So i was out late last night with my bf and we were watching a movie on the bed, then all of a sudden there was a really scary part and he grabbed onto me. Then he looked at me really sexualy and kissed me. then we ended up turning off hte tv and having sex. it was really great up untill the part where the condom broke. then i stopped and asked if he had a new one to put on. He said "who cares" and then he kissed my ******** and other parts. I told hom to stop but then he got all "oh baby were just having a little fun"on me and i pushed him off, put my clothes on and left. Today he called and broke up with me
i feel really confused becasue he is such a great and nice and really smart guy
was i wrong to do that??
please help
2007-11-24 10:14:12 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he was such a nice and great guy he would of never kept going and he woudlnt of broke up with you for not wanting to have sex with him without a condom,you seem better off without him trust me,If you were to put yourself through that with him again it would only get worse,he might not stop next time
2007-11-24 10:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by louiz_jj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, If you wanted to stop he should have respected that. Since he dumped you for standing up for yourself he's a skeeze who just wanted sex from you. You should never feel bad about not giving in to pressure. You were totally in the right and you're better off without this guy!
Don't worry about this at all, move on. You deserve someone who respects you and your decisions and cares about you enough to stop when you say stop.
2007-11-24 10:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you did was absolutely right. you should have slapped him on the way out of the house... some boys are soo stupi.d... you did the right thing... just think about it .. if you would have kept going and then you mighta gotten pregnant. and you never know he might have left you after that.
i mean he broke up with you just because you didnt wanna keep going .. its his fault you should have been like no glove no ******.g love.... if he really liked or loved you he would have stopped when you told him too.. he needs to respect you. i think it was right he broke up with you because you do not need a guy like that in your life. there are a lot of other guys out there that will treat you and respect you ...
2007-11-24 10:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-25 00:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! He should have had enough respect for you to listen to what you were saying. Yes, it was in the heat of the moment and I am sure he was hoping you would agree with him and go on. However, you had enough strength to realize the possibilities and stop. If he cannot understand the importance of your concerns, he is not worth keeping around.
2007-11-24 10:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by jremole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he shouldn't have pressured you into something that you weren't comfortable doing.
You did the right thing by stopping when the condom broke.
Believe me, there could have been much worse consenquences if you continued without a condom, then him breaking up with you for stopping without a condom.
Stay strong girl!
2007-11-24 10:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Emily45 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You Go Girl! Im sick of all these SEEMINGLY nice guys who put on this CHARADE to get u into bed. From the sound of it he only liked u because u were pretty and wanted to take advantage of u! Forget him and find a guy who cares if he ruins ur life by getting u pregnant!
2007-11-24 10:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by alexandra s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it is your body and your decision. you are never wrong, especially under the circumstance. it sounds like he knows that he was wrong too which was why he broke up with you- he was embarrassed and is afraid to talk to you about it. if he decides to man-up he will call, if not than he wasn't worth it and you shouldn't be worrying about it. i think you made a smart decision that most people would have been afraid to, and then they may have ended up pregnant. kudos to you.
2007-11-24 10:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Rai 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did leave him high and dry....but no glove no love!
I think he is just p....d. He will probably come around....his ego is hurting, poor baby.
No, you didn't do the wrong thing asking him to stop. It was very brave of you....I don't think I would have had the strength.
If he leaves you over this, he's not worth your time.
2007-11-24 10:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you were being responsible. If he can't respect you for that then you are better off. Maybe he will cool off and rethink the situation and realize he is wrong.
2007-11-24 10:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋