Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

Soo, It's kinda weird, I've known this guy ever since kinder... But he's a year older. And now it's his last year here in my school and NOW is the only time I start liking him -.- Ok so there's this sIut who is in my way because she likes him too but only for "his body" and she notice that he stares at me a lot so out of no where she starts hanging out with me... So now he looks at me like he's disgusted. And I also have a best guy friend who "plays around" with me a lot, and im pretty annoyed... and if i get mad at him he gets even more annoying! And my crush thinks we're together!!! soo he tries to stay away... a LOT of people thinks he likes me but the problem is that slut and my 'best guy friend' -.- AND its his last year here! he's usally really loud and kinda nasty [but all guys are..] but when he's near me hes all "quiet and acts like a 'gentleman.' " [his friend said...] ... but im WAY to shy and these people are in the way and he's shy too and he doesnt have internet access..

2007-11-24 17:19:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say you are walking around somewhere by yourself, what would be the best way for an interested girl to attract your attetion without being incredibly forward?

2007-11-24 17:19:46 · 6 answers · asked by Traumajunkie 2 in Singles & Dating

im 14 and im a classy emo...i dress in black and such but i have the most pretty brown eyes and sexy hair...i am curvy ..........i am nice to everyone and i am a huge flirt....but i do respect every guy and girl.....guys say on the look scale im a 7 and a half is that good?? and .so just by what you just read would you date me?

2007-11-24 17:17:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, you are at a random party with some friends and surrounded by several beautiful girls (I don't wanna say HOT because its too common and superficial). You see a girl you like and you really want to meet her. What's your next move?

Keep in mind that there are to kegs of beer (keystone, yeah I know, I know) at the party.

2007-11-24 17:16:15 · 28 answers · asked by C47V3779 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. We're both 22, Malaysian-Chinese, and studying. Everything was fine between us until last month when we broke things off a bit. He feels that he doesn't want a girlfriend. However, we got back together after a couple of weeks, but things keep running hot and cold. He now feels he doesn't want a girlfriend again, cos it's 'stressful'.

He says he is stressed with juggling parents, work and girlfriend. He's living with his parents and not on very good terms with both of them. His mom hates me and thinks we've broken up a few months back.

At his part time job, his colleagues keep speculating about his love life and 'pairing' him up with other colleagues. He doesn't mention me or that he's even have a girlfriend. I don't visit him at his workplace 'cos he doesn't like people to see him work.

I see him once a week because of studies and work, therefore I don't think i'm demanding or possessive of his time. No other girl, so what's his deal?

2007-11-24 17:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did you know he/she was the one? Did you know you wanted to marry this person a long time before you asked/accepted proposal? What would you contribute to keeping your marriage "happy?" What age do you think is the appropriate time to marry? What would you say to someone you cared about regarding qualities in a mate (make sure they have do this/don't have or do this)......just anything you want to tell me. Thanks!!!! I am doing well single, but don't know very many happy married couples. I want to do it right when it's time.

2007-11-24 17:14:33 · 12 answers · asked by Vicki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well first off me and my sister was really close, like super super close! I made the mistake to sneak behide her back and Date her friend, they wasnt very close but they was friends! Her friend/ my boyfriend is a little older than me therefore we wasnt suppose to be together anyway but me and him, we love each so much! But she got all mad and upset about it, when my mom told her about me and him! My mom found out by someone at school! So this is all crazy! But my point is i said i was sorry for everything i tried making things better, but she keeps finding out about more stuff that i had to lie about to be with him! She has all the right to be upset but theres a piont where you just need to drop it and put it in the past and just move on even if you find out more! I feel bad about all of it , i know i hurt her,I just dont know what to do or say to her! I mean you do crazy things when your in love, you also cant help who you love either! Please give me some advice, thanks!

2007-11-24 17:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by Tierra S 1 in Friends

Ok, there's this guy named Blake, and I liked him pretty much the first time I saw him (we're 2 years apart) and he told my friends that he liked me the first time he saw me too. But I didn't tell anyone because I thought it would be weird for me to go out with him since he's 2 years younger.

His friend told him he had no chance with me, so he asked out my other friend and I was devastated, I cried for hours over him. But then over the summer after they broke up he asked me out and my friend said she didn't care so I went out with him..but only for a week because he did something stupid so I broke up with him..

But ever since he's been all I can think about it seems like. I don't know what to do...should I tell him what I told you guys and try it again? Please give advice! Thank you so much.

2007-11-24 17:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by ♣swirley_gumdrops♣ 4 in Singles & Dating

is this a good thing or bad
um im not fat or anything but yea just wonderin

guys is it a turn on or turn off??

2007-11-24 17:06:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

www.myspace.com/armyftcky

I am looking for a smart, goal oriented, attractive, clean Intelligent girl and I am trying to change my image I just changed my myspace picture but I do not know if that is the best one to attract the type of women I want. I know this is a vain request but I thought I would ask anyways.

2007-11-24 17:06:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my ex broke up with me, I went to his best friends younger sister who I happen to work with. This girl is seriously a sister to him/known him her whole life. I asked if he was like this with all girls. He dumped me due to lack of time. She said hes not worth it, he spends too much time on work and college and doesnt care enough and he always does this. He was shocked she made that comment but it made me feel better. What do I make of this, I want to believe he isnt a bad person but idk?

2007-11-24 17:05:40 · 12 answers · asked by liz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 17:03:15 · 42 answers · asked by Awesome 1 in Singles & Dating

please heelp and dont just do it for creds

2007-11-24 17:01:40 · 4 answers · asked by essence w 1 in Friends

I was so head over heels in love with this guy and I totally felt like we connected...but he basically rejected me, ive been trying to get us to hang out for awhile ...but it was just never a good time. Then finally I text messaged him n asked him out, he never responded..so i thought maybe he didnt get the message so i msged him on msn ...and apparently he did get the message. i felt kinda hurt cuz he didnt even make the effort to call me, msg back or even msg me on msn or facebook. So i asked him again but i could tell he didnt really care to hang out n said "maybe we'll have to postpone this to another time" which is his response everytime ive asked him to hang out. i feel so heartbroken n sad. I dont know how to move on n forget about him? n stop wishing we'd be together?

2007-11-24 17:01:16 · 16 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been dating for about a month. Everything's great except sometimes he doesn't call when he says he will. He'll say "I'll call you tomorrow" and he doesn't.

Sometimes it's two days later. Should I let him know it makes me feel bad? I look forward to talking to him, and when he doesn't call, I'm really disappointed.

2007-11-24 16:58:22 · 14 answers · asked by monicanena 5 in Weddings

my girlfriend and i were really good friends and hung out everyday, because it was someone who went threw the same thing and was going threw the same thing.....and we were both single moms....now she has a bf, and its like KK WHO? and im happy that shes happy, but i wish she had something more to talk about then her man.....am i jealous that she has a bf and has less to offer then i do...or is it just in my head? i want to be a good friend about this but i dont know how. i have never been the single one and its been 3 yrs now, when am i gonna right mr.right it isnt fare.

2007-11-24 16:56:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Apparently when a girl finds this out she finds a mans heart- Awww xx

2007-11-24 16:51:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had this amazing boyfriend. He was sweet and just treated me great. Then he got a bit down and started doing oil pot shrooms k x soft. And he's completely different. He says he stopped but i think he's lying cause he's still...different..its like i dont know him anymore. He doesn't care about me, about him or anyone. Can drugs really change a person like this? I can't help him. I tried and he just ignores me. So. Should i just move on? do you think if he gets clean he'll come to his senses? Please dont reply means things :) thanks

2007-11-24 16:48:08 · 22 answers · asked by Lena 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-24 16:45:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's the sweetest person alive, and he always says he misses me, and he says how amazing i am.
He's a virgo, and for those of you who arent into astonomy, virgos are very difficult people.hhaha.
He' s never said "i love you" to a girl.
We're both 15.
We've knows eachother for a long time, and are really close now.
So he said this while we were in the pool, and alone, and he was turned on and everything, and he's like "i would never have sex with you though, not now, we're too young"
And he's like felt me up and stuff. His mom even told him she would buy him condoms if he wanted, so he's allowed to have sex!
DOn't get me wrong, I'm not a nympho i dont want sex now either, but its just the first guy whos said that.
so i guess my question is, does he say that because he respects me?
or, why would he say that? if guys could help me, that'd be great.

2007-11-24 16:41:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance' and I have been together nearly two years and engaged for a month, so he and I don't have any solid plans yet, but we're thinking a wedding in May '09. That would give us time to get things in order (finances, careers, etc). At that time I'll be 20, and he'll be 23. Well, everything was fantastic until tonight. His brother gave his girlfriend of less than six months an engagement ring and she's already made it clear that she wants to get married before Spring '09, so their wedding should be sometime in November '08. Is it wrong for me to be so upset by this? I feel like they've stolen my fiance' and my moment, that they cut in line. I don't cry, but I feel like crying. What should I do? His brother's fiancee' has always talked about how she wants to get married before she's thirty, but she's only 28, so she would still be withing her "time limit" if she married after my fiance' and me.

2007-11-24 16:41:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend thinks its something against him. i like cuddling, i like sexual activity, i just really dont like kissing. toungues are creepy to me, i hate bad breath, its just so gross to me. we're 20 and i've never been a big kisser. we like peck kiss and stuff but i just dont like making out. is this ok, or should i kiss him anyway?

2007-11-24 16:37:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been crying every day and I miss him so much, he was like my big brother to me and he was. He was always worried about me. He was my neighbor and I miss him so much. its almost two weeks since he past away it hasent been the same without him. How long will it take for me to heal? I love him so much and miss everything about him =(

2007-11-24 16:31:50 · 8 answers · asked by J WEEZY LOVES NIKKI R.I.P. 1 in Family

I met this girl that works at my local walmart. I like her and believe that she likes me but dont know for sure and have no way to find out. I went up there one day to do some shopping and she started talking to me like she might be interested. Went home that night and started messing around on the net and came across her profile totally by chance. Sent her a quick note and she added me to her friends list but never replied. A few days later I asked her out via email (since I dont go to walmart that often) and it took her a few days to read it once she did she still did not reply. I would like to know one way or another if she likes me but dont want to appear pushy or look like im stalking her. So what is everbodys thougts on if she likes me or not? What should I do next (anything)? Keep in mind that I am terribly shy.

2007-11-24 16:30:47 · 4 answers · asked by ncmudslinger 3 in Singles & Dating

I am moderately attractive and people tell me that I am very funny.
What are a few tips on how to get girls to like me?

2007-11-24 16:29:22 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Uncle who's my mother's brother married a woman who is now my aunt. Now this aunt has a niece is the niece related to me? I get confused w/all the relative stuff... thanks for any help.

2007-11-24 16:28:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 16, i have a almost 9 year old half sister. I usually say sister but this involves HER mother. Okay when i was 11 i saved up the money for a cell phone and 3 months for the bill. (metro pcs 1 flat rate every time) When i asked my Dad, whom i lived with since i was 6, if it was alright for me to have a cell phone he said "no, you are too young to have a cell phone, when you turn 13 maybe but not until." So i griped but got over it. For my 13th birthday (Aug 3rd) i got a cellphone. Then when the next year (nov) My dad came and said okay Britt i can pay your cell because i wont have enough for Tori(half sister) and Kyles (Brother) birthday and x-mas too. So no problem daddy deal was he was going to get a new 1 in Feb that year. Well i never asked for it and no longer asked for one until a few weeks ago when i started working.I needed one. But i dont have enough for my health insurance (50 a month) and a cell, he said i cant afford it. Oh well. NoT DONE

2007-11-24 16:27:21 · 3 answers · asked by Pretty & Stupid bad combo 2 in Family

so i love this girl, Mellissa.
she loves me

i cant stand being without her. i feel like im going to die
she feels the same

but the problem is, i cant stand being with her, like i feel everything is soo wrong

despite how much i hate being with her, its IMPOSSIBLE to explain how miserable i am without her, i mean i LITERALY look down a 6 story building off the roof barely holding myself from going over because im not with her.

(i was without her since july i dated 2 other girls. i CANNOT just get 'over her')

please help, and i am reading all the comments, so take your time answering, please

2007-11-24 16:25:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=ArBGCF_VXC6EQ0q068StAvLOxQt.;_ylv=3?show=a515b724fb543ce0ef073f8fee9ae275aa

is he really THE myspace tom, or someone who just likes practical jokes? or, more appropriately, tomfoolery. =P

2007-11-24 16:24:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has left us for the 2nd time in two weeks. He avoids any kind of conflict like the plague. He also has real anger problems. He says he loves me but just can't deal with the communication problems we have. Help!!

2007-11-24 16:21:44 · 6 answers · asked by maria f 1 in Marriage & Divorce