Their names are ana, brian, markie, and alicia. they all go to the same school and i feel like that sometimes they dont even care about me. i hardly get to see them and they always do stuff together. they never ask me to come with them to the mall or movies. i even sometimes cry myself to sleep.
2007-11-24 17:33:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
their names are ana, briana(not brian, typing error), alicia, and marki.
2007-11-24 17:34:32 · update #1
Maybe because you talk about them behind their back and post their names online?
Just Kidding... but what is the point of telling their names to us?
Are you hoping someone will see this post and get mad at you and run and tell them and make them mad at you or are you hoping someone who knows them will tell them so they can go "Awwww.... " and so they feel sorry you feel that way, and then they invite you along?
My best advice, stop feeling sorry for yourself and ask them directly how come they don't invite you, and tell them you'd like to come along if they wouldn't mind.
Feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to make things any better for you now is it? And, definately posting their names on Yahoo Answers wont help matters.
2007-11-24 17:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by ~Live,Love,Breathe~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them how you feel in a calm, non blaming way, but if they dont want to invite you they wont (do they see themselves as two couples). People are pretty superficial and selfish sometimes - if you are the fun of the party the phone will ring with invitations, if you are not like that it wont. Often with people its 'out of sight out of mind' - if you dont go to their school you are not there when they are chucking around ideas about going out somewhere they are all focused on their own pleasure and might get angry at you for pointing out you are left out. Its not fair or what friends should do, but I have had it happen to me so I know it hurts. In the end you can only be yourself, and carry on with dignity.
2007-11-24 17:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by pete the pirate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would ask them why first and then at least you'd have an answer from them. If the answer was true and you could believe them then problem solved they now understand and will take your opinion in consideration. If they lie when you ask them why then I would just try and forget about them and know that you are the better person for doing that. Otherwise maybe you should find new friends?
2007-11-24 17:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Phamista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOPE around & feel sorry for myself, count my many faults, read the bible & become recluse till it blows over....Seems kinda cruel, but I know all about it too! Maybe if you had a guy friend of your own, they might include ya'll, but if you get a boyfriend you wouldn't need them anyway. It wouldn't matter if they asked you anyway! Don't base your existence on them, or anybody or you will always be insecure. Hold your head up and know you are a good person & have values!!!!
2007-11-24 17:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps call them up and ask them to the mall or movies! It would be a turn around. Sometimes you have to have the initiative to start things so that they fall in your favor. If that doesn't work, then find new friends or a new hobby.
2007-11-24 17:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends just like that and to be honest there not worth your time...i know how you feel and it is messed up to have friends like that....but there are things you can do....make new friends that aren't cheap...or when they come around ignore them...and if you really want true friends go in search for them...true friends are hard to find..but if you set a goal you can find them...i know people these days suck and their cheap...but don't dwell on people like them..you desever better friends...and if you need a true friend i'm right here...
i hope this helps..and i hope you make true friends as soon as possible (^v^)
2007-11-24 18:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by The Undefined RaenBoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright if the girls that you call friends don't care about you or hang out together without you then my suggestion is too move on!.. life goes on diffferently find friends that you could bond with, it's never too late to meet people and get to know them and remember choose your friends wisely kae ..
2007-11-24 19:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by kimmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then they're not true friends. Ditch them and find better friends. You are a valuable person, not some piece of junk your "friends" can use when they feel like it. Do yourself a favor. Find people who appreciate you! :)
2007-11-24 17:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by Melody L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This mite seem harsh but they prob don't like you as much and ths why they don't include you.
You should keep hanging out with them but not as much and go find another group of peps to hang with
2007-11-24 17:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by -Sandy+ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm what jerks!
An ideal friend wouldn't leave you out like that. I suggest you to get new ones. You deserve better friends. :)
2007-11-24 17:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Caylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋