Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

what would you think if a girl tried to make the first move and kissed you? (like a real kiss lol) have u ever wanted to kiss your g/f but were too shy?? what do you GUYS think bout this situation? i really wanna make out with my b/f but im his first g/f and so it would be his first kiss. should i make the first move? and how?

2007-11-24 15:27:39 · 41 answers · asked by xxsmile4me 1 in Singles & Dating

cant have nice things becuase of my little brother and sister, and really cant have anything. im freaking out i need a gift for my mom for christmas. oh plus she cant wear anything but her uniform? i love my mom but shes hard to shop 4

2007-11-24 15:26:18 · 37 answers · asked by Hope:] 2 in Family

I am an only child. My parents and I don't see eye to eye, it's hard for me to talk to them about anything. i have no really good friends to give a supporting shoulder. So what do I do?

2007-11-24 15:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Long story made short-My husband found out that his mother borrowed his identity and opened two credit cards in his name without him knowing about this. We got a shock when he ran his credit report and found two cards he never even knew about that had gone to collection. He confronted her over the phone and she fessed up. We found out that to do anything about this legally that we would have to press charges against her-needless to say, he couldn't do that to his Mom. He did tell her if this ever happened again that she would not be a part of our lives EVER again. So, we are now stuck with the bill. I feel as though he should put her on some type of payment plan to make her realize her behavior will not be tolerated-he just wants to forget the whole incident. It isn't that we need the money back, it is the pain and grief she has caused that makes me feel as though she should have to do something to realize how much of an issue she has caused.
What would you do?

2007-11-24 15:24:57 · 14 answers · asked by Christine D 1 in Family

ok so i no it sounds mean that i hate my mom but i do..no dought about it..she is so controling, she controls everything..ok to begin she got me this cell phone but everynight it has to be in her room at 10 pm to charge..when it is in her room she goes through all my messeges, i delete them when i put it in her room but the ones i get when they are in her room she reads..she tells me that since its not my phone, i dont deserve privacy, next is my life, i cant do anything or go anywhere, i am a teen and should be having fun but no i have to beg and pleed to get out..i should have my license for about 4 months now but she wont let me get it, i dont no why, my grades are good a 3.0!!! finally she tried to take my paycheak last night. i was like no and she was pissed, its my money but she told me it wasnt cuz she took the time and gas to take me, its only like 10 min away..she is the reason for my depression and i cant deal with it anymore she is the biggegst ***** ever and i want OUT NOW

2007-11-24 15:24:04 · 55 answers · asked by phatmeegan91 1 in Family

I made it through the high school years with raciest parents and being in a white school it did not really affect me.But I'm in college now and I date boys of all races and do not care.The only thing I care about is that they are in college, could care less about their color.My dad does not approve and I just do not bring it up.But when a guy calls me the the first words out of my dad's mouth are is he black? that angers me. I go can I have friends come over, and he goes only if they are white. I watch videos on MTV and he goes you better find a normal boy.I calmly tried to explain my views and i just can not agree with his hatred. He forbids me to date anyone not white. I don't know what to do!

2007-11-24 15:21:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Highschool is full of DRAMA. My friend S takes things out of proportion. One day we were on the phone and she was telling me all of this stuff about how J is such a ho and telling me a lot of sexual things that she has done. And on top of that, S was doing sexual things with the guys that J had a claim on. She said that she didnt care about J and that she was doing that to get back at her for all of the drama that J put us through and that she didnt like or care about her.I basically told her that she was being fake because she would be telling me all of this stuff about her but then get on Facebook threads and tell her that she needs to raise her standards. She didnt like how I was being blunt and honest basically, so she started some stuff that was really stupid but it escalated and it has been two months and S and J are the best of friends. We dont talk to each other anymore. They have got a lot of people against me and it has gone as far as this guy posting embarassing stuff online

2007-11-24 15:20:37 · 18 answers · asked by CocoMT217 2 in Friends

I have 3 growing up children, a boy and 2 girls

2007-11-24 15:15:24 · 2 answers · asked by noy 4 in Family

While it's not that big of an age gap.. only 4 years.. I think our exact ages are the problem. I'm 24 years old, and this guy I'm talking to is 20. He's also a virgin. He really wants something serious, but I'm hesitant.. I'm too old for him, no? We get along great and everything, but I can't help but feel guilty that I've already experienced so many things he hasn't. He should be with a girl his age, right?! I just don't want to feel guilty or like I'm taking advantage of him. Opinions on this are greatly appreciated.

2007-11-24 15:13:11 · 50 answers · asked by jj 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend is away on training but I want to send a message to him that I was thinking of him and that I miss him without using that exact phrase, as I've used it quite a bit. I have to send text messages so my messages have to be short, how else can I send a quick message letting him know that I was thinking of him? I'm wearing "I miss you." out.

2007-11-24 15:13:05 · 4 answers · asked by Cynda32 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy who always bugs me! how do i get rid of him?!?

2007-11-24 15:10:58 · 17 answers · asked by ★ Ðяєäмíŋg Ôυт Łøυ∂ ♥ 6 in Friends

Do you wish more short men would talk to you, or ask you out? I'am a short man myself standing at a very proud 5'7"...lol...I've been told by many girls that I'm very cute and nice...however when I get around tall women say around 5'10"ish, I think to myself there is NO WAY she could be attracted to me. So do tall women wish more cute short guys would ask them out.

2007-11-24 15:04:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What will happen if calll the child abuse hotline on
my boyfriend's father and mother for abusing him repeatedly?
Will I break up his family?
He has two younger sisters and I don't want break them up.
But I'm so worried for his life because he's had biopolar disorder and depression.
Help! Please!

2007-11-24 15:02:58 · 22 answers · asked by gabiehr9 2 in Family

help me please!

2007-11-24 15:02:46 · 1 answers · asked by princessleilel98 1 in Family

2007-11-24 14:57:24 · 21 answers · asked by thinkaspell 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My father has been gone for 16 years. I don't blame my father for leaving, for I know that he had many problems and obstacles to overcome however, I can't say that it has not affected me. As a matter of fact, it affects me everyday. I choke relationships and constantly feel unwanted or feel like I have go the extra mile for people to like me. In reality, people rarely dislike me and i'm always being told that i am a strong person and that it seems like the abandonment has no affect on me. Recently I feel like that I have been tricking myself into feeling like it doesn't bother me. I feel like this is the root of all of my problems. My Mother shut down due to this and following abusive husbands/boyfriends and was rarely able to be there for me. I got into a lot of trouble as a kid. I tried to self medicate with sex. I'm now a father to three sons at 24 and will never leave them. I overcame a lot and am about to graduate college but, can I truly ever overcome the abandonment? how? when?

2007-11-24 14:55:45 · 13 answers · asked by luckyme3435 1 in Family

after I take off this mask(im a werewolf, LOL) I will be going out on my 2nd..well 2nd and a half date tonite....I gave the custom peck on the cheek the first time and got attacked..yea I said it attacked...it was cool:) then I hung out with her for lunch and a little lip action happened....now she is takin me out in her brand new Acura to cruise around...omg...been like 10 months or more since I dated and dont know what to expect next....should I just stick to the kissin aka 2nd base stuff or what. she is a tad younger than me at 23...but she is sooooo sexy hot...great kissable lips...what do I do or expect next...



Ps..we r movie bound /pool shooting???

2007-11-24 14:55:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or any one eles that has that last name that might be related? I'm not a 100% thats how to spell the last name, but its close

2007-11-24 14:55:15 · 2 answers · asked by lee b 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I discussed about love life with my host mom. She is 54 years old. She have had many relationships. She has more than 30 boyfriends. However, they relationships never last longer than 4 years. She love to read romance books---I knew deep down she is longing for the "soulmate" or " true love". Althought, she did not admit.

I told her --she jumps in and out off the relationship too quickly. She does not know how to really love, care, communicate, and compromine with her partners.

She did not respond me.

I am just wondering. From this information. Do you think I am right about this? Please advice. Thank you

I am 22 years old. Of course I want to learn from her mistake.

2007-11-24 14:54:55 · 21 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If your in a realtionship, id like to hear your story on how you met your black gf or white bf. Im white love black woman, and very frustrated..Seems impossible. Hard enough to find a person u get along with in general add race even harder. Ive been approaching Blk woman, can get them to flirt even get numbers, but thats as far as it goes. Most of them havent dated white and dont seem to go for it, or maybe its just me there not interested in fully. ive been looking in good places, at least i think. Girl i really like hasnt dated white, flirts sometimes, gave me her number, but dosnt really seem all that interested! hate this lol..now im ranting. but please share your stories on this impossible happening! lol

2007-11-24 14:53:03 · 5 answers · asked by nblaze2020 1 in Singles & Dating

omg i am like getting sick of my parents!!!! and my brother and everyone else!!!! they just get on my nerves!!!!! Please does anyone else get this way they are so anoying!!!!!!!

2007-11-24 14:52:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-24 14:51:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why on a dating website a 49 year old woman who has been divorced for 2 years, would like to meet a man who is barely in his early 30s?. Serious releationship, physical attraction?, just friends or what is the typical case of woman messaging guys who are younger?. If you are a woman, are you attracted to younger men?

2007-11-24 14:51:44 · 3 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm soo worried that something may happen to him and I just can explain it..he just got called out on a fire a few minutes ago...im just so confused and so afraid for him..because if you have ever seen the movie ladder 49 or if you are a firemans wife/girlfriend you will understand!! PPleasseee helpp!!!

2007-11-24 14:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Westbrook 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend asked me 2 but i said no because i had no things for him to do help.........

2007-11-24 14:47:40 · 10 answers · asked by Ti 2 in Singles & Dating

I've had a big crush on this boy for two and a half years. I think I'm in love. Am I?

2007-11-24 14:46:35 · 36 answers · asked by Victoria S 1 in Singles & Dating

Its for christmas.....and it can be something small but really cute so they appreciate it...and im really good at art so if it involves that im up for it!! i want to give all my uncles and aunts and grandparents something like that too...everything can be similar you know!

2007-11-24 14:45:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom is the one of the hardest working women i know, she puts up with more than she ought to, she's the best. But for xmas all she wants is a spice rack.. and that's all. what is a meaningful gift or gifts to get her? i was thinking a matching heart necklace but i can't find no good ones within 10-30 dollars. what else is a good gift for her?

2007-11-24 14:45:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy and hes hot so i asked him out and he never replied and all my friends are like DEMAND FOR A REPLY!!! well do you think i should i mean i go insane when im near him i just start saying random things and we have gone out before but im still not sure?

2007-11-24 14:43:03 · 1 answers · asked by bri_bri 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating a musician who lives in my apt bldg for about 3 months. The other night we had a conversation on agreeing to be monagamous. The next night when I got home I walked past his apt and heard a girl's voice and loud music, at one point I thought I heard 2 different females and also heard music coming from his studio - really loud. I called him twice and even knocked on his door 3 times, but he didn't answer either. I ignored his msgs the day after and decided to respond to him the 2nd day. I didn't want to blame him for something that didn't happen, so I just asked him what he did that night. He said 2 females - his manager and another artist were over recording new stuff and working. Should I give him the benefit of the doubt? My gut tells me to trust him based on all his actions prior to this which make me believe he really likes me. But, I don't want to be played.

2007-11-24 14:40:48 · 24 answers · asked by Grl6251 2 in Singles & Dating