I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. We're both 22, Malaysian-Chinese, and studying. Everything was fine between us until last month when we broke things off a bit. He feels that he doesn't want a girlfriend. However, we got back together after a couple of weeks, but things keep running hot and cold. He now feels he doesn't want a girlfriend again, cos it's 'stressful'.
He says he is stressed with juggling parents, work and girlfriend. He's living with his parents and not on very good terms with both of them. His mom hates me and thinks we've broken up a few months back.
At his part time job, his colleagues keep speculating about his love life and 'pairing' him up with other colleagues. He doesn't mention me or that he's even have a girlfriend. I don't visit him at his workplace 'cos he doesn't like people to see him work.
I see him once a week because of studies and work, therefore I don't think i'm demanding or possessive of his time. No other girl, so what's his deal?
2007-11-24 17:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, girl.
He's just keeping you around because you are too hung up on him and it makes him feel good about himself. Stop feeding his ego. Don't call, write, or talk to him anymore.
2007-11-24 17:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by teresa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, sounds like he's just stressed. having a girlfriend is nice and all but sometimes a guy feels like he has to please her (adding on to the stress). that's what i've been told by my brother and guy friends. that's how i feel too.
he probably just needs some time alone for a while like maybe a semester or something. i've been single for that reason, once i'm done with my studies though, maybe i can deal with the stress that comes along with dating.
2007-11-25 01:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just told you.. it's too stressful for him...
Just cause for you it doesn't sound so bad that doesn;t mean it's the same for him... everybody is different... so have a little dignity and just honor his wish... leave his ***. He's not interested.... he won't even mention you... what kind of relationship is that?
2007-11-25 01:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by BitterSweet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you stay in situations that make you unhappy.
this is one that does make you unhappy
so you should just break it off.and when he really and truly feels he can give you what you want them that when you guys can be together again.
yeah you probably love each other but sometimes you have to think with your mind and not your heart
2007-11-25 01:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by kingml213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him he already has moved on emotionally.
2007-11-25 01:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋