I was so head over heels in love with this guy and I totally felt like we connected...but he basically rejected me, ive been trying to get us to hang out for awhile ...but it was just never a good time. Then finally I text messaged him n asked him out, he never responded..so i thought maybe he didnt get the message so i msged him on msn ...and apparently he did get the message. i felt kinda hurt cuz he didnt even make the effort to call me, msg back or even msg me on msn or facebook. So i asked him again but i could tell he didnt really care to hang out n said "maybe we'll have to postpone this to another time" which is his response everytime ive asked him to hang out. i feel so heartbroken n sad. I dont know how to move on n forget about him? n stop wishing we'd be together?
2007-11-24 17:01:16 · 16 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't forget and yet don't remember, just stay in between. Trying to forget make it worse, just live everyday to the fullest. It's more of a challenge to say forget someone. I got rejected too, it was hard I'll tell you. Time will make you forget all about it and you'll lose the feeling for him. In the meantime , go and try find thing you like to do and when you think of him just do it. He doesn't deserve you and you shouldn't feel shattered over a guy that doesn't care about you. Best of luck :) and wishes.
2007-11-24 17:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by YooH8M3? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule that a person has to accept everyone that expresses interest in him or her.
Rejection is a natural part of life. The best you can do is accept it and learn from it.
Try not to invest too much emotion into a person before some sort of relationship is established. This may require you to ask someone out sooner (when it won't hurt so much if you are rejected).
-RNG
2007-11-25 01:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Reformed Nice Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are concentrating too much on this one guy and I think he would only be a problem for you in the long run. You need to raise your self esteem and make new friends and you will find someone who is more interested in you, and will make you happy. I will give you a web site that may help. read that over and then start to find new things to keep you busy so that you don't have time to think about this guy and you will find someone better for you, and be happier as well. Good Luck to you!!
2007-11-25 01:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you're nuts...
Stop wasting your time on 1 guy. You can't do much more than you've already done to make hi like you.
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Only time will heal you... but go out on a REAL date with another guy..
If you do this.. 1) You will forget about the old guy and 2) The old guy will start texting you after he sees you're not chasing him anymore.. then he will want you.
2007-11-25 01:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but you kind of sound like a stalker. You probably scared him off! If he didnt want to hang out with you the first few times you asked that should have clued you in that something wasn't right, like maybe in rt he has a girlfriend. Get rid of him and start over with a different guy, but don't be a stalker!
2007-11-25 01:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by banger_sisster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U have 2 move on with ur life k i no it sounds hard but its not trust me if been thro that type of junk lots of times and it fells alot better when ur over with it take my edfise and move on.:)..
Hope this helps if it don't im srroy:(
2007-11-25 01:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by hugesmile0313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy thats hot and better to be around. He may be the cutest one in your eye today but tomorrow is another day look around there must be someone else
2007-11-25 01:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by bsufanforlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your friends...Friends are there to help you forget...try to do things..make yourself busy so that you will not think much of that person...
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2007-11-25 01:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Volets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to let him go. you wont want him to hurt you more do you? you should try to hang out more with friends. look for somebody who's worth it.
2007-11-25 01:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just shake it off it will be hard but you don't want him to know that it hurt you because he said no so just act like it doesn't really bother you that he responded that way.
2007-11-25 01:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by christina b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋