2007-11-24 10:32:41 · 20 answers · asked by Allen L. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
happiness lies within u, your self worth has nothing to do with your spouse or that your know divorced, u have to work at being happy, finding things u like to do, not focusing on the bad in life but what u have in life to be thankful for.
2007-11-24 11:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, Allen!
Many of us have been where you are, having experienced a divorce. We have so many emotions, and many feel a sense of failure, and a lack of self-worth.
But, there IS life after divorce.
This is a time to re-group, and/or, let the heart heal. Think about your future....what you would like to accomplish.... and set some productive goals.
One thing to keep in mind, is that we are in a vulnerable state after a divorce. It is NOT wise to immediately seek a new relationship.
Happiness is not determined by who we're with, or what we possess.
A few years ago, I came upon this quote, and believe it's true:
If you really want to be happy, nothing can stop you!
Best wishes for your your future!
2007-11-24 19:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Catlover48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can once you realize what went wrong in the marriage, how much of it was your fault and how much the other person's and meet someone else and move on. You don't want to move on too fast though but make sure you find the right person next time. I will give you a link that may help you and you will find happiness in time. Good luck to you.
2007-11-24 18:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah !! I am so much happier and have moved on. Now remarried and have a blended family.
Divorce is such a hard thing to go through and with time you heal and move on. I ve got great friend and family support that has truly helped me with rough times.
Here if you need a friend.
2007-11-24 18:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Hugs from Sugar bug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no better feeling then being out of that hell called marriage....this is for personal experience, you really will be a different person with a smile on your face all the time and your eyes open for a new life.
2007-11-24 18:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Joe L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just was recently divorced, and I feel happy without him. I feel like a new person.
2007-11-24 18:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divore isn't always a "bad" thing. I've been happy since the day I took that uhaul truck from the driveway and headed west.
2007-11-24 23:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but it takes time. Your wounds are fresh and you will need family and friends to get by. I read something that applies. Take you pain out of the closet and dance with it. Think about it.
2007-11-24 19:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Arvind N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can. it takes time to adjust to being single again,but it allows you to get your head together. if your already divorced don't rush to fall in love right away. give yourself time to really consider what you can give to another relationship.
When your ready to date, do so! its fun meeting new people.
2007-11-24 18:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by michael w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure can. It takes a while, but another person will come along and you will forget the first and concentrate on the next.
2007-11-24 18:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ben Dover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋