Ok, there's this guy named Blake, and I liked him pretty much the first time I saw him (we're 2 years apart) and he told my friends that he liked me the first time he saw me too. But I didn't tell anyone because I thought it would be weird for me to go out with him since he's 2 years younger.
His friend told him he had no chance with me, so he asked out my other friend and I was devastated, I cried for hours over him. But then over the summer after they broke up he asked me out and my friend said she didn't care so I went out with him..but only for a week because he did something stupid so I broke up with him..
But ever since he's been all I can think about it seems like. I don't know what to do...should I tell him what I told you guys and try it again? Please give advice! Thank you so much.
2007-11-24 17:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by ♣swirley_gumdrops♣ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only problem is it's been 2 months after we've broken up.
2007-11-24 17:21:21 · update #1
it seems to me that you don't know what you really want, I assume you are quite young, if you let a mistake cause you to end a relationship so quickly then I don't think you are really ready to be dating. However this is just my opinion so don't hate me because of it. If you absolutely feel that this is what you want then by all means talk to the guy, however I would advise to go into the relationship cautiously, don't be quick to do things and don't be so quick to end it either.
2007-11-24 17:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by the_last_knight_69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all 2 years apart is nothing. My ex bf was four years apart and things were awesome. And second, Why not go for it? Just admit to him that you think you made a mistake and ask him if hed like to hang out. Im sure he will give you another chance,but if not you will have to move on. If hes all you think about quit just sitting there and talk to him again! dont come on too strong,but defidently go for it and ask him to hang out. I wish you luck
2007-11-24 17:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Maddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he did something that you can honestly forgive him for doing, then by all means call him and give him another chance. If he is the only thing you can think about, you have that feeling for a reason. Just make sure you really want to do this and have really forgiven him for messing up otherwise your relationship will go nowhere. Best of luck to you.
2007-11-24 17:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by becca311 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two years isn't that big of a difference. And the older you two get the less of a difference it makes. But why would you break up with someone you really liked? That seems strange unless the two years means that he's truely too immature for you and doesn't know any better.
2007-11-24 17:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Chimerage D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him even if it's been two months. As long as he hasn't found someone new, it's fine.
It's either that or get over him. If the stupid thing he did isn't too serious, then there's no big problem with asking him.
2007-11-24 17:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by ♠Jay♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg almost the same story wiht me. i liked this guy and he liked me too, but he wsnt sure if i liked him he went out with my friend, they broke up, and he asked me out. after like two weeks we got into a fight and we've been on and off for the past month.
now were kinda together agoin, and i found in this experience letting him know how i felt fixed things the best. you cant expect him to apologize or get back together with you if he doesnt know how you feel. also ask him how he feels so youcan understand him. dont dump blame in him, blame things on yourself and apologize first then he'll hopefully feel bad and guilty and apologize too.
2007-11-24 17:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that what he did was really stupid and you dont want that again..
when he agrees, tell him what you told us and tell him that you were hurt when he asked your friend out because you tthought he liked you.
and 2 yrs isnt that much apart....
i have so many friends dating older guys or younger guys .
2007-11-24 17:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, are you okay with the 'stupid' thing he did that caused the break-up? Okay for him to get 'stupid' again? If so, start slow with your relationship and let time tend to the rest.
2007-11-24 17:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by lulusbuggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it was a mistake breaking up with him, and ask if he can give you another chance, if not as a girlfriend, then just as a friend.
2007-11-24 17:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the ages? If your in high school and ur a senior and hes a sophmore i guess thats fine but if ur in middle school or younger that would be akward. And yea go for it.
2007-11-24 17:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋