my girlfriend and i were really good friends and hung out everyday, because it was someone who went threw the same thing and was going threw the same thing.....and we were both single moms....now she has a bf, and its like KK WHO? and im happy that shes happy, but i wish she had something more to talk about then her man.....am i jealous that she has a bf and has less to offer then i do...or is it just in my head? i want to be a good friend about this but i dont know how. i have never been the single one and its been 3 yrs now, when am i gonna right mr.right it isnt fare.
2007-11-24 16:56:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it does sound like you're a little jealous. Maybe because you've kind of lost your friend and maybe also because she's found what you would like. But if you honestly asked yourself - you don't just want ANYONE - you want someone who's right for you and your kids - so you can't just settle.
If it would help you maybe you could tell her that you're so happy that she's found someone but that when she talks about it all the time it makes you feel bad - if she's really your friend she'll understand and make an effort not to talk about him all the time. But as HER friend you should be supportive because you'd probably be as excited as she is if you had a new boyfriend.
2007-11-24 17:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Chimerage D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Right does not exist, you need to settle down. What you need is a respectable man who would be there for you. There are good guys out there, they are not perfect but they are willing to try. Be happy for your girlfriend she's just excited to have found someone special.
2007-11-25 01:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find your Mr Right. I promise.
How long has she been seeing him? After about 3-5 months shell still love him, but I'm sure she can find something more interesting to talk about.
2007-11-25 01:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find yours too!! just be happy for your friend you will see that is the best way to go about it!
2007-11-25 01:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be jealous, just worry about yourself, u will find mr right too
2007-11-25 01:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋