i love him alot , he is my soulmate. Im divorced and not interested in ever getting married again. my ? is does his wife know? I think i would if i were with the same man for 30+ yrs
2007-11-24 13:41:18 · 26 answers · asked by bella43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is your soulmate yet he is sleeping with another woman! Amazing guy! Think about it!
2007-11-24 13:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all it is wrong to be dating a married man. However, maybe they have an agreement that they can date outside of their marriage, but if this was the case then yes she would know and you would know as well, hence you wouldn't be asking this silly question about if she knows or not. I'm sure she has her suspicions or she is a very trusting woman. Either way you look at it you are still his mistress and always will be if after five years he still hasn't left his wife to be your one and only. Word of advice, if he will cheat on his wife, he will cheat on you too. Cheaters don't just stop because you think you can provide them something their spouses can't. It is actually an addiction for them. They feel as though something is lacking in one or more areas with their relationship with their spouse so they seek it out somewhere else. It is an ugly vicious cycle that cheaters feel the need to be enriched by someone else other than their spouse when they most likely have not communicated this feeling of emptiness with their souse.
2007-11-24 13:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by MerMer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some soulmate. Sex does not a soulmate make; you are a bit confused.
She probably knows if it has been going on that long.
No, you're not interested in getting married, only keeping a married man.
2007-11-24 13:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure after 30 years she has some idea that something is going on..unless he's a really good actor. He could go home and shower her with all types of love, attention and gifts...thats the kicker, all you know is what he's telling you. The bigger problem i see here is the fact that you feel that you two are SO remarkable and he's your soul mate...i think you forgot to mention that you both are liars and cheats.
2007-11-24 13:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Who Knew? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA!!! You're advertising that you're in love with a married man? Have you ever heard of morals or is chemistry alone your specialty?
If he's your soulmate and you two are "remarkable" together, then why aren't you together?!? Love is about more than just sex and you are nothing to him but a bed partner when his wife has a headache!!
2007-11-24 13:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by cwgrrl7 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's likely that she knows... Women have very strong intuition about these things. A 5 year relationship wouldn't go undetected, unless the woman is in major denial.
It's likely that she is choosing not to confront the truth of the matter due to the convenience of leaving things the way they are; change can be very frightening for some people (especially if there are children involved). Who knows, she may get some on the side as well.
Have you ever asked your guy this question?
2007-11-24 13:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by karuna 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like when Clinton or Carter was in office. My husband is the Head of our house. Why ? It's biblical. He doesn't dominate me or Rule over me,we are in submission to each other. But i realize that God give us each certain duties to perform while on the earth. Sometimes I have the best solution,but i recognize his place in this marriage. We have mutual respect for each other's opinion.
2016-05-25 06:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetie you are making that man look good he has the best of both worlds. You don't respect yourself as a woman even if you don't want to get married you still shouldn't hate on another marriage. What goes around comes around.
2007-11-24 13:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by shellyshell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are concerned about his wife finding out? That's the risk you take when you get involved with a married man. I'm sure she has an inkling of what's going on, especially if it's been 5 years.
2007-11-24 14:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may only suspect, or she may know and choose to ignore it. Either way is sad. He may be your soul mate, but his soul needs some work. And just because you are not interested in getting married again, does that mean you have the right to put yourself into their marriage bed, figuratively speaking?
2007-11-24 13:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by jules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say. Some people "know" but they ignore it. It's hard to start a whole life over after 30+ yrs. And maybe she doesn't love him either and is glad he's found someone else. Some people value the appearance of their happy life more than the actual happy life.
2007-11-24 13:46:13 · answer #11 · answered by theAfternooner 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋