i been friends with this girl for a while and i liked her for a long time but i dont know how to say that i like her without messing up our friendship.
2007-11-24 10:43:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have done this. when you are very closr friends with anyone you should be able at a quite moment say you know I really like you, and i think that i might love you . You are honest and not too direct, and it gives her a second or two to answer your statment with her knowing you may be wanting a romantic relationship. But I had made sure she wasn't hot for someone else before i did this, which you should to. The worst that happens she doesn't want a deeper relationship with you right now. You haven't got down on your knee, and made a full declaration of undying love. you have given her the knowledge you might want to get serious about your relationship. and if she want's to get serious she knows how you feel. , The girl i told that was very nice about her not being like minded and we were able to stay friends, it got me a nice kiss.
2007-11-24 11:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out if she prefers to be just friends with you.Some girls will prefer to stay as close friends.If you think she's got no such issues then give it a try.If she doesn't feel the same way,just try to gone on as a friends somehow thing 'll work out.Who knows, she may not have a problem with being more than friends with you.Goodluck.
2007-11-24 18:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ce moi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me that is a sticky situation ... i know i have tried...
you can try begining a conversation about people you like and then subtley say that you like her ( you never really wanna say those 4 famous words"" we have to talk"", it makes a person feel awkward and uncomfortable)
she might feel uncomforable at the time but she will get used to it and asure her that it will not affect your friendship and try not to act differently now that she knows becuase a routine behavior will make her feel more comfortable
hope it helps
2007-11-24 18:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by incognito_thats_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u need to do is find out if she likes any one else....make sure she doesn't and if she doesn't then u can make your move and tell her how u feel...write her a note if u have to or just come out with it one day wen you guys are alone....if she feels the SAME way...then great....if she DOESN'T give her some time to herself to take in the information she received....it may seem like she is avoiding you....but all she needs is time...when she is ready she will *** back to you as your friend...just as long as you don't change your ways around her...things will be fine...best of luck..........
2007-11-24 22:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Deviya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you like her, grow some filopian tubes and tell her how you feel and accept the ramifications of your actions.
-Ryko
2007-11-24 18:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by xxx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say her"i like u & i love u if ur ans is no then its ok it will never break our frndshp ,just be my frnd forever"ball is in ur court ,if she says no keep ur frndshp countinuing always be her best frnd & if thhere is somthing in her heart fr u she ask u the same question b'lieve me it works
2007-11-25 06:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by streetrover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so.. do you know if she likes any one in your school? if not ,me as a girl i would say to tell her how you feel IF she doesnt like any one.
2007-11-24 18:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are her friend then tell her honestly about your feelings but also add that if she doesn't like you its ok we can always be friends as before,i hope it helps
2007-11-25 03:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nazneen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem.
2007-11-24 19:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by andrew.jones92 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out if she likes anyone and if she dosnt then tell her
2007-11-24 18:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by lenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋