Ok longg story short.
I totally fell for a guy that flirted with me everyday. He was so sweet. I told my friend. Thinking I could trust her not too tell him. Well,,She told him. And she asked him if he liked me. His answer was.."YEAH I LIKE HER. as a friend."
So,,Now im sad because he's probably never gonna flirt with me AGAIN. And its gonna be REALLYY awkward when I have to sit by him in classs. Helpp me. How can I make it less awkward. And how can i stop worrying so much about this?
2007-11-24 17:50:08 · 18 answers · asked by Haleyy<33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion: don't retract your statement, or lie about what your friend told him. When you see him again, and he asks if you said this admit it. But say that your friend betrayed your confidence and placed you in a difficult position. Tell him you think he is very attractive, but doesn't mean you were prepared to act on your attraction at that time. Also, that you hope this doesn't change your acquaintance.
2007-11-24 18:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by HotDockett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't screw anything up. I was also in the same situation as you once and currently in one.
There is nothing you can do about the awkwardness. Only thing i can tell you that helped me out about the awkwardness is either keep flirting with him just for fun, or stop taking things seriously stop thinking about the awkwardness.
Sometimes attraction takes time, keep the flirting and eventually he will grow feelings for you. You have to steer the flirtation to a more sexual side of course or else it will just be a friendly sort of flirting.
If he truly did like you he would have made the moves, he is a guy afterall.
2007-11-25 02:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Apex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it be awkward. You can't change what happened...your secret is out. However, you do at least know where you stand with him...he likes you as a friend.
Now you can relax and act like you would toward any of your guy friends. You don't have to guess what any of his actions or the things he says mean anymore. You can take everything at face value. And you know never to tell your friend your secrets!
Be polite; if he flirts with you, flirt back if you want to, but just realize he's probably not taking your relationship any further. Just act as if your friend didn't say anything to him. This will put him at ease and hopefully avoid any awkwardness. He will also see you as a lady in control of her emotions.
Good luck!
2007-11-25 01:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A. Pretend it never happened, like your friend made it up
B. Flirt with other guys around him in that class and pay barely any attention to him, see how he reacts. Chances are he'll get jealous. Dont ignore him, but dont flirt. If he asks for a pencil hand it over and say you need it back after class. However, if the cutie in front of him asks...well, have some fun. If you cant flirt with guy #1 anymore, move on!
2007-11-25 01:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Aryn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You two are friends so not all is lost. Maybe he does like and doesnt want to admit to ur friend. You could just pretend it was a joke and blow it off or u canadmit that it is really how u feel but ur happy to settle just being friends. Good luck
2007-11-25 01:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask the guy out! If it's a 'yes' go for it. If it's a 'no' then it'll probably get more awkward. If it gets more awards just leave your problems behind.
2007-11-25 01:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anoush 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a "friend" to him, show him how nice a person you are and that you can be more to him than a friend. If that does not work out. Tell him you are now going to spend more time with more of your friends and won't have time for him anymore.
2007-11-25 01:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by Duke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just pretend like nothing happened.
It will only be awkward, if YOU make it awkward!
Next time you see him, act normal.
This will show your confidence and honestly, it might bring out something in you he never noticed (In a good way)
Just forget it, and don't let it get in the way.
2007-11-25 01:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by ugotheanswers? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to say, but you are screwed. You should have waited until he flirted more and more until he did like you and made his move to ask you out.
But since you have to sit by him and he was flirting with you, it's now your turn to flirt back
Good Luck Girl!
2007-11-25 01:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say OOPS and go on. He evidently likes you. So it will probably pass like the wind (any embarrassment). Just be yourself and Quit worrying.
2007-11-25 01:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by lulusbuggy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋