Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

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2007-11-24 18:10:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can't tell if this girl wants to "be friends", or something more serious.

she will always smile and wave at me when ever i see her in the halls.

and during the break between third and fourth period classes, (my school only has four periods) she ALWAYS sits with me, and my friends.
she will always sit next to me, and say "he's mine" to other girls in a joking way, if someone else sits next to me.

the thing is, she loves to point out "oh wow, he's cute" when ever im walking with her.
although afterwards she kind of pauses and looks at me, as if waiting for a response.
i usually just ignore it, because i have no idea how i would respond to that.

buut, i will also see her walking down the halls with other guys, when she is not walking with me.

they aren't the same guys a previously mentioned (the ones she says are cute)

i can't tell if she is just playing mind games, or is actually interested.

i feel like she likes me, but shes very confusing.

any help would be appreciated

2007-11-24 18:09:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went out with this boy, and after about 4 days (we only saw eachother for 2 days) he broke up with me. and then i found ouot he was cheating on me with another girl who didnt even go to the same school. but thats not the problem. i stopped likeing him 1 day after we broke up because he was starting to get too annoying. and after we broke up he told me he still likes me and i tried to give him hints to let him know i dont like him. i said "well im sorry but i heard so and so liked me" and e said "o okay" and then a few days later i found out that person didnt like me and when i told my ex he said "o well im sorry. he missed out. but you can always go back out with me" and he is always hanging out where i hang out even though he annoys EVERYONE there! and its embarassing! but i still dont want to hurt him. but i do want him to stop and move on! or atleast let him know i dont like him anymore. how do i let him know without hurting him though? HELP!

2007-11-24 18:08:19 · 3 answers · asked by bisexualgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal. I have a cousin who is 6 years old, and though she is not a violent child, she is like....a menacing little brat and I find it so hard to like her! I love her because she is my cousin, but I can't stand to be around her, because she is so worshipped by her mother (who finds no wrong in her whatsoever and who wouldn't discipline her if the world depended on it) and so whiney and manipulative. If she doesn't get her way she throws a monster fit (and gets her way of course) and all she can think about is another way to make someone buy her a toy (to add to her collection of 2 rooms full of toys). I am 20 years old and I feel so bad because I feel like I should be affectionate and loving toward this child, but I just can't seem to do it. My mother, sister, father, and all my friends feel the same way about her..and we all feel bad.

What can I do to love this child more? I hate the fact that i dread seeing my own cousin.

2007-11-24 18:06:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There's this funny guy at my work who is always glaring at me to make me laugh. He also trys to impress me and he has smacked me on the chin to get my attention (not mean). We are Juniors in Highschool. But then he will completly ignore me at school..like walk right by me without saying hi and I know he knows I'm there because he walks fast and dosen't turn his heat AT ALL.... it's really confusing

2007-11-24 18:06:19 · 9 answers · asked by Blah 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 18:06:15 · 3 answers · asked by misty p 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a 20 yr old male that has never smoked, consumed any alcohol, never had a girlfriend, and have never even kissed a girl. My slightly younger brother is the same way, except he has never cursed in his life (I rarely do). We both have extremely strong consciences for some reason and there is just no way of shaking that off. It has nothing to do w/ being religious because we are both atheists. I'm thinking it's bad to the point where I need help, but I don't know. Are there any actual benefits to being prude or am I just stuck being a freak?

2007-11-24 18:00:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love my best friends sister, and hes PISSED! I love him like a brother, and he did to. Why is this such a big deal. My best friend loves me, and he loves his sister, The fact that i love his sister should make him happy because two people that he loves love eachother.... right?

2007-11-24 17:59:37 · 9 answers · asked by hi 1 in Singles & Dating

We had the house to ourselves and we were making out, but he didn't try anything. I mean I haven't given him a reason not to. I just want to get some ideas on why he didn't.

2007-11-24 17:57:50 · 7 answers · asked by Brittany 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 17:57:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you like a guy and he found out that you like him and he started to like you back but he didnt do anything?

2007-11-24 17:57:06 · 3 answers · asked by holl_cp 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She broke up with me a little while ago but now she has been sending me flirty messages and called me a couple times. What the crap!, whats going going on?

2007-11-24 17:54:41 · 5 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

I called my friend to hang out, and he said he's going to some party but won't let me come along because he doesn't want to show up with guys...he invited this girl he knows and her 2 friends are coming along too, and I guess he wants to look cool or something by showing up with girls...His friend likes me too so I want to go hang out with her but I can't because my friend didn't invite me...And I told him, "it's not like you're going to hook up with any of them anyways." was that too mean? He drove me to say it because he wouldn't invite me! >=|
So now I'm stuck at home studying for my finals because I don't know anything else going on...I feel like a loser!

2007-11-24 17:52:37 · 26 answers · asked by puffer fish 5 in Friends

i dont no wat to do at all ive kissed my girl but i just dont no how to make out so im scared to mess up i want to make out with her but i just dont no how to make out

2007-11-24 17:51:29 · 26 answers · asked by jok3r 1 in Singles & Dating

when we first became frinds leke just friends type, he tried to hug me once but i told him i dont like guys touching me like that unless i feel close to me. now that we're going out though, he wont touch me! well, at first he did, but then the next day when i spoke to him, he said he doesnt want to caus ehe knows i have limits and he doesnt want me to commit to anything cause he doesnt want anything serious to happen and them have me regret it.
i really want us to be closer in touching, and he said he does to cause he said he really loves me,etc.
so is he saying that just cause he really loves me and is worried things will get out of hand or cause he likes another girl/wants to break up and doesnt want to get to close to me?

2007-11-24 17:51:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok longg story short.

I totally fell for a guy that flirted with me everyday. He was so sweet. I told my friend. Thinking I could trust her not too tell him. Well,,She told him. And she asked him if he liked me. His answer was.."YEAH I LIKE HER. as a friend."

So,,Now im sad because he's probably never gonna flirt with me AGAIN. And its gonna be REALLYY awkward when I have to sit by him in classs. Helpp me. How can I make it less awkward. And how can i stop worrying so much about this?

2007-11-24 17:50:08 · 18 answers · asked by Haleyy<33 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I had a premature baby and my fiance and I are currently staying in a place near the hospital that our baby is in and lately I've just felt really distant from my fiance. Shouldn't I be feeling closer to him while we go through this experience? It's just so difficult to not have someone to talk to about things and how I feel personally. Sure, I talk to him and tell him how I feel...but I know he doesn't fully understand all of the emotions I'm feeling. Plus, we've been getting at eachother's throats and I'm just feeling so sensitive to everything and when I feel like I'm going to burst into tears, I just go into the bathroom. I don't want him to think that I'm "being a baby" or that that I'm "being sensitive".

Aside from all of that...I feel EXTREMELY unattractive right now. Especially since we can't have sex for about another 5 weeks. Plus, I have no sex drive and he does. And, I just feel really bad...I just don't know how to handle all of this. I'm so overwhelmed. Advice?

2007-11-24 17:48:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I`m a happy,confident,very friendly 59 year old man. After I`ve made love to my beautiful loving wife,I turn into some kind of of Hyde character.I`m angry,grumpy,everyones an idiot sort of guy.It`s got to the point where I can`t be spontaneous any more.It takes until the next day to feel normal again. Has anyone out there suffered the same. I`ve been to two doctors,but they do not know what it can be.This has been a problem for over two years now. HELP.

2007-11-24 17:45:26 · 25 answers · asked by spookynat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-24 17:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a person who doesn't talk much. I don't say anything till someone says something to me and when I reply, I keep short and simple. I've been like this since I can remember and tried to change but it didn't work out. But when I get a few beers in my system, I get more outgoing, confident, and happier. I've had girlfriends for the night, yadimean, but never in a real relationship. I don't really mind, but I'm wondering if that's weird or not.

2007-11-24 17:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am asking for ....a friend , yeah thats it a friend

Say the friend is in a long term marriage that has gone sour. His wife stopped having sex with him 10 yrs ago but manages to squeeze in a 1-night stand herself every 6 months or so. The kids are 11, 13 & grown

statistics say that children from broken homes have an increased risk of abuse so my friend doesn't want to put them at risk

Should he stay? How long? or until how old? Should he pursue meaningless affairs to sooth his manly lusts?

2007-11-24 17:41:44 · 27 answers · asked by der_grosse_e 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-24 17:37:45 · 3 answers · asked by rachel g 2 in Singles & Dating

Why does man leaves pregnant wife for a married woman? Read all about it on http://mylittlenewhope2.blogspot.com

2007-11-24 17:35:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've gained a lot of weight. i went from 120 lbs to 180 lbs. and i'm only 5'4. i feel humilated by my weight. this guy likes me and he's only seen me at my heaviest. i just don't understand what a great guy like him could see in a whale like me. also, i get so self-conscious when we hang out with other girls that are skinnier than me.

2007-11-24 17:34:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Their names are ana, brian, markie, and alicia. they all go to the same school and i feel like that sometimes they dont even care about me. i hardly get to see them and they always do stuff together. they never ask me to come with them to the mall or movies. i even sometimes cry myself to sleep.

2007-11-24 17:33:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I came home early yesterday and i caught my husband watching a hardcore porn video where 2 men were haveing sex. He was masterbateing .

Do you think i should be worried?
Do you think this is ok?
Do you think he might be gay or have a gay fettish ?
Should i tell him what i saw?

What would you think if you came home and found your love doing this, what would you do? plz help

2007-11-24 17:32:26 · 16 answers · asked by lessbrain 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend occasionally goes 2 the strip club w/his buddies. They used 2 go ALOT, like every weekend but it has calmed down lately. He usually tells me (@ least that I know of) every time he goes. Also, on occasion he'll get a lap dance. I've gone 2 the club w/him a few times & the more I go the less I like him going w/o me, especially now that I know what types of things go on in there. Every time he does go 2 those types of places w/o me I do tell him how I feel about him going, but I've never tell him not 2 go just b/c of the type of person he is (doesn't like to be told what to do). I mean I do trust him & all, but I admit that theres that little voice inside of me thinkin "what if?", it's just that him going 2 those types of places really makes me uncomfortable, especially now that I've heard some girls will offer more than just a dance.

2007-11-24 17:30:55 · 4 answers · asked by yourstruly 1 in Singles & Dating

She is 20, at uni, is totally financially dependant on my husband and I, although she does earn some pocket money for herself. We seem to be constantly handing over the $ to her for clothes, fuel, entertainment and more clothes, basicly anything she needs and most things she wants. She says "thanks" but shows little appreciation refusing to help around the house in any way even refusing to clean up after herself. I clean up after her b/c I cannot stand the mess. I'm the typical "doormat" mother She accepts little responsiblility for anything, including her pets. I get soooo frustrated but if I confront any issues with her it turns into an argument. I have tried many times to have a reasonable adult discussion with her trying to be non confrontational with no resolution. This situation has been for months and is at the stage that home life is strained for me, the rest of family does not like hearing arguments or the strained atmosphere. How do I resolve this without confrontation

2007-11-24 17:30:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like a guy, he does notice me but doesn't talk to me. Our eyes in the hallway always meet. We look deeply into each others' eyes. But never say anything. I AM WAY TO SHY TO SAY ANYTHING TO HIM! How do i get him to acually talk to me. All my friends know him.

2007-11-24 17:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at what age do men usually want to get married? or start looking for the one.

2007-11-24 17:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by see_n_starz_03 2 in Marriage & Divorce