my boyfriend thinks its something against him. i like cuddling, i like sexual activity, i just really dont like kissing. toungues are creepy to me, i hate bad breath, its just so gross to me. we're 20 and i've never been a big kisser. we like peck kiss and stuff but i just dont like making out. is this ok, or should i kiss him anyway?
2007-11-24 16:37:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I f you dont want to make out with him dont becuase it makes you unconfortable. Just kiss him and not make out
2007-11-24 16:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by korielovesyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your own thing and find someone who is ok with that. Or learn to like it enough to get by. Personally, I would be ok if the only kissing I did was "pecking"..... if the sex was good and frequent. Maybe more intimate behavior, if your ready (married) would solve the problem. Good luck.
2007-11-24 16:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is really a wonderful activity, if you are worried about bad breath just make sure you both have breath mints or minty gum before you kiss.
2007-11-24 16:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Not kissing is pretty strange. It sounds like the hooker in Pretty Woman - she would not kiss since that implied she cared. You need to get over this fear. If he has bad breath, he can brush his teeth and tongue and he can use scope. I am sure he would if it helped you get along with him. Making out will grow on you.
2007-11-24 16:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Amy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, go for counseling, girl! Kissing is great!
If you don't enjoy it, maybe there is something lurking in your short past that is haunting you about it....like say, an older man coming on to you at an early age....you may not even remember it.....but your subconscious will....anyway.....keep trying......I cannot
see a great relationship happening without kissing involved!
2007-11-24 16:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you comfortable. If your boyfriend has bad breath, bring it up to him in a kind way - you'd be doing him a favor. If you explain your feelings to him and he doesn't take them into consideration then he's not really a good boyfriend. If he's understanding, then maybe you can try to meet him half way.
2007-11-24 16:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont kiss if you dont want to. Not everyone likes everything. Its perfectly normal. If he has bad breath, give him some gum or mints before you kiss him, he should get the hint.
2007-11-24 16:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by GisL4all 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of a rule that you kiss him if you expect him to have sex with him, you don't want him to get the impression that all you are looking for is sex. Little kisses are just small signs of showing someone that you do like them, not just what you do with them (in my opinion=])
2007-11-24 16:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, bad breath is a total turnoff!
The tongue thing never interested me.. yuck..
I would say just stick with the pecking..
and if he happens to wonder why one day, just tell him how you feel about it.
2007-11-24 16:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by ebjeans07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own...but actually if it is the breath and style of kissing you object to then change it. Get mouthwash or breath mints and use those...then explore other kinds of kissing...they don't have to be a gapping mouth, swallow my tongue, sloppy style to be satisfying.
2007-11-24 16:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by SkyLights90N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its something thats really important to him, & you really care about him you should try it.
Just make sure he brushes his teeth, or make him chew some gum or something first.
Maybe you think its gross, because you haven't made out with the right person.
i thought it would be gross, until i did it with this BOMB *** kisser, after that i lovedd it.
So open ya mind a little.
Ya never know.
2007-11-24 16:42:23 · answer #11 · answered by BEEZYHEAD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋