i have a girlfriend that has been a little up and down. we have dated on and off for the last two years and im not really sure what i should do. She has broken up with me twice over religion (once said god told her to and the other was she felt like i was keeping her from her church) and i have broken up with her once because of her lack of commitment and in my view lack of interest. There are things in our relationship now that are much healthier that they were before but it is still a little stagnant. We do not have quite the intimacy that i wish for and i dont know what i should do... am i doing something wrong maybe? how can i heat things up when she will say OK and stop kissing me after two seconds? should i even try or look for a new girlfriend?
2007-11-24 10:02:22 · 3 answers · asked by Aaron R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a girlfriend that has been a little up and down. we have dated on and off for the last two years and im not really sure what i should do. She has broken up with me twice over religion (once said god told her to and the other was she felt like i was keeping her from her church) and i have broken up with her once because of her lack of commitment and in my view lack of interest. There are things in our relationship now that are much healthier that they were before but it is still a little stagnant. We do not have quite the intimacy that i wish for and i dont know what i should do... am i doing something wrong maybe? how can i heat things up when she will say OK and stop kissing me after two seconds? should i even try or look for a new girlfriend?
just wanted to clarify.... im not saying i need her to give herself up to me... but i do want some intimacy
2007-11-24 10:14:18 · update #1
Get somebody who deserves you!!
2007-11-24 10:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by blonderosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to save herself for marriage.You would respect her more if she did wait until you were married.If she gives in, then you will view as you do "other girls" who are loose.
Her religion will cause you problems down the road if she makes the mistake of marrying because a house divided against itself wont stand and neither of you want to compromise and give in to the other.
Best to look for a g/f that will give you what you want.Time to be a man and realize this relationship will make you MORE miserable later on than you are now.
2007-11-24 18:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the religion shuldnt matter..it matter if you two really love each other. It all depends if you feel like is not going to work out then brake up. If you feel like things are back to the way they shuld be then stay together. You two might have your differences but you have to respect that..and don't let it get in the way of your relationship.
2007-11-24 18:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋