Ok well first off me and my sister was really close, like super super close! I made the mistake to sneak behide her back and Date her friend, they wasnt very close but they was friends! Her friend/ my boyfriend is a little older than me therefore we wasnt suppose to be together anyway but me and him, we love each so much! But she got all mad and upset about it, when my mom told her about me and him! My mom found out by someone at school! So this is all crazy! But my point is i said i was sorry for everything i tried making things better, but she keeps finding out about more stuff that i had to lie about to be with him! She has all the right to be upset but theres a piont where you just need to drop it and put it in the past and just move on even if you find out more! I feel bad about all of it , i know i hurt her,I just dont know what to do or say to her! I mean you do crazy things when your in love, you also cant help who you love either! Please give me some advice, thanks!
2007-11-24 17:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by Tierra S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't sleep around
2007-11-24 17:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, you don't do crazy things when your "IN LOVE". That is a very immature attitude to take about love. If you really knew the difference between love and lust then you would not be having this problem with your sister. You prove you don't love your sister because you continued to screw her over by lying to her and destroying your relationship with her. You’re in lust with a BOY who doesn't seem to care about either of you. If he did he would have put a stop to the relationship before anything started. A MAN would care and respect the wishes of the friend, not the fact that he was banging his friend’s sister.
You still have a lot of growing up to do. You first need to start by dumping this slime ball of a boy and amending things with your sister. Next you need to spend more time growing up and respecting how others feel about their relationships, be it friend or otherwise. Next stop lying and accept some responsibility for your actions. Your sisters mad because you have not accepted responsibility for destroying the relationship you two have had. You just want to forget about the whole thing and move on and not face what you have created. YOU are the one who created this problem, not your sister. Accept the responsibility. Next, you need to have a serious talk with an English teacher about your use of the English language. The phase "They wasn't" "Me and him" they really rub against the grain for people who have graduated not only high school but graduate school as well. This pretty much sums up the rant.
2007-11-25 01:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by gearnofear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should just try being honest with her, and not letting her find out things from other people. Why not try telling her something that would affect her before telling someone else. I think you should have talked to your sister first, and let her know that you were interested in her friend. Do you think maybe your sister have feelings for her friend and never let it be known? I think you should sit down and have a serious talk with her and really be apologetic from the heart. No man should tear apart a sisterly relationship. You two need to mend your relationship. I would also suggest that you be careful dating this older guy.
2007-11-25 01:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by Nita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your sister, you need to sit down and talk with her, but mainly you need to LISTEN. I know you like this guy, but your sister feels very betrayed right now and you have to respect that. I can't tell you what to say or do to make things better, but your sister can. Be open and honest with her and ask her what you can do to make things right. You should always put your family first because relationships come and go. Just go to your sister and work things out, but don't be defensive and allow it to get into a fight. Best of luck to you.
2007-11-25 01:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by becca311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have messed this one up to badly. Every time that she thinks its over, she learns of some other lie you told her. At some point she has to decide to never trust you. Learn from this and be more honest with your friends from now on. You may not control who you love, but you can control the crazy things you do
2007-11-25 01:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I not really sure if this might work but try to find a time when you two are alone and then sit down and talk to her about how you really feel about her friend/ your boyfriend and you didn't know that they were really close friend and stuff like that to make here understand. I know exzactly how you feel...I've had a situation like that that happen to me recently...
2007-11-25 01:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHA
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2007-11-25 01:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by C47V3779 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHY DIDN'T YOU JUST TELL HER THE TRUTH ONCE SHE FOUND OUT. SHE IS HURT THAT YOU ARE STILL LIEING(BY OMMISSION).
2007-11-25 01:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by KYMBRLEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your sister!!!!! tell her everything, give her a hug. TALK TO HER!
2007-11-25 01:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Summer Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shell drop it dont worry about it
2007-11-25 01:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by zack and jeremy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋