I've had a big crush on this boy for two and a half years. I think I'm in love. Am I?
2007-11-24 14:46:35 · 36 answers · asked by Victoria S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably an obsession. If it were going to go anywhere it would have already, especially if you've let him know your feelings. It's normal, I went through a couple crushes like that, one that lasted nearly seven years and another that lasted about 5. All they did was make me miserable because nothing ever came of it. If you haven't told him you like him, do it now so you can either get together or get over him. It's for the best.
2007-11-24 14:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two and a half years is a long time. If he's available, let your feelings known otherwise you'll never know what could've been. I let my HUSBAND know how I felt and come to find out he felt the same. Nine months into the relationship we were engaged. Two years later we were married and we now have a two year old little girl. It could happen sweetie!
2007-11-24 14:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats depends on how old are you? If you are in your teens its probably be just a puppy love or infatuation or a simple crush. If you think you're old enough to understand what trully love is, well then its probably love then.
2007-11-24 14:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Blossoms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't even had a relationship with the guy than how could you be in love. It wouldn't matter if you liked him for five years, it wouldn't make a difference. How could you be in love with someone that you've never even dated. No matter how obsessed you are with him or how much you like him, it's still not love.
2007-11-24 14:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun I've been through this one SO many times! It's not easy..but no im sorry you probably arent in love. You probably think you're in love but it's okay not to be...don't rush it. You just have a MASSIVE crush...i know how it feels...just stick through it
2007-11-24 14:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you had it right the first time-crush. The word love gets thrown around too much and has lost its meaning.
2007-11-24 14:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly tell his buddy to you like the guy and spot what occurs. Use this guy who likes you as an in. And if no longer something comes of it, i wouldn't waste anymore time on it. circulate on.
2016-10-18 00:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by olmeda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do have a crush with a guy for about three years, but i definitely not in love with him,
you have to identify the signal
2007-11-24 14:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are in love. although, love has different levels and a variety of magnitude. Just make sure, that you are very well corresponded, otherwise you will bring suffering upon your life.
2007-11-24 14:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by luisvielman@att.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself these questions:
Is he always on your mind?
Do you see him within your future?
If something was to happen and you couldn't see him would you be heart broken?
Would you life be different if you never met him?
Would you do anything for him?
To protect him?
To make him happy?
Does he make you happy?
If your answers to these questions are yes then you are if not then most likely its just a crush.
2007-11-24 14:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by gamegirl11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋