okay so 'm not even dateing this one guy but still we like each other alot. and we were upposed to hangout tomowrow and he asked why couldnt he today so i said i couldnt because i was hanging out with my friend Rachel R. so he says oh i have not seen rachel in a while why cant all three of us but it was my other rachel i was going to be with. so today comes and my rachel says she couldnt. then i get a phone call by my friend allie saying me her matt and rachel hk and we were going to smoke a bowl. so i told him so he wouldnt get mad if he found out and think i was lying . but he went crazzy that i was ditching him to smoke.. and said he does not date girls who smoke and that i'm stupid for doing it and that i was ditching him. did i honestly do anything wrong ? he's being such a hypocrite. and should i just leave him alone because obviously he wants me to stop but its not like im a stoner i just do it once every two weeks. just this week twice thursday and today . blah he's annoying
2007-11-24 09:41:30 · 8 answers · asked by Scenar H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with M.Wonder. He has the right to turn someone down because they do something that he doesn't approve of. He knows what he wants in life and he is stating it. Better to be up front with you.
2007-11-24 09:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Meghan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your wrong for what you did. First of all you are saying that you like each other...so don't say your not dating because you are on the verge of starting something with him and flirting with him. And you say he's not even my boyfriend. So a friend can't care about you....and what you'll only listen to a bf and make changes for a guy your technically dating.
Secondly he asked you to do something with him. So when you Rachel R friend backed out you should have called him if he's your friend then ditching him to smoke up. WOW.....if anyone had the choice to smoking up or hang out with me and they chose what you did. I'd be gone so fast.
How is he a hypocite????? you didn't explain that either.
Sounds to me like you need to grow up and this guy is better off without you. You have no idea what is good for you. If he doesn't want to be with a pothead it's his choice and if he influences you not to do that what a great guy to have your best interest at heart.
Your really don't deserve a guy like him. He deserves better then you.
2007-11-24 18:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Violet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should learn to spell properly first. That whole question was just one big run-on sentence.
If he doesn't want someone who smokes, thats his perogative. I personally dont mind someone who smokes weed (I dont smoke it personally) but some people dont like that in a partner.
Get over it and find someone more compatible.
2007-11-24 18:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by subby33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first off idk and idc how old you are, but you shouldn't be smoking any of that junk.
secondly you should have been honest with him in the first place,
and in the third place, he has the right to go crazy over that because no offense but he's smart that he's not getting into everything you're doing.
even if its only sometimes, he just doesn't wanna get pulled into that. you should understand.
2007-11-24 17:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by m.wonder 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a control freak!! Tell him where to go!!
2007-11-24 17:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by blonderosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm yea if i were him i wouldnt hang out with a girl who does that either
2007-11-24 17:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go ahead and forget about him. he sounds like a jerk.
2007-11-24 17:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a BIG jerk
just dump him!!!!!!!!!!!!
and find a guy who won't be like that at ALL!
2007-11-24 17:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋