Why don't I have friends?

Question

I try to be nice.

Answer 1

Recently, I notice more of this situation--people not having friends. People seem to be doing more things on their own. The Internet makes it easier to feel like one is in contact with other people, but it is not the same as having real human contact. If you are in school, I'd suggest that you contact the guidance department or your college counseling department. You might want to volunteer in a service group or join a community group (e.g. local political party). This will get you out of the house and dealing with more people. This might lead to friendships. Good luck.

Answer 2

Really good friends are hard to come by...try to join some clubs at school (if you are still in school that is) or try some sports (even as a hobby)...pursue some interest: when you find people that share in your interests is an advantage as you already have something in common, and maybe you will find some nice people like you to spend time with.
Good luck

Answer 3

Maybe you're too nice. Maybe you seem too desperate. Are you nice genuinely or is just so you can make friends?? Many people can sense when someone is being fake. Do you talk to people or are you very shy? That may make people think that you are not interested in making friends.

Answer 4

Well, if you are nice to people and they don't want to be your friends, you are better off without those people. Don't try to fit in with the wrong crowd or you get in serious trouble. Just be yourself and soon you will have all the friends you need! I really hope I helped! :)

Answer 5

are you involved in any sports or other groups that get people your age together? try volunteering at a school for younger kids I do not know how old you are. when others see that you have skills you use they will want to get to know more about you and the things you do. You may start with a food drive for the needy a penny drive for homeless try getting the fire dept in your area to have a bike helment give away. It is funny how people will come together when they have someting in common friendship will come.

Answer 6

Try to be nice to people. Try to help them. Try to understand them. Try to find people whom you can relate to.
The last two lines are important. may be u try to be nice to people but they see this as an odd behaviour because they do not understand u. Nor do u understand them. So u people do not relate or match. U may be trying to be nice to a person but he say may think u r an ... because he/she sees something in ur behaviour that is not natural or a kind of odd to him/her.
So try to to be nice and helpful. But importantly try to understand people and find people who are Ur type and whom u can relate

Answer 7

Need more info....what is your age? Are you new in your school? Are you trying too hard? My daughter had problems with friendships when she was around 12 but then she was trying too hard, sort of smothering people. When she realized what she was doing wrong, stopped hanging on people and acted friendly, but indifferent, she developed friendships which lasted for years. Talk to your parents and get their advice.

Answer 8

Maybe you have been trying to be friends with the wrong kind of people. Just talk to people and don't try TOO hard and I'm sure you will be fine! Good Luck!

Answer 9

If your not very outgoing some people may think of you as "stuck up" even though you may be FAR from it. Just try to get out there...don't be afraid to introduce yourself and go to partys or things like that, they have alot of people so your bound to meet someone....if all else fails.....I'll be your friend :)

Answer 10

just b yourself. the reason u probably don't have too many friends is all the B**chy preppy chicks, or the wana b preps. Then there's the normal group (they usually have a small group), the sk8rs, goth/punk/emo (black, black, and scary), and then theres the nerds (reading all though lunch). find a group that you think you'll feel like you in, and become friends with soembody in that group that is in one of your classes. then start hanging out with them durring classes, walk to and from class with them and then start hanging out with them at lunch/break ect. Good Luck!!!! ;-)