Every day I look forward to the day when I move in with my man after high school. I love his chocolate butt so much. :) He is truly my everything. Weve been together for 2 years now. And leaving my parents to be with im sounds so wonderful but do you think that I dont know what i'm getting myself into or...And another thing is my dad whom I live with...doesnt want me going. But imma go anyways. Which means if he doesnt sign my financial aid form for college imma have to work for a year to save money for it.....I'm goin either way it goes....what do u think???
2007-11-24 09:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And he lives in another state
2007-11-24 10:02:01 · update #1
No it is not at all bad. I moved in with my man and we are married now been married for over 6 years with 3 children. I think its a wonderful thing.
2007-11-24 10:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by lovedoctor48184 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait if you plan on going to college. There is an extremely high rate of failure in relationships when one of the partners are going to college, especially in the fields of law and medicine, and once you graduate college you will be starting a new career and may find that your priorities change and you will wish that you weren't in the relationship. If it can't last for the time you are in college, it isn't love but if it does, it will be far stronger!! Good luck either way though.
2007-11-24 10:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not bad at all, go for it. You're dad should recognize you're an adult and its time you make your own mistakes (if he believes it's a mistake). In any event, there isn't anything wrong with living with someone before your married. It's actually a good idea these days...if it happend more often divorce rates wouldnt be as high as they are. Good luck ;)
2007-11-24 10:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Chris T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. You're young and you need to figure things out first. Sounds like you are willing to f - up your life to spite your Dad. Trust me your old man knows what he's talking about. He just doesn't want you to make a mistake you'll regret. I would go to college and have fun. Visit the boyfriend on the weekends. Your too young to be serious.....Trust me I regretted it.
2007-11-24 12:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it syour choice, but if you two are truly in love and going to be together forever, waiting to move in together a little longer wont hurt.
cohabiting isnt what its cracked up to be.
and trust me; stay at home as LOOOOOONG as you can! paying bills isn't fun either.
2007-11-24 10:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think your bf is a good person, then move in with him. I am sure your parents are just too afriad of letting you go..the might be mad at first but they will be fine with it later.
2007-11-24 10:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your 18
I say go for it!
2007-11-24 10:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it's your life... you can ruin it anyway you want!
2007-11-24 10:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by BitterSweet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋