going on? If theres somehting wrong with the boy and in your opinion hes bad news then I would defintley tell the parents.I had a friend that was doing pot so my sister told his parents.I was probably going to do it myself since I was so worried about him.So if shes your best friend and your worried about her then tell her parents. And if shes your best friend then she should stop using you as a excuse.

Answer 3

if she really is your BEST FRIEND, then you shouldnt tell. She probibly has a reson. Ask her why she wont tell them, then if its a good answer, dont tell. Anyway, how is what she does with her and her pairents any of your buisness??? I hope that you make the right decision. You know what it is!!!

Answer 4

You should ask her why she hasn't told her parents there might be a more serious reason why. And if she is allowed to date, then maybe her parents know who he is and don't like him. How is he to her? I mean, is he nice or bossy, or just a plain asshole?

Answer 5

ask her why if she's allowed to date why she wont tell them. the best thing for any relationship is communication even at the top of you lungs. talk to her and tell her how you feel.

Answer 6

If she's a real friend she should understand if you tell her that you don't want her to use you as an excuse to date.

Answer 7

you should tell her first and then confront her parents... it is the right thing to do.. also could you help me with my question

Answer 8

tell them u had no idea when the truth does come out
do not tell her parents
thats mean

Answer 9

ok you sound young so listen to me bear with this ....they are young they arent gonna last very long so soon it should be over...cause you know how young people are

Answer 10

it is not your right to tell her parents...it is hers....i bet when she is well and ready she will tell her parents....but untill then just deal with it