Lost a love one?

Question

I've been crying every day and I miss him so much, he was like my big brother to me and he was. He was always worried about me. He was my neighbor and I miss him so much. its almost two weeks since he past away it hasent been the same without him. How long will it take for me to heal? I love him so much and miss everything about him =(

this one song is always on the radio and it always gets to me every time I hear it I start crying in tears because it remember me of him so much. The song is called No one by Alicia Keys

GOD BLESS YOU

im only 15 and its so hard, I still cant beleive it I miss him so much but I know god took him to heaven for a reason and it was faith

Answer 1

He must have been a very special person to hold such a place in your heart.
They say time heals all wounds, but in some ways it just blankets the pain. You never forget.
The best thing you can do for his memory is to think of all the good times and laughter you shared with one another. And don't think of him as being gone......they are always with us to remind us of them.
You will hear random laughter in a crowd that will sound like his.....or you'll see someone that looks just like him from behind.
And if you have to pretend your stuffed bear is him, and hug him and talk to him in that way, then do it. Write in a journal if you need to.
Just don't stop living yourself.

Answer 2

You will cry for a very long time. This is just the way it is because you miss having them in your life. I can't say it is part of the healing process because I don't think you ever heal. I lost my Father, Mother, and Husband within a year. That has been almost 10 years ago. I know I will never ever be the same person I was. I know people thought I was losing my mind. I think I didn't want to let go. Seemed like everytime I went out the door I was headed to the cemetary. It was Father's Day, Mother's Day, Memorial Day, etc. Finally one day I came to realize that the cemetary was for the deceased not the living and I quit going except for Memorial Day. I decided that I should start celebrating their life and quit mourning their death afterall their was so much more to them than just their death. I know that they have just gone on a trip ahead of me and one day we will be together. Everybody handles grief in their own way so you have to do what works for you. As for how long, it gets easier with time but after 10 years I still cry from time to time. LOL

Answer 3

My Dear, Your healing depends entirely Up to You. You Must start thinking now about "all" the good times You Had together. You must Talk about Him to someone close or someone who also knew Him. Talking about Him Is a very good Medicine. Keep some Pictures Sitting Out on the Mantel Of Him. You are showing Him Honor....The main thing to do......(you may not like this) .....Is to get out among friends or People. (not couples) If someone else invites you to a movie, or dinner... You should go. Life must go on for you....And ask God to Heal Your Hurting Heart, HE WILL. I will Pray for You, also. God Bless.

Answer 4

I lost the love of my life in 1996 from cancer. It helped just to not rush myself thru the grieving process. I took flowers to his grave, spent time alone to heal and never went out with friends or other guys until I could handle it.
The grief made me feel sick to my stomach. Especially when other men would call me up to ask me out since they knew I was single again. They were like vultures.
It takes time to heal. 2 weeks is not nearly long enough.
I am sorry about your loss.

Answer 5

Your going through something that is hard and its normal for people to feel sad for quiet awhile. I mean you've lost someone you obviously cared about. If I can offer any advice is to take your time and think about the good things you had with that person and be thankfull that you spent it well with them. The next step would be to move on. I mean I'm sure that the person you lost would not want to see you in this state for too long as you wouldn't want to waste valuable time living your own life.

Believe sister, Believe!

Answer 6

death of a loved one is never easy, nor do i think it will ever go away, however i think that may if u care or do something for someone he also cared about, this might help or how about doing something that u both enjoyed with someone else so that they might feel that same enjoyment. I recently lost my mum in feb, and i always cry, it sounds crazy but things that i took for granted or things that i didn't think would make me cry do, a song,tv show,just a walk in the park. i will keep u in my prayer's and may god bless you in your time of grieving.

Answer 7

I am sorry for your Loss, I know how it feels when you lose someone you cared about and spent time with. You are asking how long it might take for you to heal, from the Pain of loosing him? Sometimes it might take more than a year for someone to at least come to terms from losing someone near and dear to them, maybe it might take some months for you to at least feel somewhat better. For me it still has been more than three years and 8 months since the Murder of my Grandson, when I think of him it is like this happened some days ago. I went into depression and had to make myself accept this nightmare, if I wanted to go on living, I still have some crying spells when his Face comes into my mind,but I had to go on with my life, and accept that God is the one who is going to do justice for his Killing, not Men, since this happened in a foreign Country. God is the only one who gives us Life, and the only one who will take it back. But we all are here for a purpose and we have to go on living,until we are all together again. Think of the good times you both shared, together, and that will make you to accept his passing.

Answer 8

I'm truly sorry for your loss. I can somehow understand how you feel. I lost my mum some time back and when she died, I thought that I had nothing more for me to look forward to. It took me about a year to be able to accept her death, thanks to friend who was there for me. I also prayed for her, and I believe that she sent me her blessings from heaven. I can't tell you how long you will take, but just pray for your friend and somehow things will turn out okay for you.